08/09年度 K1A 上午班 (KENT RD.) 報到!!

PRESTONMOM

Good morning!!!

Preston also went to bed around 9.30 pm..but always come to my room around 10 pm...and wanted to sleep with me.. ..even  sometimes he sleeps until 4 am..he would come to my room...
Do your kids sleep by themselves???

iamjackie

My schedule will be 9:15am tomorrow. as i need to hurry up on the Tomlee course at 10:00am megabox. so, i guess we cant meet.....:(

seems most of the children will have the same eating problem...but just all ppl around us are not the same....thats why it always make us unhappy / upsad when we hear anythings against our daughter/son...

my mother in law just told me Wing Tung is so naughty yesterday...i really dont know why Wing Tung's mood always out of control, she will cry and crazy suddenly and non-stopping... sometimes, i cant control my EQ, i must shout against her...sometimes, i will just let her cry on the floor until she feel tire and stop herself...but must take long time....this problem has been improved a little bit when she's growing-up but still continue...my friend told me i need to attend some course on how to communicate with child...seem i really need to try....otherwise, not Wing Tung crazy...is myself...haha

but, when she stay in school, i m sure she is a good student when she faced teacher...she got "double faces"....

原帖由 LittlePau 於 08-10-24 10:18 發表
All parents,

Sorry not talk with you earlier as I have headache keeping these two days.  Since we have no maid and older parents living together, it is hard to take care Pak Yin.   Regarding leave pr ...

iamjackie

haha...same...

i need to sleep with Wing Tung in her bed until she slept, then i can go ...but always need around 30 min to 1 hr...so, it's hard to accompany with her ...
and then, during midnight, sometimes, she will shout, then i need to go to her bed and sleep with her again...sometimes, she will come to my room and sleep besides me...it's really depends on her mood... so, everynight, i dont have a comfortable sleeping time...that's why i have a big "dark cycle eyes"...haha

she always say, cant sleep with herself as she feels scare even maid sleep with her at the upper bed

also, even she will wake-up during the mid-night, she never call me go to we we, she still we we in the pamper...really hard to improve...

原帖由 PRESTONMOM 於 08-10-24 10:48 發表
Good morning!!!

Preston also went to bed around 9.30 pm..but always come to my room around 10 pm...and wanted to sleep with me.. ..even  sometimes he sleeps until 4 am..he would come to my  ...

weewee

Hi parents!

Our schedule tomorrow would be 11:10am and we have to hurry up for Tomlee class on 12:00pm. Guess that we won't have chance to meet tomorrow. Probably we will meet on 16/11 the earliest.

iamjackie,
Him Him sometimes will get crazy and out of control. Now, I try to ignore him, no talking, no facial expression and simply treat him as transparent. Most of the time, he will give up himself and come to me and say "Sorry, mami". I hope this way could still work...haha...

iamjackie

Weewee,

yes, right now, i am trying to do the same as you but sometimes, i also cant control my EQ....too bad

sometimes, really dont know what do they think...
for eg, Wing Tung enjoy dancing very much..and she went to school for dancing during summer holiday weekly, but after summer holiday, she attend the normal course, right now, she refused to go and cried.. she always say too many student she doesnt like...but i find shouldnt be...but she still enjoy dancing whenever she likes and wherever she goes...what i can do now is...talk to her again and again but not force her to attend...hope she will change her mind one day....

原帖由 weewee 於 08-10-24 11:20 發表
Hi parents!

Our schedule tomorrow would be 11:10am and we have to hurry up for Tomlee class on 12:00pm. Guess that we won't have chance to meet tomorrow. Probably we will meet on 16/11 the earliest.
...

soon_chu

my son is Hing Lok (LokLok) also study in K1A...
我剛剛先見到有這個topic......
我睇吓先知完來呀仔好都無講......我唔知佢分生果組...同埋睇barney & noddy

hello ! Preston ma........ i saw u before at school on the first day. (

PRESTONMOM

I believed most kids have eating  problems...only that some kids do not show when eating out with unfaimliar people....such as my son...sometimes he behaved so well in front of teachers and some others...but at home..我不知死幾多細胞......and he pushed my EQ to the limited.....if i am still a full time mommy...i think i need to see 精神科Dr. ...
i really respect those full time mommies...

quote]原帖由 iamjackie 於 08-10-24 11:05 發表
My schedule will be 9:15am tomorrow. as i need to hurry up on the Tomlee course at 10:00am megabox. so, i guess we cant meet.....:(

seems most of the children will have the same eating problem...but ... [/quote]

weewee

Him Him has exactly the same problem! When he sleeps on his own, he will wake up a few times a night. Every time when he wakes up, he will cry and shout "where is mami?" and therefore I need to wake up a couple of times per night. so.....it ends up that he sleeps with us together and he can sleep very well the whole night.

I'm trying to resume to let him sleep in his bedroom when the weather is getting cooler 'cos in previous time in the summer, when we switched on the air-con and close the doors, I can hardly hear from his calling (our maid is sleeping in another room, he sleeps himself in his bedroom). So, we would try to open the door to sleep in coming days and see if he can sleep on his own..but I know it's difficult...ai

原帖由 iamjackie 於 08-10-24 11:13 發表
haha...same...

i need to sleep with Wing Tung in her bed until she slept, then i can go ...but always need around 30 min to 1 hr...so, it's hard to accompany with her ...
and then, during midnight, s ...

weewee

Hi soon_chu!

Welcome! Nice to meet you!

Yes, we always chat here to exchange secret information...haha...

My boy is called Chun Him (Him Him).

原帖由 soon_chu 於 08-10-24 11:31 發表
my son is Hing Lok (LokLok) also study in K1A...
我剛剛先見到有這個topic......
我睇吓先知完來呀仔好都無講......我唔知佢分生果組...同埋睇barney & noddy

hello ! Preston ma........ i saw u before at sch ...

PRESTONMOM

Hi soon_chu,

did we meet at the Orientation day ???Welcome .....we chichat here often to find out more about our kids' school life?...u come here often la to exchange our information....

原帖由 soon_chu 於 08-10-24 11:31 發表
my son is Hing Lok (LokLok) also study in K1A...
我剛剛先見到有這個topic......
我睇吓先知完來呀仔好都無講......我唔知佢分生果組...同埋睇barney & noddy

hello ! Preston ma........ i saw u before at sch ...

weewee

But I really know the kids of some of my friends...they really like eating and therefore food can be an incentive to them to do other things.

However, for Him Him, it seemed that there is no incentive to speed up his meal time....headache....

原帖由 PRESTONMOM 於 08-10-24 11:32 發表
I believed most kids have eating  problems...only that some kids do not show when eating out with unfaimliar people....such as my son...sometimes he behaved so well in front of teachers and some other ...

kattang

Good morning!  Take long to go through your message.  No need to worry, I know one kid of my friend (she is now 8 yrs old) also not interest in eating esp. don't like sweets / chocolates, but she growth like a normal girl (in middle size).

原帖由 LittlePau 於 08-10-24 10:18 發表
All parents,

Sorry not talk with you earlier as I have headache keeping these two days.  Since we have no maid and older parents living together, it is hard to take care Pak Yin.   Regarding leave pr ...

kattang

Anson is not willing to sleep by herself , we need to assign anyone to sit beside her bed, then she will feel safe to sleep, otherwise she will cry.  However, starting from this Wednesday and after my serious argument with her, she can sleep alone without any crying.

On the Wed. night, she cried for us to accompany her to sleep.  I refused and ask the maid to leave the room for a shower.  She then cry and non-stop even I talked to her and gave her the reasons.  So, I used an ruler to beat her hand once and beat her again for every 3 seconds countdown if she do not stop crying.  After 5 beats, she stopped crying but she was very angry with me and shouted "我Lout你呀"........after some repeated arguments and cry....I leave the room and she fell into sleep becoz too tired.

Yesterday before she go to bed, I told her none of us will accompany her to sleep becoz we are not ready and not yet have a shower.  She said OK and really she did it.  I am surprised and happy that she really understand us. (P.S.  We played very happy yesterday and she has no angry feeling on me all the day)

原帖由 PRESTONMOM 於 08-10-24 10:48 發表
Good morning!!!

Preston also went to bed around 9.30 pm..but always come to my room around 10 pm...and wanted to sleep with me.. ..even  sometimes he sleeps until 4 am..he would come to my  ...

kattang

Your method on Tungtung is same as what my mother used on me in my childhood.  I suggest you not to let her cry until she stop by herself.  This will make her more easy to cry for any wrongs in future like me.  

My Anson's character is same as me too.  So I know the method to deal with her, haha!  I will fixed a place (her bedroom) for her to cry, she will then need to cry alone in the room (I will close the gate and her eyesight cannot reach any person) and I told her I will only let her out after she stopped crying and said sorry to me.  Amazing, she usually can stop crying within 1-2 minutes.  Let's try this method on Tungtung if she 摟計.

原帖由 iamjackie 於 08-10-24 11:05 發表
My schedule will be 9:15am tomorrow. as i need to hurry up on the Tomlee course at 10:00am megabox. so, i guess we cant meet.....:(

seems most of the children will have the same eating problem...but ...

iamjackie

it's good to hear that Anson can try to sleep with herself...hope Tung Tung can be later....

waiting them to fall in sleep is really a big problem. until today, i still have watch the new programme of TVB .....haha...but know we need to give-up our private time to accompany with them....

原帖由 kattang 於 08-10-24 12:21 發表
Anson is not willing to sleep by herself , we need to assign anyone to sit beside her bed, then she will feel safe to sleep, otherwise she will cry.  However, starting from this Wednesday and after my ...

iamjackie

Thanks Kattan, i also tried this before...but i m little bit worry to leave her alone inside the bedroom..etc. as everytimes, when Tungtung cry...she will crazy to shout and just throw whatever she touch...so, even i let her stay alone, i will ask my husband to have a look (sometimes)...
i told and explained to  her many times, what's result will be if she always throw whatever she touch...etc she seem understand at that moment.. but will forget next time...but i will try to control myself to explain to her again and again..hope i can...


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kattang

I checked with Anson, she said "bean bean" is a doll that Miss Lin played and will pretend to collect their snack box.  I asked her why Preston have to help you to fight away the "bean bean", she said Preston finished the snacks and the "bean bean" is going to collect her snack box...haha!

原帖由 PRESTONMOM 於 08-10-23 12:39 發表
i believed so.....Preston said it is a doll at school...haha i believe it is a kind of game they played at school

kattang

Anson like to sit in nice posture recently.  She said Miss So and Miss Lin will ask them to sit well and should put both hands on their legs.  She said she did well today in classroom.

Today's snack to Anson is Chocolate biscuits.  After she back home, I checked her snacks box and found she finished all of them.  Then, I asked her whether she like today's snacks or not.  She replied NO becoz it is chocolate.  I wonder why?? She said Miss So and Miss Lin said chocolate is "hot air".

OIC.....

kattang

oic, then maybe you need to set her free in bedroom and ignore her angry to throw everything in room (of coz you need to mess up those easy-broken items in advance).  Let's check after she stop crying and then give final warning to her verbally to avoid her from throwing things next time.  If next time, she throw things again, then punish her by the numbers of items she threw (can be stand for 5 mins for 5 items / use an ruler to beat 5 times for 5 items / 沒收 all toys for 1 day -- most effective if she loves toys).

"沒收 all toys" is also a very effective approach that I have adopted to Anson to help her get rid of pampers....haha!

原帖由 iamjackie 於 08-10-24 14:59 發表
Thanks Kattan, i also tried this before...but i m little bit worry to leave her alone inside the bedroom..etc. as everytimes, when Tungtung cry...she will crazy to shout and just throw whatever she to ...

[ 本帖最後由 kattang 於 08-10-24 15:57 編輯 ]

kattang

Welcome, Hing Lok ma!

Don't be worry, if you talk to him more, I believe he will be happy to share his school life with you soon.  Just find a good timing (relax and happy atmosphere) to talk to him.

原帖由 soon_chu 於 08-10-24 11:31 發表
my son is Hing Lok (LokLok) also study in K1A...
我剛剛先見到有這個topic......
我睇吓先知完來呀仔好都無講......我唔知佢分生果組...同埋睇barney & noddy

hello ! Preston ma........ i saw u before at sch ...