〔KTS〕 2008年小一家長入嚟傾吓啦

littlehipo

Kachuuma,

I totally agree with Bluesky999. One of my relatives has taken some contingency plan for her son when her son was P.3. Her son is now studing P.6.

For reference:

As long as my relatives knew her elder son was not concentrate in the study. The teacher always complained the kid e.g. not submit the homework on time, always not concentrate during the lesson and the student book's remark is similar to our P.70 was always full. But the kids was then classified as "資優生". So, what's the next?

The school cannot withstand the behaviours of that boy when he was studing in P2. The school suggested promoting him to P.4 directly. My relatives refused. When the boy was in P.3, my relative was changed her full time job to part time job (only work in morning session.) My relative has more time to teach her boy's homeworks and his behaviour. Maybe the boy felt more love from the family. The parent's won't give up and pay more attention to his boy because his boy was extremely naughty and did not follow any instruction before. My relative found one of the merit was the boy loved reading books.

But in P.4, a big change was happened ==> the boy changed the school.

Starting from P.5, my relative had quited her jobs concentrate and forcus on her son.

As far as I know, the teacher, tutor, family and his friend had made big influence to the boy. I know, in the world, everyone is special. Try to observe some merits from your kids, build up his confidence, work independence, then will be succeed.



Littlehipo  

原帖由 kachunma 於 09-3-21 18:54 發表
多謝大家的意見,其實我仔除周一外,一至四在校上課外活動和補課班,回家巳五点幾,跟着換衫食D野,補習老師巳到,但由於我仔太心散,做得又慢,往往補習時間內,D功課只做了少許,所以有補習=無補,而我老公叫他做功課,他又諸 ...

carsondaddy

Kachunma,

My Ka Tsun also had the similar problem in the 1st term, but not as serious as yours.  Every night he finished the homework just before dinner.  On the parents day of 1st term, we told the class teacher about this.  She suggested a penalty for him: his big recess was forfeited and he had to do his homework while all others could go out to play.  It was a very effective penalty.  Remember this penalty continued a few weeks and then his behaviors changed a lot.  Now he can finish more than half, sometimes even 80% (when there are just 2-3 items that day) of the homework at school.  And he will do his homework soon after he comes back home.

I suggest you talk to your class teacher too.  She may have a better way to help.

原帖由 kachunma 於 09-3-21 18:54 發表
多謝大家的意見,其實我仔除周一外,一至四在校上課外活動和補課班,回家巳五点幾,跟着換衫食D野,補習老師巳到,但由於我仔太心散,做得又慢,往往補習時間內,D功課只做了少許,所以有補習=無補,而我老公叫他做功課,他又諸 ...

YIYIKO

Hi bluesky999:

家庭補習要在6點前完成,包括做好作業,網上練習和溫習.之後是小朋友的自由時間.

好犀利、好羨慕。
我那位大少

YIYIKO

請問各位：

中文科測驗 : 補充課文一  [即是什麼]

請問有無工作紙 [五] ，可否e-mail給我。

Yanma2002

littlehipo,

原來係Blokus,我已經買左,真係好好玩. Thanks!

peony2002,

好彩英數占5%,我囡兩頁都要我教,仲教到
.

1A班,

明天記得帶實工.

原帖由 littlehipo 於 09-3-20 22:40 發表
Yanma2002,


The english name of that game is "Blokus". You can visit the following websites for details:-

http://www.blokus.com/en/blokus.html

http://www.gameplan.com.hk/big5/a4/ProductList.asp

玩 ...

Yanamami

That's why I told you:  If your son has million of excuses not to do his homework, tell him he is not going to do it.  He'll has to explain to the teacher by himself.  I did the same to my daughter.  I wouldn't ask her to do her homework more than 2 times.  If I asked the 3rd time, she is not allowed to do it.  She learnt the lesson when she needed to explain to the teacher.  You have to be hard-hearted b4 it's too late.  All kids have many activities after school and as Ben2004 said, time management is very important.  Your son will soon learn that if he concentrates, he can finish his homework fast and he'll have more free time to enjoy.  Trust (mp) and me, we went through the same situation years ago.

原帖由 kachunma 於 09-3-21 18:54 發表
多謝大家的意見,其實我仔除周一外,一至四在校上課外活動和補課班,回家巳五点幾,跟着換衫食D野,補習老師巳到,但由於我仔太心散,做得又慢,往往補習時間內,D功課只做了少許,所以有補習=無補,而我老公叫他做功課,他又諸 ...

[ 本帖最後由 Yanamami 於 09-3-22 21:15 編輯 ]

peony2002

Kachunma,

原來你經已請了補習,咁你仔係咪唔聽補習老師支笛?否則無理由做唔哂d功課(當你補習時間是1hr).叫補習老師惡d,我覺得你應set d rules俾佢,例如一定要在補習時間內完成功課,就算完成唔哂,都要完成了要教o個d先.老師走了之後就做那些抄寫的,一定要在晚飯前完成.如果這個老師攪佢唔掂,就換過一個治到佢嘅.有時,對小朋友真是不能太心軟,只要習慣養成了,日後就不用再勞氣.

原帖由 kachunma 於 09-3-21 18:54 發表
多謝大家的意見,其實我仔除周一外,一至四在校上課外活動和補課班,回家巳五点幾,跟着換衫食D野,補習老師巳到,但由於我仔太心散,做得又慢,往往補習時間內,D功課只做了少許,所以有補習=無補,而我老公叫他做功課,他又諸 ...

[ 本帖最後由 peony2002 於 09-3-22 22:37 編輯 ]

peony2002

真係好消息!!

原帖由 小桃兒 於 09-3-21 17:48 發表
得意媽,

Don't worry. 英數 is only counted 5% (the max) of the test.

bluesky999

星期一到四我小朋友3點40分到屋企,佢第一時間衫都沒換馬上開電腦看卡通,多啦A夢,貓和老鼠,寵物小精靈等.全部都是普通話或日語中文字幕(大陸網頁)4點15開始做功課,平時在學校都完成七八成,為佐要繼續看卡通基本上唔使半個鍾做完,4點45又上網繼續看卡通,5點15就做網上作業,溫習和看課外書.有時做下課外練習到約6點.之後自由時間,常常邊食飯邊看電視.香港人的習慣自己都想看 .空餘時間玩高達摸型,准時九點上床.我用意是使小朋友做事有規律.小朋友為佐要做佢喜歡的野做功課會越做越快,開始有的難,要用鬧鍾叫停,之後習慣佐就唔使.我完全同意carsondaddy和peony2002的意見.

原帖由 YIYIKO 於 09-3-22 19:11 發表
Hi bluesky999:

家庭補習要在6點前完成,包括做好作業,網上練習和溫習.之後是小朋友的自由時間.

好犀利、好羨慕。
我那位大少

[ 本帖最後由 bluesky999 於 09-3-22 22:23 編輯 ]

littlehipo

Dear 1A parents,

Please bring one VCD tomorrow for computer lesson. My boy tells me to remind you all now.


Littlehipo

jc_mom

My daughter will arrive home at around 4pm, then she will eat some snacks and watch disney channel for a while.  After that, she will do the homework online and the school homework.  However, in order to play and continue watching tv, she will do it fast but WRONG and ugly, without using the heart to do it.  Since my maid didn't know how to check her chinese and math homework, we have to wait until I come home from work and ask her to  correct all the mistakes.
If I let her play for longer and start doing the homework after that.  I found that she still hasn't completed it when I arrive home at 7pm. She said she feel tired and sleepy. She even complained that there were a lot of homework.  She is so trouble la and said I am mean.

原帖由 bluesky999 於 09-3-22 22:10 發表
星期一到四我小朋友3點40分到屋企,佢第一時間衫都沒換馬上開電腦看卡通,多啦A夢,貓和老鼠,寵物小精靈等.全部都是普通話或日語中文字幕(大陸網頁)4點15開始做功課,平時在學校都完成七八成,為佐要繼續看卡通基本上唔使 ...

cheungmp

對唔住都要講句, 佢個補習老師絕對係唔掂啦, P.1嘅功課應該15-30分鐘已經可以完成, 記得我仔嗰陣可以係學校做晒 tim...

其實我仔都試過拖長d時間做功課, 我就買個計時器, 例如佢開始寫中文詞語, 5個, 每個寫3次, 即係 total 15個字, 我就同佢計時, 佢居然可以用超過15-30分鐘完成, 仲係d字好醜 跟住我比佢睇個時間, 再計吓佢係我面前寫一個詞語要用幾多時間, 佢特登拖長黎寫都半分鐘唔洗仲寫得好靚, 即係呢樣功課應該5分鐘就可以完成, 跟住再問佢之前用多左嘅時間係做咩....佢梗係知衰啦.....計左幾次已經唔洗計時佢都可以快d做完.....

當然啦, 佢做得好一定要獎下佢地啦, 至於獎咩就你地最清楚喇

大家要養成做得快嘅習慣, 我仔而家仍然做得快+係學校做咁d, 但係仍然要約1個鐘先可以完成, 因為小三嘅功課係明顯比小一多d架

原帖由 peony2002 於 09-3-22 21:37 發表
Kachunma,

原來你經已請了補習,咁你仔係咪唔聽補習老師支笛?否則無理由做唔哂d功課(當你補習時間是1hr).叫補習老師惡d,我覺得你應set d rules俾佢,例如一定要在補習時間內完成功課,就算完成唔哂,都要完成了要教o個d ...

kachunma

唉！你們有所不知啦！我仔寫字的速度,真是慢得嚇死人,寫得又慢又醜,唔好話個補習掂唔掂先,連我陪他做功課,最快我計過時,都要成一個半小時才可完成,這先最頭痛！

原帖由 cheungmp 於 09-3-23 10:41 發表
對唔住都要講句, 佢個補習老師絕對係唔掂啦, P.1嘅功課應該15-30分鐘已經可以完成, 記得我仔嗰陣可以係學校做晒 tim...

其實我仔都試過拖長d時間做功課, 我就買個計時器, 例如佢開始寫中文詞語, 5個, 每個寫3次, 即 ...

peony2002

咁我想問,佢平時在學校測驗/考試,做唔做得哂份卷??堂上要完成即堂交的ws又做唔做得切呢??

原帖由 kachunma 於 09-3-23 11:59 發表
唉！你們有所不知啦！我仔寫字的速度,真是慢得嚇死人,寫得又慢又醜,唔好話個補習掂唔掂先,連我陪他做功課,最快我計過時,都要成一個半小時才可完成,這先最頭痛！

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cheungmp

佢係一路寫一路發呆定係已經好努力咁寫??

呢個係一個大問題, 如果佢寫得咁慢, 默書跟到嗎? 測考完成到份卷嗎? 小三作文要交200字咁佢點算?

原帖由 kachunma 於 09-3-23 11:59 發表
唉！你們有所不知啦！我仔寫字的速度,真是慢得嚇死人,寫得又慢又醜,唔好話個補習掂唔掂先,連我陪他做功課,最快我計過時,都要成一個半小時才可完成,這先最頭痛！

...

Yanma2002

無聽阿囡講要帶?

原帖由 littlehipo 於 09-3-22 22:55 發表
Dear 1A parents,

Please bring one VCD tomorrow for computer lesson. My boy tells me to remind you all now.


Littlehipo

peony2002

嚮未看到littlehipo's message 之前,我問我女駛唔駛帶,佢話唔駛  .不過上一堂帶左回校,佢都可以搵唔到(在書包) ,結果佢仲懶醒話用隨書附送那張都ok啦,搵唔到都唔緊要喎!

原帖由 Yanma2002 於 09-3-23 12:34 發表
無聽阿囡講要帶?

1429

Yanma2002,

Yes, because they cannot do anything in the last lesson and postpone to do it today again.  Actually, according to my son, he said they just need to try to put the disc in and open it in the computer only!

原帖由 Yanma2002 於 09-3-23 12:34 發表
無聽阿囡講要帶?

Yanma2002

Kachunma,

希望大家建議對妳有幫助。多D鼓勵囝囝，佢一定又進步，讚多D啦。

我囡都唔係好得好多，不過如果佢進步少少，我就好誇張咁讚佢，如佢當日一早完成晒功課，我就話無可能，邊有小朋友可以咁快完功課，妳估超人咩，佢話我就係，咁佢下次又會快DD。當然唔係次次得。 大家多D分享會好D。

我深信無蠢小朋友，只有想偷懶的小朋友！

原帖由 kachunma 於 09-3-23 11:59 發表
唉！你們有所不知啦！我仔寫字的速度,真是慢得嚇死人,寫得又慢又醜,唔好話個補習掂唔掂先,連我陪他做功課,最快我計過時,都要成一個半小時才可完成,這先最頭痛！

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Yanma2002

1429,

OMG!  

原帖由 1429 於 09-3-23 12:47 發表
Yanma2002,

Yes, because they cannot do anything in the last lesson and postpone to do it today again.  Actually, according to my son, he said they just need to try to put the disc in and open it in t ...