好擔心...醫生話BB發展遲緩~~

tin_tin

12312

hinhinmummy"
囝囝上次都玩了我成個星期呀, 一到睡覺時間就是我準備不停同囝囝"探熱"   
(現在囝囝又咳了. 哎)   


all mama;
頭先囝囝拉我去"廁所" , 自己跟手拉開廁板, 我就比凳凳墊高囝囝等佢自己上去"尿尿", 佢是第一次主動拉我去廁所炸.

tin_tin

12312 寫道:
all mama;
頭先囝囝拉我去"廁所" , 自己跟手拉開廁板, 我就比凳凳墊高囝囝等佢自己上去"尿尿", 佢是第一次主動拉我去廁所炸.

Great!! It's a good start!!  

陸美爸

呢幾日的心情就好像天氣般...灰灰暗暗

hinhinmummy,
軒軒好番未？

tin_tin,
太原街我都買左一大盒木製火車玩具(仲未開黎玩過...), 百幾蚊一大盒, 仲有好多配件...好抵....
我仔仔係青蔥幼兒訓練, 我都係琴日至知語言訓練係要另外申請的 , 唔通又要等成年至有, 你仔仔排第八, 我諗仲有排等呢.......我排幼兒訓練(全香港島/平日)係舊年8月開始排, 10月果陣排第七, 今年1月排第二, 但竟然要到依家(五月)至有位

陸美媽

four44

陸美媽

言語訓練同私人爭150蚊 ，但私人比錄影，你不如考慮下啦! 你亞仔都開始講野，不用擔心啦!

我之前係 長沙灣有上 協康的大肌小組，導師很好，大約100一堂，一星期一次 一時間一堂  不過對你黎講就遠小小，可以考慮下! 你巴士去金鐘轉一程mtr

JOANNA722

陸美媽
點解心情...灰灰暗暗?  為仔仔訓練煩惱嗎?  語言訓練你心急的話未去私人果d,唔唔駛等咁耐!  不過, 過多幾個月佢都有i 位啦! 為何咁煩呢? 係呢! 佢介片攪成點呀?


hinhinmummy
軒軒退晒燒無!

陸美爸

four44 & JOANNA,

唔知點解, 突然感到對仔仔前路茫茫, 好像連下一步要點行都唔知...... :cry:

可能黎主任既離開影響卦, 琴日都幾次眼濕濕 ......學校裡的追思閣....學校的通告.....悼念卡....     

我諗等星期五評估完再作打算吧 :cry:

希望快點有好天氣啦....

陸美媽

four44

陸美媽

見步行步囉! 都冇得諗，之前諗餐死入咩幼稚園入咩小學，「晒」氣)))))))))))

tin_tin

陸美媽,
我排(全香港島/Sat), 咁有排等 law  
Did you queue for ST there at once? Is your son attending private ST too?

The st only visits my son's I-seat nursery once a month. So, I need to continue private st la.  

12312

陸美媽:
點解"港島區的青蔥訓練"排咁耐既? 我記得我是上年11月尾見評估, 今年 2月后上traning"平日".(678 是sat. 好過我囝囝平日 5:00)
hinhinmummy:
軒軒點呀?

all mama:
昨晚囝囝吾肯穿"片片" , 我唯有幫囝囝"介片" .   

小艾比

HI ALL,
其實自上星期六開始, 在我心中日日都係似黑色暴雨的心情.

上星期六見遙遙班主任, 佢話遙遙控制情緒好差, 理解力弱, 初時叫佢名字無反應, 亦以為佢聽覺有問題, 但日子耐了就好些, 可是亦對某聲音才有反應, 例如: 平時帶開佢老師才有反應, 如其他班老師叫就無反應, 又唔係肯對人人打招呼, 好痴身, 成日要拖住某老師, 又話遙遙遲鈍成日喊, 又講遙遙現在係對間學校適應咗小小, 但根本不能講佢有進步, 一埋說話我都唔係記得太清楚, 但好肯定的係佢講如果遙遙仍無進步學校會遲些同佢做評估, 咁可能遙遙不適合留響現在呢間學校要佢退校WOR, 又話可能根本遙遙係唔適合讀主流幼兒園, 要讀一些特殊學位如S位等, 又話可能連I位都唔適合佢........... 唉, 當初又係呢間學校主任叫我一定要簡呢間學校, 學校會幫我, 點知果日個班主任又咁講, 我好唔開心, 我要講清楚我並不是因遙遙行為而失望, 係對間幼兒園. 我認同可能遙遙比學校一些麻煩問題, 如痴身, 不懂表達(講話)而導致成日喊, 但我一心一意寄託學校, I位又派到呢間學校, 但佢班主任比我感覺好似唔想收遙遙咁又冇愛心耐性, 我已聯絡叫我選I位個主任問佢究竟發生咩事, 但佢好忙仍未回覆我.

我以為阿女已經適應晒間學校, 因為佢已日日肯食飯, 訓覺又訓兩粒幾鐘, 係因為未有言語溝通所以冇表達(喊), 冇社交, 我真係唔覺佢有MUD問題, 大佬呀冇問題就唔需要去大口環比醫生做評估啦, 阿女仲細想佢點JE...........我同陸尾媽心一樣感覺前路茫茫.  不過琴日同稚言治語傾過電話, 心情都好小小咋.

各位我都係過了一個非常唔開心的母親節呀.

JOANNA722

tin tin
The st only visits my son's I-seat nursery once a month...............咁少既, 我個仔果間, 每月有兩次, 但如果有公眾假期都會係得一次!

陸美媽
仔仔既野唔担心得太多, 為有做晒自已可以做到, 可以比到既野佢, 日後都無愧, 你仔仔入學唔係好耐, 無咁怏睇到好大轉變, 比多d耐性啦, 佢只係遲緩好快追得返.


黎主任的事不要太過難過, 人最終都要走, 在乎活得精彩過, 我估佢係一個好稱職的主任, 人生 也曾精彩過!

gigi2

陸美媽 & 小艾比 ,

After reading your messages (lots of messages found in our topic after not reading for a while!), I feel very sorry for your encounters but hope you will not be too sad about this.  Our children always behave sometimes good sometimes bad which frustrate the parents very much.  This is only the beginning, they will perform better after structured training.  Give you and them some time!

Regarding those nursery schools, this is no regret for you to give up if they cannot handle your child or they are lack of love and patience to help you anymore.  I also tell this to myself - tomorrow Heep Hong staff will take class visit to my girl's kindergarten and will discuss with the principal/teacher what they're going to do - want me to give up or really want to help.

Don't be so sad as we must have way out!  

mrsphcheung

Dear 陸美爸,
Sorry for being nosy.  Why not stay in the existing school?  I have compared some I seat schools before and conclude that our children's school is the most caring and supportive.  Although its curriculum may not be as competitive as some kindergartens', the teachers are very very good indeed.  

If someone asks me which I seat school is the best in HK island, I will recommend this one.

If you have not got the I seat, you may just wait for it.  I did it before.

Only if your child can find a much better place to study, don't change.  

four44

小艾比

我都試過你既情況，當時主任就話想幫我，但班主任就叫我退學，咁我都退左學，好明日你有幾唔開心....

IvanLai

Hi All,

我都有幫仔仔報青蔥幼兒訓練(自己慳D，買D平嘢)，4月25日報名(隔星期做)，過咗幾日就有姑娘叫仔仔5月23日返第一堂，我住Tuen Mun嘅。另外今日好嬲，仔仔在三月中見過姑娘後距今已兩個月，諗住打去問吓幾時可以見醫生做評估，點知個姑娘竟然話排版無寫要安排醫生做評估或社工排早期訓練。聽到真係好激氣，咁我就同佢講番當日的情况，佢話叫姑娘打啤我。咁即係話，我呢兩個月咪係度白等。

tin_tin

小艾比,

How long have your girl studying in that nursery? How come the teacher talk to you like that! From the conversation, I can see she deson't have experience about special child. Don't give up! Maybe she's the only bad teacher in the school. Other teachers may be good. Talk to 叫你選I位個主任 to know more about the details. If they think your girl need S seat instead of I seat, you can consult the social worker if you can change to another nursery.

tin_tin

JOANNA722 寫道:
tin tin
The st only visits my son's I-seat nursery once a month...............咁少既, 我個仔果間, 每月有兩次, 但如果有公眾假期都會係得一次!

I'm very surprised when I know about that. Most school has ST visit twice a month. This nursery only has 6 i-seat. Will it be the cause?

稚言治語

IvanLai 寫道:
點知個姑娘竟然話排版無寫要安排醫生做評估或社工排早期訓練。

唔會啩？﹗咁都得﹗
我估如果佢哋自己錯，係可以照你上次見姑娘個日期排返，唔需要白等兩個月，不如個姑娘打嚟你問清楚可唔可以"插隊"。

稚言治語

根據社署規定，每個I位小朋友如有需要接受言語治療(因為有些I位小朋友的語言發展沒有大問題)每年起碼有18個小時的個別訓練。除開12個月，每個月有1.5小時。如果每月一次，就要一次過做個半鐘，所以不少治療師都會分兩次，每次45分鐘。

但這個計法是以全區(約216個I位小朋友)計算，即是治療師有權決定哪個小朋友需要多點服務(當然要講得通)。

如果想知道為什麼每個月只有一次，不妨問問I位老師呀﹗

tin_tin 寫道:
[This nursery only has 6 i-seat. Will it be the cause?