自己算是中產, 都送小朋友去讀學卷幼稚園, 因為:

mskw

wellmax 發表於 16-12-14 23:16
果然係行家：）
不過我有感樓主知識貧乏，我費事解釋咁多俾佢聽啦，好似對牛彈琴咁！
講真，I bankers 能擁 ...

係呀，可能樓主真係好辛苦先得到佢嘅專業，所以真係覺得好自豪，我都係so called 專業人士，人工唔比佢少，資產比佢多，但我E D portfolio 係Ibank 入面只係一粒麈，不過我唔會去羡慕人或白眼人地，因為比上不足比下有餘，係公司亦見過好多自卑演變成嘅自大，無他嘅，每人目光同世界唔同，有時我反而覺得大部分人（包括自己）就係俾香港嘅世態困住，大學畢業搵份專業嘅工，再進修升職，細個覺得咁先有前途，大個先知咁只係create 個 comfort zone 打死一世工！facebook 教主，李+誠都無大學畢業，佢地唔洗考試唔洗拎牌唔可以叫專業，但佢地係奇才。但香港就係咁，你讀唔成書果一刻就會俾人label, 所以我地又好辛苦咁供書教學，之後下一代咪又係行返自己條路，雖然係咁，但有幾多個可真係鼓勵小朋友做佢鍾意嘅事，唔鍾意讀書俾佢退學。所以我都會為左升小而揀我覺得俾到最好 training 嘅私幼俾小朋友

wellmax

原帖由 mskw 於 16-12-14 發表
係呀，可能樓主真係好辛苦先得到佢嘅專業，所以真係覺得好自豪，我都係so called 專業人士，人工唔比佢少 ...

講得啱呀！見過世面自然知道自己無咩大不了！在I bank 工作，收得人工自然要付出，我見到賺大錢既人，但亦見到佢地所失，所以我唔認為賺得多就等於贏！
有小朋友後，我認為財政夠家庭，小朋友學費唔成問題，我係應該多啲陪佢地的。
而且，呢個世界大把有錢人，就算係打工皇帝，都係追唔到富豪級的asset . 所以真係唔需要提自己有無中價樓，車。如果眼中覺得有呢啲便好富足而又可以週圍踩人，咁真係太幼稚和無修養，顯得自己係好基層出生！

popcorncat

wellmax 發表於 16-12-14 23:16
果然係行家：）
不過我有感樓主知識貧乏，我費事解釋咁多俾佢聽啦，好似對牛彈琴咁！
講真，I bankers 能擁 ...

Ibanker 呢個術語本身已經很空泛，加上根本無法律規範這個職業的註冊，有別於其他專業人士

但你又唔洗唔高興，李嘉誠都唔係專業人士，ibanker 唔係專業人士但唔代表佢哋唔叻，做到頂尖的可以好有錢，我呢啲中産當然比唔上

但亦有一些所謂 Ibanker，市好時有點風光，個市一差就無得做

dorahelen

原帖由 ar_mak 於 16-12-15 發表
塵世間最痛苦既事,唔是對牛彈琴,而是有隻牛不斷對住你彈琴.

細路仔既教育,其實係冇專家,因為所有父母都係 ...

講得好！

adriantai

教育我不懂，我只知月入10萬既中產會為子女幾千的學費斤斤計較，搵咁多黎做乜？

sonion

自大狂通常好自卑
登佢可憐
佢小朋友仲慘

gaidanjai

呢個post隔幾日就上黎追下
因為樓主幾有趣

hippoo

adriantai 發表於 16-12-15 07:37
教育我不懂，我只知月入10萬既中產會為子女幾千的學費斤斤計較，搵咁多黎做乜？
...

x2

wellmax

原帖由 popcorncat 於 16-12-15 發表
Ibanker 呢個術語本身已經很空泛，加上根本無法律規範這個職業的註冊，有別於其他專業人士

但你又唔洗唔 ...

真係好笑！我點解會因為一個無知網友而唔高興？！本來我無諗住回應樓主你啲無謂理論，但見到突然有幾個同行人出來解釋下行業，我回應佢地only !
我當然高興自己晤洗為左幾千一萬學費而斤斤計較，去話學券學校有唔同階層既理論！
可能樓主你都唔係住咩好區，如果住喺中西區既人，就會知道讀學券的人係幾咁有錢！而你這樣既mentality , 就會係果堆學券學校中既基層人。

L+H

gaidanjai 發表於 16-12-15 08:32
呢個post隔幾日就上黎追下
因為樓主幾有趣

me too, 樓主其實幾funny, 呢個post娛樂性高於實用性。
不過, 大家對幼兒教育既分享也令我獲益良多。

popcorncat

adriantai 發表於 16-12-15 07:37
教育我不懂，我只知月入10萬既中產會為子女幾千的學費斤斤計較，搵咁多黎做乜？
...

開呢個帖真係令我大開眼界，因為睇到唔少人的理財觀念，是多麼不嚴謹

讀私幼一個月加雜費可以近萬元，兩個小朋友兩萬，已經佔家庭月入近十分之一，當然要考慮

怪不得咁多香港人話樓價貴、住得細、買唔到樓，怨政府，又無為退休做準備，其實是理財不善

我自己而言，層自住樓差不多供完，相信在小朋友中學畢業前，亦可以解決埋佢哋將來的居住問題，我覺得很安心

子女教育，不會吝嗇，但亦不會以花最大金錢為目標，會衡量效果才花

adriantai

讀私校就係理財不嚴謹

popcorncat

adriantai 發表於 16-12-15 10:19
讀私校就係理財不嚴謹

你可能無睇到之前的留言

讀私校當然不直接等於理財不嚴謹，但要有充分理由，例如沒有好的學卷幼稚園收，另外自己的財政要充裕

chupybo

popcorncat 發表於 16-12-13 18:21
可以自己湊返當然最好, 不少工人會寵懷小朋友, 我都欣賞你放棄工作自己湊

我地收入中等, 放棄工作自己湊 ...

i am working mom.

omoinoyukue

wellmax 發表於 16-12-15 09:03
真係好笑！我點解會因為一個無知網友而唔高興？！本來我無諗住回應樓主你啲無謂理論，但見到突然有幾個同 ...

其實唔洗唔高興, 樓主唔知i banker係乜, 所以先話佢地唔專業.

真係從事金融業的,就知道要拿邊一type既牌照, 要甚麼的schooling / training / interview process 才做到, 在香港受SFC / HKMA 監管.

大家交流多d先知世界有幾大嘛

lawboon

popcorncat 發表於 16-12-15 09:57
開呢個帖真係令我大開眼界，因為睇到唔少人的理財觀念，是多麼不嚴謹

讀私幼一個月加雜費可以近萬元，兩 ...

你住將軍澳 popcorn ? 見你個名叫 popcorn cat

omoinoyukue

chupybo 發表於 16-12-15 10:52
i am working mom.

I'm working mom with 2 babies and also don't have any helper for the same reasons as you.  

foxchild

其實想講, 我唔會去區分人地係未專業人士, 更加唔會標榜自己係專業人士。就算你係公司做基層，或者選擇微創業, 又或者揀做FTM, 同樣都值得尊敬，因為大家決擇的背後都有代價同因由。
如果成日把專業人士掛在口中，我怕最後小朋友都會學左你咁去區分周圍的小朋友，或者只覺得做專業人士先叫做對父母有個交待。反而我想小朋友自己選擇自己喜歡的路去行，並為此負上責任。

Guaichu

Vanadium 發表於 16-12-14 21:43
回覆 Dear-Valerie 的帖子

早年研究大都對幼兒雙語得出負面結果，包括對智能發展。

I don't think I can agree with you.  First, I don't know how you arrive at the conclusion that bilingual scientists or researchers are not proven to be more successful that monolingual scientists or researchers.  Almost 80% of the Europeans are bilingual if not multilingual.  They produce a lot of fine scientists, pharmacists, engineers and mathematicians.  Even many Americans on the west coast speak Spanish and English interchangeably.  
Language is the most direct way to understand the cultural and civilization of a country(ies).  The world's development whether scientifically or medically or artistically is very much driven by the English speaking world (whether English is the first or second language), I believe this is something that you can agree on. One cannot deny the fact that English is still the dominating language of the world.  I would feel irresponsible if my children can only be fluent in one language. They will certainly miss out the English world if they can't use English like a native. Likewise, they will be losing out the Chinese world if they can't use it like a native.  

Your example of Yao Ming etc is only on a very superficial level.  That is a "get by" level.  Look at people from China, they are learning English like there is no tomorrow.  They have such a strong will to learn English.  For what? They want to know the world, they want to learn their tricks, they want to surpass them! Without knowing what your competitors are doing, how can you be better than them.  HK young generations have been overtaken by the Mainland young generations as HK lacks the appetite and they are too complacent.  What is the result? 结果就是自我封閉。