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教育王國 討論區 九龍塘學校(小學部) 〔KTS〕 2008年小一家長入嚟傾吓啦
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〔KTS〕 2008年小一家長入嚟傾吓啦 [複製鏈接]

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Littlehippo,

Thanks. Then we need to prepare those things for our kids.

1429,

My son's answer :'He is afraid of Yuen Yuen.'  Do you know what is that little 'huen huen'?  My IQ is too low to guess.

Why was my son punished to forfeit the big recess yesterday?  He said he was innocently pushed by a boy and Au Wang Leong standing behind him during the morning exercise. But Ms Yip thought he was one of them who didn't follow the exercise and had him penalised together with the other two.

Au had struck my son a blow at his nose before CNY holidays and caused his nose to bleed.  Normally, the school would inform the parents for even minor problems.  My wife was called by the school for a few times before (getting sicked, knees injury, etc). Very strange! That day, no teachers informed me or my wife of such a 'CAMPUS VIOLENCE EVENT' because the bleeding was stopped after some treatment at the school office and they have EFFICIENTLY & IMMEDIATELY let my son receive Au's verbal apology in the classroom, have Au learning a lesson by heart in class (they asked my son to suggest a penalty on Au, so.......my son has become a teacher!) and CLOSE the file.  As usual, my son took the school bus back, and it was my helper who found  the traces of blood on the school uniform. After calling the teacher for 2 days(Friday afternoon and Saturday), Ms Yip returned a call and said they would carry out a detailed  investigation next Monday.  Just a verbal apology and learning a lesson by heart as the appropiate penalty to Au?  She said she'll involve the supervisor of discipline, Mr Yip. When they met my wife and me on Wednesday, they, specially Mr Yip (supervisor of discipline), while admitting Au did hurt my son's body without any reason, gave a thousand excuses for Au.  

Despite the fact that the handbook P 68-69 item 20 states clearly what the penalty should be (pls take a look, one page before our dear P70), the school decided to deduct just 5 CONDUCT POINTS as a fair penalty to this new KING OF THE 1ST TERM EXAM (of 1A).  

What if my son fought back?  Mr Yip said he would then receive the SAME PENALTY.  But my son is the victim!?  Sorry, once he fought back, he was wrong either and he would be penalised as well.  What if Au didn't stop beating him?  He could run or use his arm to protect himself.  What if Au pushed him to the corner so that he couldn't run away?  After thinking for quite a while, Mr Yip still insisted that he can continue to use his arm to protect himself..........until he has his arm broken, faints or dies(I added).

Was it a case of fighting between 2 boys because of e.g. quarrelling, fighting for a toy etc. ?  No.  Then why did Au do that?  Mr Yip said: ' I don't know. It is the fact that Au did hurt your boy's body and Au admitted it already, but I'm sure Au didn't do it on purpose.'   How do you know he was not on purpose?  'Mmm........Ahh..........., he didn't do it on purpose,' repeated Mr Yip.  

Will you give special allowance to those with very good academic results?  Of course not, they said.

The above are my conversations with our 'professional' teachers?  What do you think, dear parents?

Littlehipo and 1429,

You can ask your kids about the case, they should know it.   And do ask your kids to stay away fr this litttle KING.   

And Littlehippo, now you  know why I didn't chat here for quite a while since CNY.  Not only my son, my wife and I had been disturbed for quite some time.

Apologise to have let you guys hearing my grievances.






原帖由 littlehipo 於 09-3-11 22:45 發表
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Dear 1A parents,

Just to remind all to bring the following items for 科研堂tomorrow:

1. 筷子1枝
2. 飲管1枝
3. 顏色筆
4. 膠紙
5. 剪刀


Littlehipo

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發表於 09-3-12 11:07 |只看該作者
1429 and sac.wen,

多謝晒,妳地整理好的Worksheets.




Yanma

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carsondaddy,

Oh, my GOD!  So poor your son!  What a long story and thanks for sharing.

This morning, I back to school, again, because to find the lost workbook for my son..... your son came to me and said "Hi" with a smile, he is so polite and nice, and suetsuet also did the same thing (suetsuetmami, your daughter always say Hi to me, Good girl).  

Actually, my hubby knows Au's mum in some cases, his mum is always very busy and so she may not know this matter as well.

It is so upset to hear that those unfortunated matter happened on your son!  Let's take this matter as a case study with him, to show him how to protect himself anytime anywhere.  School is a small society, unfair matters always happen around us, if he knows how to keep away from trouble, it would be much better.  I said these to my son all the time, when someone fight him, never fight back, protect your head first and try to run to tell the teachers, otherwise you would be punished!  Thanks god that he still ok in the school, just wore out 2 pair of shoes and 2 pair of trousers in 2 days.  

I think their Maths' teacher is very nice to them, my son is so careless all the time, maybe she also finds that my son's book or workbook are always in the drawer and he doesn't know too, so she always gives him chances to look for it again, otherwise his P.70 must be full for a long time.

I will take some time and study the page b4 P.70.
Let's think positive and go thru this hard time together. :)

原帖由 carsondaddy 於 09-3-12 02:31 發表
Littlehippo,

Thanks. Then we need to prepare those things for our kids.

1429,

My son's answer :'He is afraid of Yuen Yuen.'  Do you know what is that little 'huen huen'?  My IQ is too low to guess. ...

[ 本帖最後由 1429 於 09-3-12 12:26 編輯 ]

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carsondaddy,

很明白你的感受.其實我囡都試過被班裡的男同學打.原來那位男同學已經打過佢很多次,不過佢無同我講.直至有一次講開學校的事時,佢先講出來.那個男同學有時一搥窩落佢個肚,有時兜巴星落佢塊面.每次都是在放學排隊等校車時發生.我女是那種俾人蝦都唔會出聲o既人,佢當然沒有告訴老師,但當我知道後,當然即刻打俾老師啦.之後那位學生有沒有被罰我唔知,但佢就沒有再打我女了.過了一排,有一天我女上5寸下5寸的位置瘀了幾片,我問佢點樣弄的,佢話又是同一位男同學,在佢行過時,刻意將檯櫈推出來"kick"人,不只我女一個,其他同學都有被他整蠱,於是我又打電話給老師.那同學有沒有受罰我不知道.

有些時候,我可以理解男孩子有時係會郁手郁腳,動作大d,有時佢地未必真係有心的,佢地可能當係玩,但唔知自己係好大力,我唯有叫我女盡量避開那同學.不要太接近他.至於老師的處理手法,我估計是傾向俾機會同學改過的,尢其是他們只是一年級,初犯警告是可以接受,如屢犯不改就應嚴懲了.

不過今次carson流血事件令人聽到都心痛,亦難怪你咁勞氣,希望carson不會有什麼影響,開開心心上學去.

[ 本帖最後由 peony2002 於 09-3-12 13:29 編輯 ]
不要讓孩子走上安逸之路,教他面對挫折,要讓他有一種危機感,培養抗逆能力。

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至於國工4的答案,我囡都寫"圈圈害怕讓圓圓看見",但我覺得不對,不過沒有叫她改.就等老師開蠱吧!!
不要讓孩子走上安逸之路,教他面對挫折,要讓他有一種危機感,培養抗逆能力。

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發表於 09-3-12 13:43 |只看該作者
還有一件事,你們的囝囡有沒有說有一個同學退左學??我囡話佢地全班都為這件事很興奮,我問佢點解,佢話那同學很麻煩喎,問佢點麻煩,佢又話總之好麻煩.你地又收到d咩風呢??
不要讓孩子走上安逸之路,教他面對挫折,要讓他有一種危機感,培養抗逆能力。

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睇完carson個case,都覺得好過份(流血喎)。連妳個囡都試過給男同學打,仲兜巴星落佢塊面,太過份啦!妳囡已經好乖(我囡講)

老師應該同佢地D父母溝通下,可能小朋友以為“暴力”即代表好叻。所以一定要好好教導佢地,無論父母及學校。

但亦都希望大家願諒呢D小朋友,我諗佢地未必係有心傷害同學。 有時,我帶阿囡返學,佢地個個都好似好friend咁喎。








原帖由 peony2002 於 09-3-12 13:28 發表
carsondaddy,

很明白你的感受.其實我囡都試過被班裡的男同學打.原來那位男同學已經打過佢很多次,不過佢無同我講.直至有一次講開學校的事時,佢先講出來.那個男同學有時一搥窩落佢個肚,有時兜巴星落佢塊面.每次都是在 ...

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發表於 09-3-12 14:25 |只看該作者
我囡都講,不過佢唔知乜原因?

佢都話大家好開心。

原帖由 peony2002 於 09-3-12 13:43 發表
還有一件事,你們的囝囡有沒有說有一個同學退左學??我囡話佢地全班都為這件事很興奮,我問佢點解,佢話那同學很麻煩喎,問佢點麻煩,佢又話總之好麻煩.你地又收到d咩風呢?? ...

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wow... 乜原來發生咁多事, 我都聞所未聞, 阿囝也是怕事之人, 有事也不敢同老師講, 睇來今晚要同佢傾傾先得啦.  睇完之後, 都好鄧peony2002和carsondaddy大人同小朋友可憐同心痛, 小朋友咁細個, 好多時真係唔識保護同表達自己, 今次對無論攪事者, 受害人或同班同學都會係一個好好學習嘅機會, 希望攪事者明白自己嘅表達事情嘅方法係錯, 會改過, 受害人會學到包容同原諒別人, 同班同學更會學到點樣正確地適當地去處理一件事, 大家一齊好好地學習啦!  相信老師們也上了一課, 更明白家長的立場, carsondaddy你就大人有大量, 唔好咁唔開心啦, 已免影響阿囝呀!

原帖由 peony2002 於 09-3-12 13:28 發表
carsondaddy,

很明白你的感受.其實我囡都試過被班裡的男同學打.原來那位男同學已經打過佢很多次,不過佢無同我講.直至有一次講開學校的事時,佢先講出來.那個男同學有時一搥窩落佢個肚,有時兜巴星落佢塊面.每次都是在 ...

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peony2002,

請問那男孩是否也是1A的?

原帖由 peony2002 於 09-3-12 13:28 發表
carsondaddy,

很明白你的感受.其實我囡都試過被班裡的男同學打.原來那位男同學已經打過佢很多次,不過佢無同我講.直至有一次講開學校的事時,佢先講出來.那個男同學有時一搥窩落佢個肚,有時兜巴星落佢塊面.每次都是在 ...

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carsondaddy, peony2002,

聲到你地既事..真係登你地心痛..D小朋友用暴力..真係唔能夠接受
不過..正如YANMA2002講..比個機會佢地..初犯..再犯就真係要嚴肅處理

至于個同學退學..會唔會係佢跟唔上..所以佢家長要同佢轉校..因聽亞女講..佢上堂瞓覺..默書又錯好多..老師話佢無溫習喎
我都覺好突然..因為我知呢位同學既哥哥/姐姐之前都係KTS學生

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Peony2002,

Please check PM.


Littlehipo



原帖由 peony2002 於 09-3-12 13:43 發表
還有一件事,你們的囝囡有沒有說有一個同學退左學??我囡話佢地全班都為這件事很興奮,我問佢點解,佢話那同學很麻煩喎,問佢點麻煩,佢又話總之好麻煩.你地又收到d咩風呢?? ...

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Yanma,1429,

要補充一下,我講的那位男同學不是carsondaddy講的那位.其實我不是太嬲的(可能沒有流血咁嚴重, touchwood),我亦相信老師會同那些同學的家長溝通(雖然我沒有再跟進),但由於我女是個不善表達和怕事的人,所以要老媽代為出頭,如果佢能獨立d,好好保護自己/事發時即刻向老師反映,我係傾向佢自己去解決的.我就一定唔擔心我女會打番人,只有驚佢死忍內傷都唔出聲啫.我亦叫我女原諒那同學,老師其實都會暗中幫佢地和解.其實d細路咁細,有時都唔知自己有錯,以為同人玩下,但唔知力度,所以我真係無怪佢,但就要教個女保護自己囉.

原帖由 Yanma2002 於 09-3-12 14:23 發表
睇完carson個case,都覺得好過份(流血喎)。連妳個囡都試過給男同學打,仲兜巴星落佢塊面,太過份啦!妳囡已經好乖(我囡講)

老師應該同佢地D父母溝通下,可能小朋友以為“暴力”即代表好叻。所以一定要好好教導佢地,無論父 ...
不要讓孩子走上安逸之路,教他面對挫折,要讓他有一種危機感,培養抗逆能力。

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我聽講1C班都有個KING
我都叫個女認住佢個樣..唔好比佢埋身
不過就真係唔知1A都有..
唔通有時D家長真係比左個意識比D囝囡..成績好就得..唔駛學禮貌品德
大家都要同囝囡講下如何保護自己
我大女時都試過比同學蝦..佢直頭話唔鐘意返學..但..真係一個好體驗..佢之後就學會處理自己情緒同處理這種情況
希望我地班2個小朋友都上了一堂寶貴既課

[ 本帖最後由 rubyngan 於 09-3-12 15:15 編輯 ]

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peony2002

你囡真係好靜..佢有無識到好朋友..一齊..就會安心D同無甘怕事架
你講得岩..佢地至5~6才..真係唔係好識野
最緊要同媽咪講..唔好放在心上

原帖由 peony2002 於 09-3-12 15:12 發表
Yanma,1429,

要補充一下,我講的那位男同學不是carsondaddy講的那位.其實我不是太嬲的(可能沒有流血咁嚴重, touchwood),我亦相信老師會同那些同學的家長溝通(雖然我沒有再跟進),但由於我女是個不善表達和怕事的人,所 ...

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rubyngan,

我女都說她常在堂上睡覺,都有講她成績麻麻(因有一個月是坐在她旁邊).我在家長日那天見到她媽媽和姐姐(都好似是讀kts),那天是跟我後面的,我都奇怪她沒帶囡囡來,我估最大原因是跟不上吧!!



原帖由 rubyngan 於 09-3-12 14:57 發表
carsondaddy, peony2002,

聲到你地既事..真係登你地心痛..D小朋友用暴力..真係唔能夠接受
不過..正如YANMA2002講..比個機會佢地..初犯..再犯就真係要嚴肅處理

至于個同學退學..會唔會係佢跟唔上..所以佢家長要同佢 ...
不要讓孩子走上安逸之路,教他面對挫折,要讓他有一種危機感,培養抗逆能力。

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rubyngan,

都有一個嘅(A同學),我叫佢同下其他人玩,佢就話A同學唔俾佢同其他人玩.試過你女有一排想同我女玩,A同學就唔俾你女同我女玩喎,近來到我女去找你女玩,你女就唔想玩喎,我聽到覺得D細路好煩,等佢地自由發展啦!!

原帖由 rubyngan 於 09-3-12 15:19 發表
peony2002

你囡真係好靜..佢有無識到好朋友..一齊..就會安心D同無甘怕事架
你講得岩..佢地至5~6才..真係唔係好識野
最緊要同媽咪講..唔好放在心上
不要讓孩子走上安逸之路,教他面對挫折,要讓他有一種危機感,培養抗逆能力。

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是呀....不是你囝囝...放心!!

原帖由 1429 於 09-3-12 14:55 發表
peony2002,

請問那男孩是否也是1A的?
不要讓孩子走上安逸之路,教他面對挫折,要讓他有一種危機感,培養抗逆能力。

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Peony2002,

多謝你讚我仔, 我希望男班長能夠幫助老師和大家。咁就要bluesky999出來傾下。

原帖由 peony2002 於 09-3-12 15:38 發表
是呀....不是你囝囝...放心!!

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我都聽阿囡講“邊個”唔俾佢同第二個人玩,我問點解唔可以一齊玩。跟住佢話阿“邊個”唔鐘意佢喎,我話幾時都係多個朋友好啦,佢話我已經好多朋友啦!

不過佢最friend個個響1B,成日都講電話好攪笑!我“小少女時代”唔知係唔係咁呢?

原帖由 peony2002 於 09-3-12 15:36 發表
rubyngan,

都有一個嘅(A同學),我叫佢同下其他人玩,佢就話A同學唔俾佢同其他人玩.試過你女有一排想同我女玩,A同學就唔俾你女同我女玩喎,近來到我女去找你女玩,你女就唔想玩喎,我聽到覺得D細路好煩,等佢地自由發展啦! ...
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