Hello, Dr.T speaking...

Dr.T

1. 同樣情況多次發生在我身上...那粒制是"esc"...錯手一碰物都無哂 真係想一鎚打爛個電腦

2. 短期記憶是語言部分的測試,抄寫速度應該是在非語言部分

3. 若言他需要花很多時間才抄完一篇文,以他的聰明才智會知道條數計唔過...會話"點解要抄禁多次...我都識囉"

4. 字體反轉是很罕有的情況下才出現,尤其是小朋友年紀愈大,愈少這一類錯-但加多減少筆劃就常見在讀寫障礙學生身上...他有否做過正式的讀寫障礙測試?

5. 如果有做過測試的話,就一定要和學校講清楚情況.如果還未的話就最好安排到政府或私人做...因為二年級仍攪錯"水""小"...老實說讀寫障礙都幾明顯...

若你期望不靠學校,甚至不通知學校,自己"努力"教好小朋友的話...實話實說...成功的機會比較低.事實上即使有學校的協助亦只有見步行步,但總好過你自已單打獨鬥.

chupapa 寫道:
1. I tried to submit my question in Chinese yesterday. Unfornately, the whole passage was gone when I mis-press one of the button on the key board...
2. ...weak in his short-term memory...reflect his difficulty in completing academic work that involves copying and writing skills. His writing is terrible. But this year is better.
3. If he write serious, he can write better.
4. On the other hand, the psy told me that he is the border line of 讀寫障礙. He will mix up to the the words "春"和 "看", "小"和 "水". But he is not as seriour as the left right reverse the chinese words.
5. Because of his high IQ but low efficient in writing and recognised the words that his teacher might think he is too lazy and not concentrate to do his homework.

reginang

caroleks
介唔介意講你地排watchdog排左幾耐呀  

Dr.T

似乎啟基會較適合,因為臻美教法較自由,自制能力較弱的小朋友可能會易"游魂"...而且你的孩子似乎是需要凡事講明講白的人,太多觀察式的學習未必有太多得益.

在啟基打好基礎,升到高年級時才擔心中學罷...

ALAL 寫道:
...how to choose among Pegasus, 啟基 and Creative primary in Oxford St (Kln Tong)?

Dr.T

1. 只要那位姑娘是有處理小朋友情緒問題的訓練及經驗,應該最少可以教她放鬆的方法

2. 個老師有無攪錯 二十一世紀重用呢d方法做班房管理

3. 我不覺得關心其他人的想法是一個問題,我反而認為你的小朋友似乎好聰明同有主見,佢既唔開心係源自唔明白點解老師會用d禁荒謬的方法黎罰學生

4. 我會直接叫佢俾分,又或者畫"笑哈哈"公仔-笑得愈燦爛代表愈鍾意

從#2中看到你的小朋友對事物的看法可能有異於一般一年級/7歲的小朋友,如果教她不去想太多,反而窒礙了她創意思維發展.我倒覺得這間學校的教法似乎頗有值得商槯之處...

Heidi媽 寫道:
1. ...姑娘跟進呀女(抓頭髮)的case啦! 只要等多一星期就可以見, 希望佢會有改善啦!
2. 因為有些小朋友很噪, 於是老師就叫所有同學用手掩嘴直到上完堂為止
3. 我覺得她很喜歡想其他人諗緊什麼, 這樣是否不太好呢? 我應該怎樣同佢解釋呢?
4. 有一次 daddy想試吓問佢現在的課外活動喜不喜歡, 可否把其排次序, 其實daddy想試探吓佢有無什麼不喜歡啦!

sjmama

Dear Dr. T,

Our son is accepted by another international school (we just received the letter this evening). This school has a small special needs unit with two experienced teachers. We have decided that we'll not go ahead with the one which required us to hire a full-time EA. Therefore, your letter will not be used.  So sorry that we have wasted your effort but
WE TRULY APPRECIATE YOUR KIND ASSISTANCE!!! BILLIONS OF THANKS!!!


sjmama

Dr.T

1. Congratulations! I do think that your kid would better be placed in an integrated environment rather than an isolated special school. Creating your own learning support system is easier said than done and not to mention would certainly be very expensive...

2. No problem lar. I learned something new through writing the letter anyway and in that sense I have "earned" already

sjmama 寫道:
1. Our son is accepted by another international school...
2. ...we have wasted your effort

Dr.T

愈聰明的人,身處這些環境就愈痛苦,因為他們會不斷地思考"為何會是這樣的?"...

可能你的小朋友是較為內憸,不會輕易將不安的情緒地外發出來,於是便演化為一些看似自我傷害的行為...當然這一切只是估計,實際情況要親自見過小朋友才會知道

Heidi媽 寫道:
...我亦會怪學校似乎沒有怎樣照顧到小朋友的心理, 唔同傳統學校就要這樣 ...

caroleks

hello, reginang

記得囝囝大約'04 年頭去大口環做 assessment, 以佢嘅年記, 應該 04 年7月可以夠 3 歲入幼稚園, 佢之後去大口環做社交小組... 10月左右有ＯＴ班, ....我地好似差唔多assessment 後 1 个月見大口環个社工, 就開始排 I 位同 EETC 位....其實有 I 位大約 9 月收咗佢, 但我地想俾佢試下 EETC 同普通學校先.... 我地果時大包wai 揀咗幾间, 咁啱 9 月左右 watchdog是第一间 ETCC 通知 我地10 月底有位....

咁應該加加 mai mai 排咗大約 半年多 D... 你小朋友幾大? 應該愈早揾社工排, 会有幫助. 因小朋友多Ｄ時间訓練

Wish you all the best...

Dr.T

最起碼學校裡要沒有因為自己控制學生不力,而要學生全班掩口的老師...

Heidi媽 寫道:
... 唔通要考慮同女女轉校 ? 如果要轉的話請問你認為那類的學校比較適合她?

reginang

caroleks
我囡現在都返緊早期喇,轉去watchdog是因為近我公司,做訓練時我可一起去,現在社工話最少要等一年  

sjmama

Dear Dr. T,

1. Thank you very much! We also believe that our son should be placed in an integrated environment. In fact, his teacher in the kindergarten also advises that our son does not need an EA in the class. Certainly he will need other kinds of support.

2. We may need your advice in the near future and we'd like to pay for that.

sjmama

Dr.T 寫道:
1. Congratulations! I do think that your kid would better be placed in an integrated environment rather than an isolated special school. Creating your own learning support system is easier said than done and not to mention would certainly be very expensive...

2. No problem lar. I learned something new through writing the letter anyway and in that sense I have "earned" already

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sjmama 寫道:
1. Our son is accepted by another international school...
2. ...we have wasted your effort

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caroleks

唉, 近公司又真係好好多, OT都話我个囝囝如果有 daddy , mummy 睇上堂, 真係積極好多....好似想 show-off 咁, 又玩千秋 ( 數成 50下, 又 cum 上吊床 tim, OT 話真係嘆為覲止...)  

你要唔要我問吓 watchdog 个姑琅, 睇下情況点?

另外, 想問吓 Dr.T, 我地d 小朋友, common 唔 common 有濕疹 ( 因為我另一个朋友个仔有小許自閉証, 又係有濕疹)

... 上次話个姑琅覺得囝囝似 SI問題多d, 佢成日身痕, scratch 到損哂, 又真係好難坐定定 pay attention ( 正常人都好難忍啦...).. 但 OT 話佢d skin problem 唔可以做 "brushing" 訓諫 wor.... 但濕疹又唔斷尾, 咁点好?

reginang

caroleks
如果你可以幫到我問那就最好不過,thanks so much  

caroleks

咁你可唔可以 pm 我多少少資料... 如 e-家 小朋友幾歲, 起邊间上緊堂....?

我会 pm 返你ｄ 資料....

Dr.T

某些另類療法會從"中毒"(水銀,鉛,etc.)來解釋這個情況,於是處理方法便是"排毒"...但老實說很難令我相信不同的疾病源頭都只是那一個...

caroleks 寫道:
...另外, 想問吓 Dr.T, 我地d 小朋友, common 唔 common 有濕疹...

Dr.T

Just the original school that you applied for might need some kind of safety precaution as they don't have the experience in teaching children with special needs. And that's why I said in the letter that they might try that for a couple of months but have a review ASAP...anyway, you don't need to worry about that now! :

sjmama 寫道:
...our son does not need an EA in the class...

reginang

caroleks
阿囡月尾19個月,現在返柴灣環翠基督教早期訓練中心,上年12月頭開始排watchdog

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