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Re: 好擔心...醫生話BB發展遲緩~~
Hello all,
It's been a long time. My younger daughter was 1-mth old yesterday. She was born on 1 Apr in St. Teresa's Hospital. I actually met another BK mom there. We were in the same room and our beds were just next to each other.
The delivery was quite fast, just within 2 hrs of checking in the hospital. I waited till my sister came to be with my elder daughter and the maid before going to the hospital. We checked in just after midnight, saved 1 night's hospital fee but also missed the tax allowance for this year.
It took me so long to come back here because our "new" maid just left us on 9 Apr, the first weekend we came home from the hospital. It was total chaos and we are all stretched out. Luckily our elder daughter has been very good and helped a lot but doing many things herself, e.g. feeding herself, changing clothes herself, getting phone calls, even helped out to do laundry like folding hankerchiefs. We meant to have a second child so that she has accompany and never imagined it would mean as much negative changes for her like yelling, pushing her to do things, be independent, changing maids and then no maids, ... Yet she is always cheerful and I think she has the highest EQ in our family. In a way, we comfort ourselves by thinking that "no pressure, no improvement".
Just hope that in a couple months when another new maid arrives and our younger daughter is a bit older and settled, things will change for the better.
Right now we just count on a local part-time and my parents to help out. Hubby and myself also become Filipinos. If the new maid doesn't arrive on time, I may have to stay at home or even lose my job. Really hate the maid who ran away. She even went to the Labour Dept to claim us for salary, compensation, etc. We had spent so much time and money on her and she worked for only 19 days, said she wanted to quit on the 1st day of work and now claim us for $. She's our worst nightmare.
Anyway, don't want to ruin your mood by writing too much.
Let's all enjoy parenthood!
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