05年入讀主流小學的障礙兒童家長~請進!!

mrsphcheung

Dear AGNESNG,
I have also applied the one in Tai Kok Tsui as it is the only one offering whole year course.  I have compared the one in Fu Chong, Wanchai and Shaukiwan, all of them just provide short courses which cannot meet my requirement.

Maybe, our children are in the same class.  See you.

mrsphcheung

    

joey媽媽 寫道:
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mrsphcheung 寫道:
Dear joey媽媽,
Is she Mrs Kam?  I think she is correct.

[size=small]野∼你個衰鬼，唔好講人家個名ｍａ，佢係度出現，我就唔好意思喇

mrsphcheung

Dear joey媽媽,
Congratulations!!!       

好羨慕,  好羨慕, ....

Do you mind to tell me the name of this school?  Maybe by PM.   

mrsphcheung

Dear stellacl,
You must fight for your son's interest.  Keep good relation with the school (especially the principal) or work as parent helper there (you have quited your job).  If the principal likes your child, your child will have a happier life there.  I know a mom who stations in the school every day to help the teachers to manage her child's emotional problem.  I know that your child does not need this.  But your sincerity will move the teachers there.     

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stellacl 寫道:
結論係乜都無, 老師會支援架喇....   

bandband

各位媽咪 & Dr.T,

多謝你地對我既關心同意見~! 噚晚我又同其他媽咪傾咗一晚,又响電話度同我哥哥傾咗好耐,雖則佢都無幫我決定我個仔讀邊間,佢都話呢啲嘢係由我去決定,但係同大家傾咗咁耐,我既思路同決定真係清楚同明朗咗好多!雖則我都係緊張到噚晚失眠...但係至少今日我都可以好肯定咁作決定,我都係打算俾個仔試吓讀北角官小~!我會預咗我同個仔會好辛苦,但係呢一次唔去辛苦唔去鍛鍊吓,又點會有成績呢,若然到時我個仔真係應付唔到,我都會欣然面對,亦唔會覺得後悔,因為始終我同囝囝都有試過嘛!總好過唔試就斷定個仔同我自己唔掂!希望到時我地可以遇到一個負責任既老師啦!

我哥哥已經決定咗出錢俾我個仔去睇私家(言語治療同心理學家...),我哥哥認為聽多個意見會好啲,貴就貴啲... 不過唔係我俾錢嘛! 幫到個仔咪得囉!!!

希望大家一齊努力啦!     

Dr.T 寫道:
完全同意,我只是扮演所謂devil's advocate的角色 :evil: (即係特登從另一個角度看問題,刺激思考)

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bandband 寫道:
...不過我都要實行咗先至知個結果係點既...若然到時適應唔到,我都會改改時間表甚至幫佢轉校,我只係想俾個機會個仔試吓讀同埋鍛鍊吓佢.就係咁.

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bandband

stella,

我已經拍哂心口決定搏一鋪喇~~~!!! 再一次多謝大家既祝福!!!

漏咗講添...我打算七月尾我唔撈之後,我同個仔就開始'綵排' 我已經plan好每日同個仔去邊做乜,基本上去玩去觀光居多(行吓公園去吓博物館甚至去戲院睇戲...),讀書時間每日一粒鐘(教佢寫字同讀圖書),最主要都係想我同囝囝早啲適應每朝咁早起身(我暫定七點半起床),習慣吓我個時間表,等到時正式番小學時,我同個仔唔會烏吓烏吓甚至係咁番學玩遲到...希望我同個仔適應到啦! (p.s.我同個仔都係懶瞓豬,最鐘意瞓覺....c火....)

kmwun

bandband

已經掂左一半啦！加油！    

我會預咗我同個仔會好辛苦,但係呢一次唔去辛苦唔去鍛鍊吓,又點會有成績呢,若然到時我個仔真係應付唔到,我都會欣然面對,亦唔會覺得後悔,因為始終我同囝囝都有試過嘛!總好過唔試就斷定個仔同我自己唔掂!希望到時我地可以遇到一個負責任既老師啦!

mcyip

mrsphcheung

I would like to share my hearsay.  I know a mom whose autistic boy studied in 慈幼.  The school required the mom to accompany the boy's study in school full time to help control him.  And the boy was not happy.  The boy then changed to 新會商會 and he is now very happy.  The mom praises the school very much.  In fact two of my boy's classmates will go to 新會商會.  It is a small-class school, with 15 students one class (officially it has one class of 32 students, but it uses its own fund to split the class of P1 to P3 to 2).  Sometimes I feel that we always hear the good and bad of some schools, and it is really difficult for us to judge whether a school is good, whether its promise is just lip service or real commitment.

mrsphcheung 寫道:
Dear mcyip,

Millions of thanks.       
   
Meng Tak is one of my choices.  慈幼 is also one of my target schools.  I have contacted the administrative board of this school and talked to a mom who has a less able child studying there.  The school is open to our children and the study load is reasonable.  The school is very frank to say that it can't afford to have too many problem students, but a few is o.k.

Keep in touch.

Dr.T

新會商會的校長是有心有力攪教育的人,但學校是在西區...

mcyip 寫道:
...The boy then changed to 新會商會 and he is now very happy...

mrsphcheung

Dear mcyip,
Thanks a lot.  This is also my greatest anxiety.  My child does not have great emotional or behavioural problems.  His problem is day dreaming.  I will take your information seriously.  In fact, the current principal of 慈幼 will leave by the end of August and the new one is unknown to us.  I also don't want to gamble.  Just want to send my child to a sincere school.

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mcyip 寫道:
I know a mom whose autistic boy studied in 慈幼.  The school required the mom to accompany the boy's study in school full time to help control him.  And the boy was not happy.  The boy then changed to 新會商會 and he is now very happy.  The mom praises the school very much.  In fact two of my boy's classmates will go to 新會商會.  It is a small-class school, with 15 students one class (officially it has one class of 32 students, but it uses its own fund to split the class of P1 to P3 to 2).  

mrsphcheung

Dear Dr. T,
How's your comment on Ming Tak Primary School?  Thanks.

Dr.T

多年前到過該校作講座,對學校的環境印象深刻(但據聞即將遷校...),當時的學生輔導主任是有心人,學校給我的感覺亦很open(某些學校你去過一次以後不想再去),但這麼多年前的人與事,可能或已有改變...

mrsphcheung 寫道:
How's your comment on Ming Tak Primary School?  Thanks.

HayBMum

Hi mrsphcheung,
我姨甥以前在Ming Tak讀，佢是個normal kid but 有點發展慢。記得佢小一時，因適應能力弱，返了2個多月學都仍然喊，唔肯返學，但學校的校長很好(但唔知係唔係你地講果個)，知佢社交能力弱，小息時叫老師幫佢融入其他小朋友一起玩,又交帶高一班同屋村的姐姐跟他一起返學放學，由佢有朋友仔開始，返學就成為樂事。雖然是好多年前的事,但對這間學校的感覺仍然好好。
雖然揀小學是2-3年後的事,但看見媽咪們的緊張都感同身受，你又點揀呀?

mrsphcheung

Dear Dr. T,
Thanks a lot.

mrsphcheung

Dear HayBMum,
Ming Tak is a good school.
I will contact principals before I make my choice in September.  So far, most of the principals are open to my child.  Some schools may just give lip service and some others may work sincerely.  Less popular schools may be my choice as these schools have less students to choose and may accept my child.

joey媽媽

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stellacl 寫道:
joey媽媽 : 我地又多一個全職媽媽喇...    , 不過我都仲係[size=xx-large]心大[size=xx-small]心細番唔番半日好   [quote]
[size=x-small]要睇你個心仲想唔想做就真,假若接到個仔放學又可返半日工,我都會考慮繼續返工ga

joey媽媽

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bandband 寫道:
我已經拍哂心口決定搏一鋪喇~~~!!! 再一次多謝大家既祝福!!!

漏咗講添...我打算七月尾我唔撈

[size=x-small]我支持你決定,大家一齊向前行吧!就算而家我同校方傾好左大家協調,可能讀落又不是這回事呢!所以大家要努力呀     

joey媽媽

mrsphcheung 寫道:
Dear joey媽媽,
Congratulations!!!       

好羨慕,  好羨慕, ....

Do you mind to tell me the name of this school?  Maybe by PM.   

多謝大家的祝賀