新聞透視：「不快樂童年」

5tgb

單從你的post, 已知你是一個醒目的家長！

LuckySTCA

I agree your approach and I do the same. My son has lots homework but I allow him to finish quickly himself and then he can play.  I only help if he ask me questions.  If he misses homework, the teacher will tell him and he will learn to be careful.  I do not tell him even if I know he has missed it. I want him to learn to be responsible, and sometimes it is hard for me, but i need make sure I leave it to him. It gets worse before it gets better and you need to be ok with that.

superccc

原帖由 5tgb 於 14-03-23 發表
2015 年9月，全港就無晒半日小學啦！讀開半日都要即時改返全日。自已都好想孩子返半日，因為可以多D時間游 ...

返半日其實已足夠，可以多時間到公園丶球場玩

elizatyy

小朋友有不快樂童年、只因家長太喜歡比較、成日比較啲學校、邊間邊間是所謂 "神校" ， 日日夜夜死谷哟仔女。/

ANChan59

momama 發表於 14-3-24 07:39
家長每日用幾多時間跟功課取決於：學校教得好唔好，細路資質及自我管理能力，家長嘅要求。阿女學校教得可以 ...

跟我們大同小異，除了梳頭！
他喜歡落樓下踢足球，不過唔多家長肯俾小朋友踢足球，現今更少！

ANChan59

superccc 發表於 14-3-29 13:17
返半日其實已足夠，可以多時間到公園丶球場玩

可惜大部份雙職家長喜歡全日制，不用煩其他非上課時間。

ANChan59

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分享下其他你認為有效的學習方法！

tws2010

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Very agreed with you.  I just need my kid to follow my 4-golden rule-work hard, be focused, responsible and careful.  I won't scold my kid if he comes across difficult questions, but i really scold him to the ceiling if he is careless.  So far, he is doing good.  He knows very good our neighbour's daughter study till 11 pm to before midnight almost every day...i said to him 'you want to do the same?'

At parents' day, the teacher asked me and I told her I started to release the responsibilities back to my kid, but teacher said 'no, keep guide him.' Of course, I know teacher wanted to have a guarantee and keep students up to the pace and at high level.  In fact, I do it in parallel, not completely release but started to let him do more

MC1128

ANChan59 發表於 14-3-29 14:30
可惜大部份雙職家長喜歡全日制，不用煩其他非上課時間。

半日、全日並非最重要，家長態度才是決定性有孩子上半日，其他時間一様被填滿

ANChan59

MC1128 發表於 14-3-29 14:40
半日、全日並非最重要，家長態度才是決定性有孩子上半日，其他時間一様被填滿
...

也是！

shadeslayer

ANChan59 發表於 14-3-29 14:35
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分享下其他你認為有效的學習方法！

咁細個便要追趕課程，是教育生態的問題。找間和自己理念相近的學校已是好開始。

ANChan59

原帖由 shadeslayer 於 14-03-29 發表
咁細個便要追趕課程，是教育生態的問題。找間和自己理念相近的學校已是好開始。 ...

同意！

elizatyy

tws2010 發表於 14-3-29 14:36
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Very agreed with you.  I just need my kid to follow my 4-golden rule-work hard ...

skkeung

原帖由 Amom1972 於 14-03-05 發表
可是，香港真正的龍校並不多。

龍校就出龍仔、龍女？

5tgb

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其實每個制度，都受制於資源，包括香港教肓。一個好的制度，是確保努力的人，可充份發揮天賦，而不是令所有人都快樂，這一點香港做得很好。死搬硬推外國的所謂德政，根本完全行不通。自有中國文化，讀書就已經用苦讀來形容啦！現時想推個"樂讀"出來，唔係唔得，未普及呀！要快樂，首先要樂天知命，永遠投訴制度，投訴社會生態，永不會快樂的呀！

shadeslayer

5tgb 發表於 14-3-29 19:03
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其實每個制度，都受制於資源，包括香港教肓。一個好的制度，是確保努力的人，可 ...

你誤會了西方教育。不努力係入不到好的大學的。一般來說，他們不是不努力，但有幾點是和香港教育大相徑庭的：
1。學習循序漸進，在合適時間要求合適的東西，沒有小學東西幼稚園教，中學的東西小學教。沒有愈深的學校愈受歡迎的現象。這和錢沒有關係，是心態問題。

2。他們着重啟發學生興趣與潛能，孩子多能自發地努力。因為小學不會谷，中學學習動機仍然很高。

3。少測考，無排名，壓力自然少，能享受學習，享受學校生活。

marble2004

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Unfortunately, I think it's a global change.  Western education is also getting more and more tense and tough.  My colleagues (westerners) also send their kids to two kinders in Hong Kong, for those in primary school, they also go to tutorial classes, one of my colleagues even got two tutors for Chinese.  Those in overseas, my boss (westerner) told me her kids are so busy at the weekend because they have to go to different tutorial schools.  One of my colleagues, who go home recently and will stay for 10 days, told me she only will have ONE AFTERNOON to meet up with her niece as her niece is so busy after school and at weekends.

5tgb

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快不快樂，與有否過份幢憬一些並不務實的事物，有很大關係。有過份憧憬，人自然不快樂。完全唔明，上文所述的美好教育，會有什麽可能在香港發生呢？情況就如:"無飯吃！為何不吃葷”，香港教育是米飯，所謂美好教肓是葷。所有人都知道吃葷好過飯，但當國家糧食不足時，為什麽祗有昏君一人提出以吃葷代替飯呢？現時香港的競爭已越來越大，再憧憬無壓學習，祗會徒添不快樂。