好擔心...醫生話BB發展遲緩~~

gigi2

Helen,

This coming Saturday we will meet the pyscho from Heep Hong and we will talk about this.  However, my girl is still small (3yrs8mths) and got speech delay, can the test be accurately?  Actually, I talked to this psychologist on phone over 2 hours last month and she still could not conclude anything but just said,'If a gifted girl should not be weak in social skills, or she might be a borderline case of austism'

To me, a borderline case is not too bad la.  but now I am very scare....   

HelenMrs.Lau

GIGI2，
唔洗驚 煮到黎就食呢      星期6問下專家先囉

mickeyma

Gigi2,
Don't worry too much! as you said, let God arrange the best way for our kids to go. Just wait for Heephong visiting of school and let's see.

My daughter was complained by N1 teacher that she was not following instruction sometimes when she was young.. She is doing very well now in band 1 school.  Our kids potential is unpredictable.  Don't be depressed.   

gigi2

Helen & Mickeyma,

Thank you very much!  This moment I feel myself very weak and wish God protect and bless my girl….

mamee

輪到我呻幾句..

呀仔不嬲都有所謂眼部刺激既行為~亂放10架8架車, 之後高角度低角度地睇下; 合起權頭, 望下, 仲話"好似(海洋公園)吊車咁".

頭先仲..想摸下管理員姐姐隻腳, 可能因為姐姐著裙之餘, 仲著住對黑色絲襪. 當時叫停左呀仔, 之後講左兩句"唔可以亂咁掂人, 會嚇親人地".
唉..我又唔想太大反應, 怕更加令佢注意. 只係, 實在好擔心, 如果呀仔真係愛上左周圍摸/乜都摸就大..大..大件事. 希望今次只係單一事件.

慘!

mamee

mickeyma

mamee,
呀仔 has good imagination ma... that is good.
Don't worry too much.
Did the school OT tell you that 呀仔 is sensitive to  different texture of goods? Yu liked touching silky surface a lot from an infant time.. like 絲襪,
my bare legs in summer... My OT said his reaction to
different texture was not good. We made some training by brush his hands, feet and so on by special brush and ST commented he was ok and we changed to electical brush which women use to brush face.. (only use twice after buying from JUSCO. and I do not use that kind of thing while cleaning my face.. too troublesome)  And two months ago, ST called me and asked me to stop all brushing as he is sensitive to texture now and she did not want the opposite effect...

Maybe let him try many different texture such as playing sands....?

mamee 寫道:
輪到我呻幾句..

呀仔不嬲都有所謂眼部刺激既行為~亂放10架8架車, 之後高角度低角度地睇下; 合起權頭, 望下, 仲話"好似(海洋公園)吊車咁".

mamee

mamee

gigi2

有陣時我都覺得無能為力..可以為呀仔做既, 我都盡力做左.
唉..好似安慰唔到你之餘, 仲添左兩分愁俾你.

mamee

kmwun

Dear gigi2

待星期六囡囡見咗先再稔，而家擔心都於事無補，你已經好努力，應該盡量放鬆d！點label小朋友唔係最重要，最重要係知道以後要點做，一步一步嚟啦．

學校方面相信都係想同你溝通囡囡嘅情況，事實可能真係她在不同的環境表現差異比較大，可能真的要考慮一下為何有這麼大的差異，例如會否班上人數太多囡囡處理唔到，老師亦較難照顧．

HelenMrs.Lau

mamee 寫道:
如果呀仔真係愛上左周圍摸/乜都摸就大..大..大件事. 希望今次只係單一事件.

慘!

mamee

我隻仔近排都好多手，乜都摸。星期日去街食飯，張卡位凳背穿窿，隻仔就申手過窿，摸隔離D哥哥，撩人玩。遇

gigi2

kmwun,

I discuss with the teacher that as far as I know there has got another problem kid at K1 level whose performance is worser than mine (she even cannot talk but maybe she got no problem with attention or behaviour?) and I'd like to know how the teachers handle her.  My girl's teacher said that the problem kid was transferred to PM session of which only got 15 students with 2 teachers in a class.  She asked me to consider when my girl is promoted to K2 next term.  I think I will consider her suggestion.

kmwun

mamee

如果小朋友有好奇心或者真係固執要做某d事，可以叫停已經好好．我仔仔搭地鐵睇唔到車頭個號碼真係會喊架，有時上車前睇唔到，唯有落咗車企o係月台等架車開走睇車尾個號碼，試過勉強拉佢走卒之喊到收唔到聲．   你同仔仔講"唔可以亂咁掂人, 會嚇親人地"做得好好．我仔仔有時見到我著絲襪都會想摸下，費事佢心思思，索性乘機叫佢要問咗媽咪，媽咪應承咗先可以摸，同埋只可以o係屋企做出到街就唔得．

mickeyma

That actually could be a good solution. I do think you should consider that... for the moment at least.

gigi2 寫道:
kmwun,

I discuss with the teacher that as far as I know there has got another problem kid at K1 level whose performance is worser than mine (she even cannot talk but maybe she got no problem with attention or behaviour?) and I'd like to know how the teachers handle her.  My girl's teacher said that the problem kid was transferred to PM session of which only got 15 students with 2 teachers in a class.  She asked me to consider when my girl is promoted to K2 next term.  I think I will consider her suggestion.

kmwun

gigi2

I think it's always good to reduce the proportion of teacher to student for all children.  By the way, as you know my boy goes to the pm session with less student in the class for K1 and K2 as well, I think he really benefit from this.  And see there always a way out, so try to relax and take good care of yourself !

mamee

kmwun

真係多謝你既分享.
最擔心就係, 我曾經聽過感統講座, 講有個小朋友都有成10歲, 好鍾意摸絲襪. 有次同爸爸去街市行, 走去摸人地. 結果爸爸同個小朋友都俾人鬧到飛起. 又真係好難叫人明白, 點解個小朋友咁想去摸.

我仔仔係可以叫停..暫時. 好多時佢睇手, 我只係瞄一瞄佢, 佢已經知道要停. 只係好似上左毒癮, 佢都控制唔到自己鋪癮.

mamee

kmwun

mamee

"只係好似上左毒癮, 佢都控制唔到自己鋪癮."完全同意   ，佢地有時真係不可理喻．我仔仔重有一樣固執係我放工返屋企佢要幫我開門，我自己開咗個結果就係俾佢推番出去，等佢再開門返入屋．好多時都要屈服，因為有時放工晏，佢剛剛瞓覺俾我開門嘈醒，我唔會再同扭眼瞓的仔仔試圖講道理
    

如果小朋友有d好鐘意摸嘅物料，理想嘅梗係o係屋企預備好，返去至為所欲為，否則可能要帶埋出街，例如類似物料嘅公仔，小朋友好想摸嘅時候用嚟頂癮．

陸美爸

唉...講起摸人, 我仔仔都有, 摸人/拖手都周不時有......

試過坐車掀坐係隔離個mix姐姐件衫, 所以我經叮囑爸爸獨自揍佢搭車要好小心, 俾人誤會就唔好啦....

又試過去睇醫生, 見到人地個手袋, 佢走去拉開條拉鏈, 伸埋隻手去, 我幾拒拎左人地d野出黎....

每次我都會話佢唔0岩, 然後要佢自己同人地say sorry(當然佢未識講只係做動作), 跟住再自己正式向人道歉

好驚佢習慣成自然     

HelenMrs.Lau 寫道:
[quote]
mamee 寫道:
如果呀仔真係愛上左周圍摸/乜都摸就大..大..大件事. 希望今次只係單一事件.

慘!

mamee

我隻仔近排都好多手，乜都摸。星期日去街食飯，張卡位凳背穿窿，隻仔就申手過窿，摸隔離D哥哥，撩人玩。遇

陸美爸

mamee,

好耐無見你(BK/學校), 以為你忙住執行李準備去旅行添

現時你首先多加留意仔仔, 會否再有同樣事情發生, 可能真係單一事件呢....

我仔仔終於今日退晒燒lu, 聽日返學, 想問你聽朝可以嗎？

thanks

陸美媽

mamee

陸美媽

旅行, 下個星期五先去, 所以未要執行李住. 近日其實忙住陪個好朋友去扮嫁妝就真.

好呀, 就約實聽日俾份件過你. 9點鬆啲係大堂等.

mamee

kakab105

我亞仔都係勁手多，咩都要摸 行街摸牆 公園玩泥 執石仔 人地心口有閃閃爍既衫~~~
行超市我未比佢自己行架，佢一定拖人地d野落地.........
真係想

稚言治語

Uran 寫道:
是一班有8位小朋友一起上堂，課程是針對說話遲緩的小朋友。

Uran,

你是指特殊幼兒中心嗎？不如你打電話去問問幫你安排的醫務社工，問清楚現在排哪一種服務，再告訴我們，看看我們有什麼資料可以給你。