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YUNG媽

我個囝都好唔小心, 改寫句子又係漏寫左一個'了'字, 又當錯晒, 有d唔抵的感覺.

昨晚同佢溫數學, 內容好淺, 叫佢測驗時要小心d, 佢話 '係咯係咯, 我全部都識晒, 唔小心你都幫唔到我嫁啦.'

ngyanting2000

YUNG媽，

你囝囝都好過我囝囝好多，都只係漏寫左一個字，我亞囝就好唔小心，三題各漏寫一個字，共扣了十二分，另外錯字二個，扣二分，供詞填字都錯咗一個．最差就係看圖造句，亞囝一隻字都無寫，老師係測驗卷上寫”欠做”二字，我問囝囝點解無做，囝囝同我講”唔識做”所以唔寫字落去，我俾囝囝激死，全份卷亞囝就係咁唔見咗二十幾分 今次囝囝真係做得好操心大意，錯係ｄ唔應該錯的地方．

我都係咁話，ｄ數學內容好淺，我都叫囝囝今日小心ｄ做，唔好再咁操心大意，希望囝囝今日測驗小心ｄ．

helenting

ngyanting, YUNG媽~
我仔仔咪又係咁, 造句又係一隻都無寫呀, 佢話唔識寫喎, 但係佢話諗到要寫d乜
填充, 標點符號, 閱讀理解全部都唔小心, 真係比佢激死, 叫佢睇多次, 佢又知道有咩問題喎, 我次次測驗都叫佢做完一定要check卷, 但次次都當我耳邊風, 唉............
    

Leolonglongma

係咪宜家D題目都係咁含糊O既呢?  我囝明天正式考試, 這幾天老師經常正式或非正式地出一些模擬試卷/舉手答問題去讓他們溫習(試卷不一定派回家), 我囝告訴我常識老師的問題好深, 叫他考下我; 睇媽咪識唔識.  又真係大部份自己都答錯, 其中一題: 身體有那一部分是用來看東西的?  自然反應是: 眼睛!  個仔話錯: 答案是頭部!   

ngyanting2000

Leolonglongma,

大多數人都會回答係(包括我自己):眼睛(好自然的答案), 但真正的答案係頭部, 因為身體係由頭部,手,腳和軀幹組成, 所以頭部係正確答案, 我都係囝囝本常識書先知道,e+D題目都真係好含糊, 唔好話小朋友唔識有時連大人都唔清楚 , 我覺得e+考試好多思考題, 唔會好似以前咁直接問,問題間接好多, 但課本內容反而唔係出好多, 我都唔知點樣同囝囝溫書, 真係好似考天才.  

YUNG媽

我囝係用SPI 牌子, 但算幾平個款(大約$99), 係百佳超級廣場有賣的.
我都係個囝係K3時已買, 當時沙田SPI 呢款做大特價, 個size係比小一二生用, 我覺得好抵用, 好超值.

ngyanting2000

老師改卷速度真係快, 今日派咗英文測驗卷啦.

YUNG媽

贊成, 可能明天都會收埋數學卷.

gordon7e

我個囝都有好多粗心大意,但扣分最多依然是閱讀理解,14分扣咗7分,本來有得在文章裡抄都抄錯。但我沒有怪他,因我看前面的各部份,他都已盡了力。看圖造句,仿句都做得不錯,只是有少許錯字。男孩子是較粗心的,我想吩咐還吩咐,要他們小心不易,算吧!我唯有欣賞他做得好的地方。你想,我們在他們這年紀仍然十下十下,根本不可能做到他們現在做到的,只不過這年代的孩子被我們催谷得提早成熟罷了。

flower2006

gordon7e,

你好睇得開

ngyanting2000

gordon7e,

我真係要好好向你學習一下，可能男孩子真係比較粗心大意，我常常以為一年級的小朋友平均分要有９０分或以上，所以我一看到囝囝的分數，我就有點激怒，如果可以小心ｄ答問題就唔洗俾人扣咁多分，咁就可以逹到要求，不過我看到你的留言，我明白這年代好多家長對小朋友的要求真係好高（包括我自己），我要好好反省一下，從小朋友的角度來看，多謝你gordon7e，我要多欣賞及稱讚囝囝答對的地方，不要只怨他答錯的地方，我自己都會有做錯事的時候，其實囝囝都盡咗力去做測驗卷，但無奈太粗心大意，我諗我唔好將個分數睇得太重，咁樣可能大家都比較好一點．

多利是

細路仔係咁粗心大意架啦, 阿女2年班, 到而家都係咁  :evil:  :evil:  明明d字識寫都係會寫錯小小..係登佢地咁樣失分5抵, 但佢地好似5明咁; 成日都十下十下    

不過算啦, take it easy~  & 係佢地測驗考試前親自幫佢地惡補一下, 教一教佢地d techniques 都會好d既    

多利是

前 馬頭涌(下午班) 即係而家既馬頭涌(紅墈灣)新校;

前 馬頭涌(上午班) 即係而家既馬頭涌 舊校 (原校址)

  

cslam

唔好意思，琴日病左無返工，一日無睇就有咁多post，差d miss 左添。我個女學左3年啦，佢好鐘意唱歌，成日係屋企做開龍雀，不過佢成日大叫(由其發脾氣時)，攪到把聲沙晒，之前仲唱緊高音，近半年改唱低音，我已經成日同佢講要保住把聲，唔好叫，但係佢都唔聽，我最擔心係當係香兒唱到咁上下高班，因為把聲問題而無得再上，咁就side晒啦。星期日o個日，我同過一個高班o既女仔傾過，佢話初二再上就係中一、中二，跟住就係高C-G，再上就係高A-B，跟住先係CHAMBER，但係高A-B只係O係每班揀幾個，剩低O既可能無得再上，咁.....咪好hurt。

helenting 寫道:
cslam~
嘩~你個女初二架啦, 我仔仔仲係預備班咋, 你囡囡學左幾耐啦?

YUNG媽

我想分享一下.

我對個囝的要求係默書, 測驗或考試卷唔係要100分, 但溫習的過程就要100分.  我認為係默書, 測驗或考試時, 小朋友可能唔係唔識, 只不過有時會粗心大意, 有時係未能明白題目, 亦可能有d緊張而失準.  我相信佢地都好想攞高d分數既.  但佢地都重係小一, 除左學習書本上的知識, 亦學習緊怎樣應付考試和答問題.

所以囝囝默書, 小測和今次測驗都重會犯上以上的問題.  我想這也是學習的必經階段.

gordon7e

ngyangting2000,
Thank you for your appreciation. However, I also minded his marks on the last quiz. I also believed that P.1students should have at least 90 marks on each subjects (as I was told). But I never showed how keen I was, because I found that he had tried his best. I think most of us have already cut off a lot of our childrens' playing time. We ask them to finish their homework, do revision, story time( unreluctantly), and then go to bed. Every day, they perform like a robot, behave routinely. My son always tries to complain, or fights for his relaxation time. However, after so many bargaining against me, he cried so many times before, asking me why so many revisions this week. Both of us were unhappy during the war, because I am not good tempered. Most important of all, he was still willing to do on my request. Therefore, to be fair, we should give them encouragement despite of low marks or marks not upon our hope. I always tell him, mummy loves you no matter how many marks you've got. The only thing I request is to try your best. These few days, I always kissed him and showed him my concern. I told him I knew how tired he was. I will always love him and he smiles.  

ngyanting2000

YUNG媽、gordon7e、Helen &　各位馬頭涌小學的家長,

我真係要放鬆一吓自己的情緒,可能我太睇重囝囝的測驗分數, 多謝你哋幫忙和教導我,同我分享一吓你哋的經驗, 多謝。 回想返囝囝,他已經做得不錯(除咗粗心大意),可能我要求真係太高,俾囝囝同自己都好大壓力,我諗我唔好太重視ｄ分數，只要囝囝肯俾心機讀書（每次我同囝囝溫書，他真的可以乖乖哋坐定溫習，直到溫習完畢），我其實應該要滿足．

[size=large]多謝 同唔該晒各位家長    

cslam

ngyanting2000,

你個囝囝可以乖乖

helenting

各位~~
我諗我都要學習點樣relax自己先得~ :
不過真係要做到只係接納佢地既學習過程係認真, 而唔介意結果出來既分數, 都真係好難下, 就算真係學習得到, 但係到係學校排位時, 係最後嗰幾個時, 就真係唔係好接受得到啦...
而且好似"多利是"所講, 真係好登仔仔唔抵架麻, 明明係識, 但因為粗心大意而失分喎, 真係好激氣...
希望依家係因為仔仔未習慣測驗啦, 到考試時希望仔仔會發揮得好d, 真係唔想睇到有好難睇既排位呀...