05年入讀主流小學的障礙兒童家長~請進!!

bandband

咁我又唔會迫到個仔咁行既...只會訓練佢生活有規律,而唔係想點就點,始終升到小學真係唔可以仲係好似依家咁自由,起碼都要佢明白佢係要守規矩,有啲咩佢係應該要做,有啲咩係唔應該做...呢樣都係我想佢讀北角官小既原因之一.

Dr.T 寫道:
平心而論,我會覺得係比較理想化咗啲...我剩係睇你描述你期望如果讀北官的安排,都覺得你(同小朋友)每日都會好攰,更何況是日日做...當人精神不足時會燥,到時可能你和小朋友衝突會增加...可能我只是杞人憂天,但我覺得唔駛每分每秒都將條橡筋扯到咁"行"嘅...

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bandband 寫道:
...如果仲係下午班時,我朝早可以早啲起身同囝囝溫書同埋去吓圖書館,到佢轉成全日制時,我囝囝放學可以去圖書館睇吓書,我又有多啲時間去幫佢溫習同埋training佢...我打算到時無七點都唔會番屋企...儘量都會响出面教仔做功課同學嘢...

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ALAL

Agnes,
which school you choose?

stella,
contact added.

Bandband,
My situation is quite similar to you as my relation with my boy is not good and it is difficult to train and teach at home. Recently I seek help from social worker, psychologist of the nursery and ot of the nursery has paid a visit to my house. Just to share with you.

They teach me to let my son to have his favourite activities in morning before going to school, and before sleeping, plus everyday playing in the park. Use this to motivate my son to do better for his homework and training.

And the psychologist said we have to include what we want him to learn in his favourite activities. With a balanced mixing and praise, hopefully he learn what we want him to learn.

And play more and outing with our kid. To attach his happy experience with us mums will increase our power of priase.

My ot warned me not to sacrifice my relation with my boy just to raise his IQ by 10 marks.

Teaching outside is not a long term solution. Seems if he can do his homework in school it is a better idea to avoid confrontation.

It is unfortunate that the ot and pschologist cannot be reached usually, and the social worker has to be paid. But their reminder did help.

PS: today is the deadline of Chan's Creative. I could not sleep all the night. Hope all of us find a suitable school.

Dr.T

完全同意,我只是扮演所謂devil's advocate的角色 :evil: (即係特登從另一個角度看問題,刺激思考)

bandband 寫道:
...不過我都要實行咗先至知個結果係點既...若然到時適應唔到,我都會改改時間表甚至幫佢轉校,我只係想俾個機會個仔試吓讀同埋鍛鍊吓佢.就係咁.

mamee

bandband

想問下, 方x泉全名係乜, 係邊區架?

我都想做devil角式. 雖然我知已經有個專家在場, 我唔應該多口, 不過始終想講幾句.
如果小學生活一開始已經處於追功課, 趕做project既階段, 我覺得其實係痛苦既事, 小朋友亦好難產生學習興趣.
我唔反對其他人入名校/讀課程高既學校, as long as個小朋友唔係太辛苦去惡補/追課程就無問題; 調轉頭的話, 我覺得唔好勉強. 情願個小朋友返學開心, 願意去返學, 好過嚇到連學都唔願返.

講完壞人說話, 記住唔好怪我喎
無論你最後決定係點, Good luck!

mamee

joey媽媽

bandband　
　　　你同我個心一樣，想轉去心儀果間，但細心諗之下統一派位出來又不錯，應否轉校呢 看看以下的分析


各位：
教統局特殊組 x 太同我講嘅說話內容
　
ｊｏｅｙ：我派了第二志願果間,我好擔心佢支授不夠,雖然是小班教學,但作為有特殊兒童家長都不想冒險去博一間雖然肯接納支援但無經驗的老師,點呢?我應否叩門去我應為適合仔仔的學校呢

x 太:[size=x-small]我明白你心情,首先間間學校都要收我地仔仔,若然學校老師無經驗,校方一定會舉手向教教統局攞支援,例如:培訓老師及派有關專業人員到校了解情況,但我認為小朋友只是一張白紙去到邊間學校都好都可以適應,最重要你是否可遇到一個好老師,同校方溝通多d，應該沒問題．[size=x-small]現在的學校透明度很高，學校要口碑都好重要，你看好多老師都要遊行為什麼？只是都怕來年收不夠生，所以校方都會比以前來說希望做到最好，因現時的家長都好精明，可用多種渠道發表意見，我都是一位家長亦做個小學老師，所以明白你心情，我會覺得你去呢間小班學校讀應可一試．[size=x-small]多經驗學校都要遇好老師，無經驗但又肯接納都不是壞事，始終都會有新開始，不妨試下吧！之後我們會將報告比你學校，讓他了解情況，作出盡早安排及協調


[size=small]到最後昨天分析又分析後，我已註冊了第二志願果間（即是統一派位果間），我沒有再去有經驗的天主教叩門，我同老公都有考慮可能間學校少特殊兒童，校方針對都大d.希望我決定無錯啦   

mrsphcheung

Dear bandband,
North Point Government Primary School does not have good reputation in Quarry Bay district now.  Personally, I never like teachers in government schools; they are working for money and have no heart.  I am extremely sorry that I have provoked many government school teachers, but this is my experience.  Try some Catholic or Saint Kung Hui schools, they are much better....  This does not mean that they are good, but they have true vision and mission in education.

mrsphcheung

Dear joey媽媽,
Is she Mrs Kam?  I think she is correct.  If the teachers of the school are willing to try to help your child, why not try?  Every school must have the first time to enrol special children.  The attitude of the teachers is much more important than their experience.  If you really find the school not good enough, you may CHANGE TO ANOTHER SCHOOL LATER.  To change school is not difficult nowadays as many schools (less popular ones) have low student in-take.

kmwun

joey媽媽

我都明白你的心情，好似先前填表時大家都已經有好大的爭扎．無論點都好，如果我地已經盡過力為小朋友稔過，已經好夠，無辦法可以保證結果會點，可以達唔到理想，但六合彩都有人中，既來之則安之．決定咗就繼續朝正確方向走啦！     

joey媽媽

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mrsphcheung 寫道:
Dear joey媽媽,
Is she Mrs Kam?  I think she is correct.

[size=small]野∼你個衰鬼，唔好講人家個名ｍａ，佢係度出現，我就唔好意思喇

kmwun

剛剛收到特殊教育組電話，確認仔仔入讀的小學，佢地會將評估中心的報告寄俾學校參考，我都影咗早期的報告遲d會俾學校參考，希望同學者多d溝通會好d．

joey媽媽

kmwun 寫道:
joey媽媽

我都明白你的心情，決定咗就繼續朝正確方向走啦！     

kmwun 　及各位
　　[size=small]真有好消息，呢刻真係可以正式恭喜我喇     
[size=small]剛剛小學主任打電話黎，話呢幾　日都忙所以而家先覆我，咁我趁呢個機會未再次講多ｄ　仔仔情況比佢聽囉 [size=small]主任回答：叫我放心，大家溝通多ｄ應無問題,佢地都有一星期一次語言服務比小朋友,看仔仔情況而定,至於功課~可以等老師開會後再協調,亦會有高年班同學去協助他們照顧及抄寫手冊方面,而老師亦會特別處理仔仔上課情況,本校社工是好勤力地幫你地,媽咪你可放心我了解多了之後就同主任講:[size=small]多謝你又比了信心我,我現在放心好多喇!主任回答:[size=small]我一定好錫佢會照顧佢.

我收線之後開心到不得了,即刻打比我老公知    真係天意安排會有奇蹟ga 而家路就鋪好,要睇仔仔點做喇

AGNESNG

報o左la.(留o左名). 不過搬o左好唔方便. 我都係報星期六. 我以為你會報HK SIDE o個邊添.

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mrsphcheung 寫道:
Dear Agnes,
Will you apply for 壹仔學堂 again?  I will apply for this course (Saturday class).

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AGNESNG

來來去去都得2間好D, 一間"四邑" (你介紹我o個間),另一間"五邑" (辨小班, 近明愛醫院o個邊).

你就好la. (煩完).

有無時間幫我諗諗我o個區仲有邊間好D呀?
(福榮街官小太多人, 唔鍾意呀.)

ALAL 寫道:
Agnes,
which school would you choose?

mcyip

I talked to the principal of Meng Tak and her attitude is very positive.  She phoned us this morning that she will arrange an educational psychologist to do an assessment for my son before school in order to determine the support and training requirements.  So happy that I may have made a good choice.  I agreed that a good and open teacher is perhaps better than experience.  As I said before, when a school has too many autistic children, not only the support will be diluted, but also it becomes a special school.

Mrs Cheung, seems like you are in HK eastern district.  You may consider this school next year and I will report how my boy is studying.

gigi2

It is ideal if we have an experienced teacher with much care & love for our kids.   But if a fully experienced teacher who only performed routine or substandard service to help our children, I'd rather to have a less experienced one with whole-hearted to support my girl!

I came across these 2 types of teachers.  

Fortunately my girl now has a good kindergarten and teachers to support & assist her!  After the assessment from Ha Kwai Chung, I communicate well with the school and hope that I also will be lucky as same as you all at time of her P.1 admission.

wewangwang

[size=large]joey媽媽

[size=xx-large]恭喜[size=xx-large]恭喜[size=xx-large]恭喜[size=xx-large]恭喜     

kmwun

stellacl

"老師會支援架喇"?? 應該係老師要面對至真！！

stellacl 寫道:
kmwun

佢地都打左電話比我地喇, 又係話會send 份評估報告比學校, 跟住問佢地如果仔仔有情緒問題, 有乜support 可以在入小學後比佢...跟住又係帶你遊花園 結論係乜都無, 老師會支援架喇....

mrsphcheung

Dear mcyip,

Millions of thanks.       
   
Meng Tak is one of my choices.  慈幼 is also one of my target schools.  I have contacted the administrative board of this school and talked to a mom who has a less able child studying there.  The school is open to our children and the study load is reasonable.  The school is very frank to say that it can't afford to have too many problem students, but a few is o.k.

Keep in touch.