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Re: 聖羅撒幼稚園家長Chat Room
Hi, DoReMiKa,
I don't choose someone with kids, because if the kids are old enough to be dependant, which means the maid will be over 30 or 40. I choose the maid around mid 20. If they are married or single parents, their kids will be very young. Before, I confirmed this one, I actually like one who is married with one kid, but the kid is only 1 year old. I really want to confirm her as she fit all my requirements except she has kid. However, my maid and the maid next door advice me not to select one with young kids as one call from Phillippine saying their kids are sick or..., their minds will fly immediately back to Phillippine. Who will know better than the maids themselves?! I would like my maid to act more like a sister to my kids instead of with mother love. So, I choose single instead.
I also don't want someone who is below 5'. If they are below 5', they look so small and not strong. I will feel sorry when I see them carrying heavy stuffs. Sometime, my girls will go to sleep when we are outdoor. Tivian is over 50 lbs and 4' in height. Can you imagine a 5' tall maid hugging such a big sleeping kid? One more advantage I found for taller maid is : when you go to place like Mongkok, you only need to return your head and can locate your maid behind you or not. If they are short.... you will need to spend a little more time to find them as they are not in your sight. The reason for Catholic is only personal preference as I am Catholic.
I also seek for someone who is not from big family as I don't want my maid has big financial needs. Smaller family members will lower the risk of them borrow the money from the financial companies. Of course, this may not be true.
All these points work very well in my present maid. I really want her to stay for another contract but she wants to return Phillippine for at least 2 months. Originally, I think of waiting for her since I plan to quit my job and think I can handle without maid for 2 months. But my husband said no as she can't confirm that she will return after 2 months and if we seek for a maid when she can't return HK, this will mean I need to handle my girls by myself for 5 - 6 months and he thinks I can't cope with it. So, we need to find a new one.
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