唔補習仍可名列前茅嗎？

serinac

原帖由 palmchristy 於 14-11-06 發表
回頭看，是不同階段做不同的事。字卡是嬰幼兒時期，刺激視力未發育孩子的視力聽覺的活動，有助未有閱讀能力 ...

//最重要是找到適合自己孩子的方法，持之以恆//

成功之匙。

longlokma

我覺得閱讀是好重要，但不是人生的全部，更不是学習的单一方法。畢竟大家只能表述自家孩子的成長歷程，而每个孩子都是獨立個体，就算出生於同一家庭的孩子，成長及学習步伐亦不会全然相同。所以，在参考别人的經驗后，家長最好還是因應自己孩子的性格能力去度身訂做一套能配合自己孩子发展的教育方式。

moondream3003

原帖由 palmchristy 於 14-11-06 發表
回頭看，是不同階段做不同的事。字卡是嬰幼兒時期，刺激視力未發育孩子的視力聽覺的活動，有助未有閱讀能力 ...

等到你啦

wan_sosin

原帖由 IloveJJ 於 14-11-06 發表
睇咗咁多意見，再睇返樓主既問題，發覺:補習，絕對唔係小朋友是否名列前茅既因素!「 因為我常覺得讀書應該 ...

你嘅總結好好！
不過我都想為小朋友嘅角度講句說話，有時小朋友無大人睇唔肯做功課，唔好一概而論，覺得小朋友唔自覺！
有機會係因為小朋友遇到困難！尤其小一，識字唔多，例如閱讀理解，唔識得睇晒，佢哋面對功課，可能就有壓力，驚唔識，做錯又驚人話，做得慢就更加！
小朋友思想簡單，就將全部功課都視為困難，唔多有動力去做，而家小學功課幾深，有時佢哋真的需要人教！父母盡力協助其實佢哋會覺得有信心D完成功課，所以功課班有人教，佢哋都可以完成得好好！
當然小朋友個個唔一樣，父母細心留意，同小朋友多溝通，睇下佢哋個困難係邊道！

前兩日我都同我仔傾偈，發覺佢返學有小小唔開心，我哋傾咗好耐，最後我問佢，有乜嘢媽媽幫到你，佢答，想我教佢多D!
佢想我教，佢係想積極的，想學識D嘢！唔係想懶！了解咗就可以協助佢！學校同屋企都比到支援小朋友，佢哋唔會差得去邊！

kenwong888

wan_sosin 發表於 14-11-6 10:58
你嘅總結好好！
不過我都想為小朋友嘅角度講句說話，有時小朋友無大人睇唔肯做功課，唔好一概而論，覺得小 ...

Exactly true!
But some parents even their children doing the homeworks wrongly are still unwilling to teach them!  And saying left them to the teachers to reinforce their impression something like that!

wan_sosin

原帖由 kenwong888 於 14-11-06 發表
本帖最後由 kenwong888 於 14-11-6 13:35 編輯

其實返到學校，都唔肯定老師會否再解釋比個學生知點解，可能都只係比答案叫佢改！所以未必會加強印象，反而有機會出現錯完又錯嘅情況！老師要教一班學生，每個學生錯少少，無可能教到咁多！
私人單對單補習好，定一班人學好？大家都會明！
當然我又唔係話絕對唔比小朋友做錯返學校，有時學下錯敗都好！不過老師改完，返屋企會再解釋！
只要父母掌握到係協助小朋友，唔係催逼佢哋，小朋友係想父母幫的！

kenwong888

wan_sosin 發表於 14-11-6 14:09
其實返到學校，都唔肯定老師會否再解釋比個學生知點解，可能都只係比答案叫佢改！所以未必會加強印象，反而 ...

Exactly true!

little_yolky

kenwong888 發表於 14-11-6 13:34
Exactly true!
But some parents even their children doing the homeworks wrongly are still unwilling  ...

唔好意思, 我就係你講果種衰父母。如果見到佢做功課有小錯, 我係唔會出聲的, 由得佢改正, 因為真係用下腦就知正確答案。如果係concept錯, 我先會教番佢改, 一般係數學。但我脾氣唔好, 次次都教到發晒顛, 因為真係唔明白點解咁簡單都唔識, 囡囡都好怕我教, 寧願自己諗答案。


我知我係衰, 衰到無朋友, 無辦法, 我改緊了, 好彩阿囡次次都原諒我, 佢自己又好自覺。God bless me!

NT-1

從小已陪讀，他們也會看書，但點解我仍要跟他們學業跟到腎上腺急升？ 讀英小，read english bks, but grammar錯漏百出。 有借中文圖書，多圖少字，但他們覺得中文字好難記點
寫，更枉論應用……我每日處于地獄中，好羡慕你們小朋友生性

wan_sosin

NT-1 發表於 14-11-6 16:01
從小已陪讀，他們也會看書，但點解我仍要跟他們學業跟到腎上腺急升？ 讀英小，read english bks, but gramm ...

你嘅苦惱都明白,但揀得英小,都要面對.

我識朋友讀英小,都係兩頭唔到岸,中英都唔多好.想轉返出面學校,又無學校收.唔讀都讀咗,唯有行落去.

所以都要諗清楚至好揀學校.

kenwong888

NT-1 發表於 14-11-6 16:01
從小已陪讀，他們也會看書，但點解我仍要跟他們學業跟到腎上腺急升？ 讀英小，read english bks, but gramm ...

Reading but is the volume "huge"?
Remember "huge" volume reading!
So that the children even not understand well the rationale, can read & write reflectively!

kenwong888

little_yolky 發表於 14-11-6 15:58
唔好意思, 我就係你講果種衰父母。如果見到佢做功課有小錯, 我係唔會出聲的, 由得佢改正, 因為真係用下腦就 ...

Understood!
And good to realize you understand the weaknesses yourselves!

NT-1

原帖由 kenwong888 於 14-11-06 發表
本帖最後由 kenwong888 於 14-11-6 23:14 編輯

I don't push for huge volume, rather i prefer them to savour each bk.  My elder girl scans books even though i ask her slow down or i read with her.  My younger son loves to flip pages only.  It is their characters, something born with.  I am so envy to hear some sharings here that their kids love reading with minimal academic drillings.

handh

kenwong888 發表於 14-11-6 23:11
Reading but is the volume "huge"?
Remember "huge" volume reading!
So that the children even not und ...

I think by "huge reading can help in the kids' studying", we don't mean "reading a lot of books every day mechanically in order to make the kids read and write reflectively".   We mean enhancing the interest in reading so that the kids can enjoy reading every day and learn more diversified knowledge through reading, including the language itself and the knowledge acquired through the content of the books.  

It is not the volume that counts.  It is the interest and habit that count.

scyauchris

讀英小個小朋友都要英文ok, 我見阿女小一答卷是完正句子，如果串錯字或文法上的錯誤已扣分。小二數學題都要寫句子，如果小朋友英文不好都好煩。考試唔通要寫定model answers 佢背，咁咪好惨。英文好的小朋友最少不用死背，係作答時較少幾會錯文法。

rayeu160

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真係要睇自己小朋友....我都係一D見小朋友錯唔會即時更改既家長....我覺得無問題喎!! 其實有時比小朋友自己HANDLE一下, 都係好事. 唔駛郁少少就停O係度, 搵大人解決LAW. 到老師要佢地更正時, 好多時佢地已經明白. IF真係有D唔明既, 改正時再教番小朋友, 番而令佢地印象深刻D呢!!

rayeu160

眼見...好多小朋友都係家長陪做HW...改HW...次次都9X分100分...但係唔係個小朋友真係經過深思? 還是家長已經帶領佢地搵左真正答案呢? 到測驗考試時, 家長仲係唔係可以帶領呢? 厘D...值得想想...

BabyCTY

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I observe that Children "enjoy" reading, children "enjoy" exploring knowledge by themselves (books, TV , whatever), they are usually do better in exam.
This is not the consequence of "forced reading" or tutor.

I do agree tutor is a good choice for working parent as time is a luxury