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lamsuetwai

I apply for vip here in BK, but I don't know what's the benefits. HEHE

HAHA, i applied as well.  but not so much good /useful benefits.

法子

wai,
我有些書想在dd買~我pm booklist 比你la~~
thank you~!

法子

wai,
有否看過以下書藉?值得看嗎?
让孩子学习上瘾的10个法则
爱的教育（一部全世界儿童必读的书·插图本
儿童思维发展
好孩子的成长99%靠妈妈
6-13岁孩子的教育良策-辨识与提高孩子的天赋与才能

lamsuetwai

法子 寫道:
wai,
有否看過以下書藉?值得看嗎?
让孩子学习上瘾的10个法则
爱的教育（一部全世界儿童必读的书·插图本
儿童思维发展
好孩子的成长99%靠妈妈
6-13岁孩子的教育良策-辨识与提高孩子的天赋与才能

好孩子的成长99%靠妈妈

我正看緊這本 第1 篇, 都值得看.  AUTHOR 很有自己的一套.

我都有興趣看:

让孩子学习上瘾的10个法则, HOW MUCH?

上次ZIMBA 介紹的玩字法那書, 我看了小小, 都有趣, 應該對中文有幫助.  唉, 最衰沒有時間, 本本都想看, 本本都是看了小小, 好彩都平, 如不是借圖書館的都沒時間看.

wing105

Hi all dear,

last night my son ask me he wants to join some activity class, and then he showed me his 小記事本, he wrote some activities class name, like "英文串字", "趣味繪畫" totally 4 classes, but no any details.

你地D小朋友有無information 呀?

lamsuetwai

Wing,

long time no see bor   

re:  activities class, your son is very good bor, at least he know he need to add values to himself.

you can check with the (boys and girls assoication at both Cheung Sha Wan and Meifoo).  The price is reasonable for drawing class (e.g.: $40/lesson) and English class.  You didn't join the class at school?

my son also ask me to let him join 圍棋, but he is no spare time right now.

wing105

Wai,
Yes, long time no see u lar… because I have to work hard last two weeks.. Now is cool down…

SA offered those activities, and my son said he has confirmed teacher which class he will join today.  He wants to join “趣味繪畫”, I ask him to join “英文串字” and “趣味繪畫” if possible.  

I want to know my son has joined the drawing @mei foo on weekday and accompany with Alison.

“GO” is my son favor and he is learning “GO” at YMCA every Sat.

lamsuetwai

wing105 寫道:
Wai,
Yes, long time no see u lar… because I have to work hard last two weeks.. Now is cool down…

SA offered those activities, and my son said he has confirmed teacher which class he will join today.  He wants to join “趣味繪畫”, I ask him to join “英文串字” and “趣味繪畫” if possible.  

I want to know my son has joined the drawing @mei foo on weekday and accompany with Alison.

“GO” is my son favor and he is learning “GO” at YMCA every Sat.

SA offered those activities, and my son said he has confirmed teacher which class he will join today.  He wants to join “趣味繪畫”, I ask him to join “英文串字” and “趣味繪畫” if possible.

Yi, what do you mention?  do you means it is the interest class organise by sa at Friday afternoon?  i'm confuse.

I want to know my son has joined the drawing @mei foo on weekday and accompany with Alison.

Yi, i don't know what you means,  your son join the drawing class at Mei Foo already?  When?  who is Alison?

wing105

Yi, what do you mention? do you means it is the interest class organise by sa at Friday afternoon? i'm confuse.
Sorry too rush and make u confused…       Last night my son told me that his teacher asked them to join some class and then showed me his notebooks, he wrote 4 topics: 趣味繪畫/ 英文串字/故事王國/ (I forgot it) which were organizing by SA, guest that is interest class, but there are not any details. Do you have any idea for that?

Yi, i don't know what you means, your son join the drawing class at Mei Foo already? When? who is Alison?
.
I want to know your son (not my son) has joined the drawing class - (boys and girls association at both Cheung Sha Wan and Meifoo). The price is reasonable for drawing class (e.g.: $40/lesson) and English class

lamsuetwai

wing105 寫道:
Yi, what do you mention? do you means it is the interest class organise by sa at Friday afternoon? i'm confuse.
Sorry too rush and make u confused…       Last night my son told me that his teacher asked them to join some class and then showed me his notebooks, he wrote 4 topics: 趣味繪畫/ 英文串字/故事王國/ (I forgot it) which were organizing by SA, guest that is interest class, but there are not any details. Do you have any idea for that?


WING,

MY SON DIDN'T MENTION THOSE INTEREST CLASS ORGANISE BY SA BOR.  I WILL ASK THEM TONIGHT.

Yi, i don't know what you means, your son join the drawing class at Mei Foo already? When? who is Alison?
.
I want to know your son (not my son) has joined the drawing class - (boys and girls association at both Cheung Sha Wan and Meifoo). The price is reasonable for drawing class (e.g.: $40/lesson) and English class

WING,

YES, HE DID JOIN THE PAINTING CLASS AT MEI FOO AND HE SAID IT IS FUN.

ALLISON IS THE KINDER CLASSMATES OF HIM.  YOU KNOW ALLISON AND HER MOTHER AS WELL?

wing105

wai,
please check PM.

muimui2005

好唔開心, 想問下大家, 妳哋會點?

請俾d意見.  上星期二, 我個仔回家後(仲要我放工七點半)先知, 我個仔係學校跌倒 (被同學伸隻腳出來拌倒), 成個人跌低, 個額頭仲撞正張台腳打橫果條鐵, 撞到好應, 我發現時已經腫過隻雞蛋, 又黑又綠 (絕對無誇張), 我立即打去學校, 已無人聽, 我問個仔, 當時老師點樣處理, 佢話班主任帶左佢去校務處查左d 藥, 之後返回課室上堂, 我問仔仔老師有無俾 d 水佢飲, 睇下有無嘔, 之後有無再問佢有無唔舒服, 我個仔話: 無.

我覺得班主任好唔負責, 無理由唔通知家長, 所以星期三早上, 我老公再打去問, d 職員話: 開緊會, 約十二點會覆….等到三點都未覆, 於是再打去, 又話"去左嗰邊(唔知係唔係指舊校)開會……

班主任終於係四點幾覆電話, 我老公問佢發生乜事, 佢都係話個同學仔伸隻腳出來"cake"倒佢…..咁點解唔通知家長, 班主任答: 係呀, 我好忙, 唔記得左.

上次係學校見到呢個班主任, 已經覺得佢麻麻 (好能做得耐的老師就係咁), 一d 笑容都無, 之前已經聽個仔講, 班主任好惡, 成日鬧人……

d 朋友叫我打電話去學校投訴, 但我又好驚投訴之後, 有人會唔高興而對個仔不利(包括學習時的對待、將來的評語….) 其實我唔係話想投訴, 追究什麼, 因事情都已發生, 只係怕再有事發生時, 學校驚出事, 唔肯通知家長 (尤其是要call 白車, 怕有記者到場), …..我好想反映呢件事俾校長/學校知, 我又擔心有人以為我投訴佢, 覺得我小事化大, 小朋友跌倒好平常啫……(我又無影低d 相)

我個仔到依家睇左兩次e 生, 每日塗藥, 夜晚返去同佢轆兩隻雞蛋, 到依家第八日, 都未完全消腫 (可想而知個"樓"有幾大......)
    

法子

wai ,wing
my daughter join 左個做手工喎........

      

(轉貼)捨不得孩子吃苦將來更苦
讀領航員－孩子，我應該留給你什麼？

文╱Carol(奧林大穎文化總編輯)

有一個故事是這樣說的....

一個小男孩有一個好朋友，小男孩從小就跟這個好朋友每天形影不離，這個好朋是一隻小豬，而這個小男孩的爸爸是個以殺豬為生的屠夫，小豬養大了，有一天會是爸爸要屠宰的對象。

小男孩一直很怕小豬長大，他怕失去最要好的朋友。

可是，小男孩不知道的是─爸爸也快死了，因為爸爸得了癌症，醫生告訴爸爸只剩半年的時間可活了。

爸爸還是每天靜靜的工作，他想只剩半年了，更要好好工作，多賺點錢留給兒子過日子。「除了錢之外呢？孩子，我還應該留給你什麼呢？」爸爸這樣想著。

爸爸告訴小男孩：「再過一陣子，我要殺你的那隻小豬了，到時候，請你當我的助手，在一旁幫我。」

小男孩不只悲傷，還很生氣。他想：「爸爸真過分！真殘忍！」

爸爸依然每天工作、殺豬；小男孩對小豬很不捨，全心全意珍惜跟小豬相處的每一天，也因 為對爸爸的不諒解，小男孩要求自己要更堅強面對這一切，他不願在爸爸面前示弱。

到了該殺小豬的那一天了....爸爸沒有殺小豬，因為爸爸在那一天死了。

小男孩靜靜的流眼淚，他終於了解爸爸的心意了。

小男孩沒有嚎啕大哭，因為他對「失去」一直有準備，現在他更知道──爸爸要他一直有這種準備。

每個父母都愛孩子，愛的方式通常只想到「保護孩子、給孩子快樂、讓孩子得到很多」，但是，人生不只是一直得到的吧？我們還要面對很多的「失去」。

大一點的失去，是像那個小男孩一樣，失去至親；小一點的失去，有可能是丟掉一個心愛的玩具，或是一個好朋友搬家B轉學。

這些不都是孩子每天都在面對的嗎？怎麼能不教呢？

怕孩子被綁架，最好的保護不是一天二十四小時跟著他，而是教他遇到狀況時如何自保；怕孩子生病，不要將他關在無菌室，而是教他懂得自我保健，萬一生病了，又該如何自救；怕孩子跌倒受傷，更要教他如何讓自己避免跌倒，萬一跌倒了，自己又該如何處理....

愈是愛孩子，愈要想：「如果有一天我不在他身邊時，我該留什麼給他？」讓孩子學會面對「失去」、面對不那麼完美的人生、有能力安慰自己，我想是必要的。

所有對孩子的發展觀察及研究報告都一再顯示，一個孩子將來賴以為生存的、足以跟別人競爭的能力，絕不是英文、數學、電腦這些技能，而是抗壓性、挫折忍受力、處理問題的能力、能不能自我管理、知不知道自己要什麼、能不能體諒別人、跟別人好好共處.... 等等這些作為一個人的完整人格特質。技能，只要想學，一段時間就可以學會；天生的人格特質，則需要從小很精細的觀察、引導、培養，長大了，帶著這些特質去面對自己人生的種種問題，從小沒學會這些，長成大人了，人格特質成形了，再要彌補往往辛苦加倍，有時也未必能扭轉得過來。

一個有美好人格特質的孩子，不管父母在不在身邊、不管將來會碰到多艱困的環境和人事，我想他都可以自己泰然自若的生活下去吧！

而這些不就是每一個為人父母者最想要、也最應該留給孩子的？

捨不得孩子吃苦，將來他會更苦！

捨不得孩子吃苦，將來他會更苦！

日前也在聯合副刊看到一篇讀者投書，有一對父母,他們的小孩大學畢業,上班了，有了收入,所以父母不再給零用錢，可是入了社會的小孩用好的吃好的追流行，錢根本不夠用，結果丟了一句話給父母”如果你們不能一輩子供給我優渥的生活，為什麼從小要讓我養成這種習慣?.........”

看了 打了個冷顫
我們 是不是也是這樣的父母?
我們 要怎樣教我們的孩子愛物惜物?

我今年二十歲，目前因故休學，在一家安親班打工。安親班鄰近便利商店，孩子很喜歡去那裡買東西。常見包子吃一口就丟，飲料喝半罐就不要，洋芋片才吃兩片，就買一包別的來吃。這些孩子平常也喜歡偷藏別人的東西開玩笑，愛看人家著急的神情。我曾多次制止，他們卻毫不覺得不妥，甚至腦筋還動到我的火車月票上。

我生活一向儉約，身上很少帶超過五十元。失去月票，我回不了家，只能投宿朋友家；而我怎樣也沒有想到--竟是他們偷拿我的東西！他們非常聰明，一直等到月票過期了才拿出來還給我。我說，這種行為是不對的，我會寫在聯絡簿上告知家長。這些孩子竟然從錢包掏出兩千元摔在我面前：
「小氣鬼，才兩千，賠妳就是了！」「才」兩千元嗎？我還不到可以老氣橫秋地說「我們那個年代啊……」的年紀，我也沒嘗過貧窮的滋味，但那兩千元也是我辛苦從生活費中儉省下來的，是我半個月的生活費啊，這些孩子竟然可以這麼不屑地從錢包?掏出來摔在我面前！

這讓我想起之前某一次當家教，我看那個孩子家中並非十分富裕，醫科生的我，時薪是可以索價五百到七百元的，但我只要了時薪三百元。我認真地教他，無奈學生不用心，總是想聊天，不想聽課，後來竟挑明了說：「要不是我媽說上妳一小時課給我五百元，我才不想聽妳講這些無聊東西呢！」

原來請我當家教，比請他當學生便宜多了！
我不知道這些孩子的家庭是否真的很富裕，但他們生活的態度簡直像暴發戶。
這樣對孩子好嗎？

父母不能供應孩子一輩子，教會孩子節儉，比期望孩子以後能賺大錢維持闊綽生活，可實際多了。昨天我在教室的白板上心痛地寫下：
「一粥一飯，當思來處不易；半絲半縷，恆念物力維艱。」

這是一個很古老的諺語，但我不認為這不合時代。
教給孩子這個美德，是 留給他們一項比萬貫家財還要重要的資產。因為自己小時候過得辛苦，便盡量給孩子好日子過的家長請深思，這樣究竟是愛孩子，還是害了孩子。

捨不得孩子吃苦，將來他會更苦！
許多父母養小孩是把孩子捧在手心上，怕他凍著、怕他餓著、摔著．．．其實這種過度的保護，只會讓他更低能、更依賴、更不知如何面對人生的大風大浪。
佳佳的成長環境造就了她日後儉樸個性，也幸好她在安親班工作，可以更清楚的看到現代家長對孩子的溺愛程度已經到了病態階段，像劇中的富家子弟，父母為了讓孩子不輸在起跑點，儘管孩子不領情，他們總是為孩子將來設想，找了各科的家教老師幫孩子補習，殊不知是害了孩子，我認為家長真的該好好反省反省了，我想這種父母不少，希望大家努力的把此封信轉寄出去，尤其是寄給已婚而且家中有小孩的朋友

法子

mui,
你仔仔冇事麻...班主任可能真係太忙,一時忘了...

揚莉煒媽咪

mui

記得有次我大仔ｏ係第２間學校
佢唔知仲咩點整到
老師就打電話黎同我講
話我仔整到∼嚇得我以為係咩事
到個仔番到黎
我先睇到
原來留左少少蚊血咁多∼車∼心諗駛唔駛咁煩又話我知呀！！！！嚇左我幾粒鐘
  ．．
其實如果係我∼我會去學校一轉
點都要俾學校知道有咁ｏ既事發生左
但無老師或工友通知家長
而ｏ係學校整親係可以claim保險架播
我覺得你點都要去學校一轉架喇

zimba

muimui2005,
If I were you, I would reflect this case to the school. Not to blame anybody, but to remind the school that your son's bump was more serious than the class teacher thought. And such severe [size=large]head injury should be observed and assessed carefully, e.g. sit in the office for 30min, or even see a doctor.
My question would be:
Does the school has any plan or protocol in treating students with injury?
When to send the child to A&E?
When to inform the parents?

[size=medium]Head injury could be very serious!!!

My husband said he would talk to the class teacher first, to see if there is any guideline to deal with injuries in school, and reflect our worry to her first.

法子

叮噹
your son 揀了什麼課外活動?

揚莉煒媽咪

法子 寫道:
叮噹
your son 揀了什麼課外活動?

無~未知

揚莉煒媽咪

認同

zimba 寫道:
muimui2005,
If I were you, I would reflect this case to the school. Not to blame anybody, but to remind the school that your son's bump was more serious than the class teacher thought. And such severe [size=large]head injury should be observed and assessed carefully, e.g. sit in the office for 30min, or even see a doctor.
My question would be:
Does the school has any plan or protocol in treating students with injury?
When to send the child to A&E?
When to inform the parents?

[size=medium]Head injury could be very serious!!!

My husband said he would talk to the class teacher first, to see if there is any guideline to deal with injuries in school, and reflect our worry to her first.

法子

pls check pm, thx