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小艾比

陸美媽,
我個女都未識講嘢, 但都介到尿片(凈係痾尿咋, 屎屎仲係教緊嫁).

我開頭米係定時定候豆佢痾尿LOR, 當中亦要比機會佢懶濕, 當懶尿時就輕聲教佢, 如日子耐咗仍無改善就要打PAT PAT(叫做罰o下佢無耳性), 而懶濕時就拖佢入廁所再同佢講如果要痾尿尿就要入廁所痾嫁, 唔可以響地上痾嫁.  再教佢想痾尿尿就要禁住個妹妹仔再行黎搵大人(因阿女仍未識講嘢所以我只可教佢做動作), 假使平時豆到痾尿又要跨張讚賞.  經過多輪的[size=large]失敗 + 耐性, 我囡囡3月1日先開始返幼兒園, 仲係返緊適應期, 與學校一齊幫阿女介片, 終於最後過咗復活節假就可以全天候唔洗著片lu(除咗晚上訓覺外).

我當初都無逼自己要set target幾時內一定要阿女介到片, 因為阿女未識講話估佢起碼要3 - 4個月到tim, 不過只要努力去幫小朋友個心想過完今日望聽日會進步少少個心態就會輕鬆d嫁喇.

HelenMrs.Lau

近來唔知點解總覺得, 好似樣樣事都唔順利咁..
我都明白, 呀仔唔記得咪唯有再教過. 不過就好似十個茶壺九個蓋, 永遠蓋唔晒; 補得東來, 西邊又漏雨.＝＝＝＞我都覺得係呀    

另外, 好喜歡你朵太陽花(大頭相), 好可愛.＝＝＝＞完全同意，笑得好燦爛，好開心呀！

HelenMrs.Lau

小艾比：
你阿女好0力喎     

mamee

小艾比

唔肯食飯..係一啖都唔食, 定食得少?
白啲講, 如果屋企真係無人照顧小朋友, 一定要返全日的話, 我就唔信老師唔俾呀囡返全日. 如果只係食得少, 可唔可以提議老師飯後睡前俾多兩塊餅呀囡食呀. 再唔係就帶奶粉, 不過通常學校都唔贊成.

時間許可, 都可以睇多兩個禮拜; 一個月都唔得, 我就會出聲反問老師有乜建議囉.

mamee

reginang

我早一輪都係咁,心情無端端直插谷底,給時間沖刷過喇,叫自己唔好咁執著,人既心情總有起有落,總唔可能時時刻刻都開心架,間中心情低落,咪識得珍惜以後開心既時侯,其實,我地可以選擇,開心或唔開心,自己可以話事架    

其實我都明白你地架,大家都好希望爭取時間ma,讓小朋友快些追上學習,總之大家努力,不過適當的時侯應該讓自己放鬆架      

JOANNA722

kakab105

Please check PM!

小艾比

mamee,
老師話佢只食兩, 三啖咋, 成日含住D飯菜響口到.我有同老師講如果佢真係唔肯食飯, 我放D麵包響書包到時你地比佢食得唔得,佢地又話最好唔好, 費時比第二D小朋友見到又唔肯食飯要食自己D食物.  我又同老師講, 之前又話佢喊仲要返半日, E+都冇喊啦係唔食嘢JE, 我比佢返全日學都係想跟多D人學講話及與人相處, 如果你地仍唔比佢返全日學, 我可以點做好??? 之後老師就話返埋今個星期會同主任傾試o下下星期比佢返全日學呀.  但又佢問我其實我擔唔擔心阿女唔食嘢, 我就話"養兒一百歲，長憂九十九"樣樣都過份擔心只唔比機會佢試, 咁佢一定唔會成長到.

個老師比我噴到一面口水咁收線呀.   我諗諗o下佢可能真係似住我有婆婆幫我揍女所以仍唔肯比阿女返全日學呀.

小艾比

reginang & all,
, 有一日老公入黎呢間房到睇, 佢見到你d message都有讚你好勇敢及A妹好可愛TIM.  佢亦有講, 呢到D媽媽好積極面對及努力教小朋友, 叫我好好向大家學習呀.

mickeyma

mrsphcheung,
Thanks for your encouragement!
I think I need to either adjust my training method to more flexible and daily life way or push hard on the table task...
Just too many pressures recently and I share the same feeling as mamee... seems things are not smooth: maid is not good, daughter is having examination but not willing to work harder, need to take care lunch, dinner every day for the family (before my mother-in-law did), more work load in the office and every week one day China trip...  Sometimes, I told My Father God that I could not take the burden any more... why do you give me a special boy to raise...  :cry:  

小艾比

thanks. 聽日阿女去大口環評估喇, 到時會話比大家知佢點啦.  但我e+就好緊張呀.

HelenMrs.Lau 寫道:
小艾比：
你阿女好0力喎     

mrsphcheung

mickeyma,

Just relax.  My situation is not better than you.  The only difference is I have only one child.   

Try to develop some personal interest to strike a balance between your family and yourself so that your can have sufficient energy in the future.

留前鬥後,以戰養戰.

    

678

呀思
hello, 你咁遲先上來架!

Joanna
真係好! 恭喜晒了. 你去chaiwan, 係咪你個邊有694去呀? 咁都方便d. 你同呀思佢地, 大家就多d交換信息喇.

我今天去了見個 i 位老師, 靚女黎既, 好nice, 佢已經有講埋我仔各方面所需, 叫我地帶多d佢去playground玩.佢大肌肉
唔係咁好喎. 今日去學校, 比呀仔見到,  當時係toilet 小便, 自己穿好褲.好可愛

hinhinmummy 12312
撗掂都有, copy 比埋我啦. 我都知自己懶架喇, 不過有野旁下身都好好既,  隻copy麻煩交埋比12312比我.
多謝hinhinmummy & 12312 在此的貢獻 ! bravo     

reginang

比比
大家都一齊學習啦,明天囡囡去面試,早一齊順利,+oil  

kakab105

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小艾比 寫道:
thanks. 聽日阿女去大口環評估喇, 到時會話比大家知佢點啦.  但我e+就好緊張呀.
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加油呀~~~~~~~~~~~       

HelenMrs.Lau

MICKYMA,
休息∼∼∼衝刺∼∼∼休息∼∼∼衝刺∼∼∼休息∼∼∼衝刺∼∼∼休息∼∼∼衝刺∼∼∼
吊頸都要

gigi2

Mickeyma,

Come to talk with us!  Let me replace hinhinmummy to      

sjmama

mickeyma 寫道:
Just too many pressures recently... Sometimes, I told My Father God that I could not take the burden any more... why do you give me a special boy to raise...  :cry:  

Dear mickeyma,
I do share with your feeling!
In fact, I have serious headache (偏頭痛) for one week and have to take strong medicine to stop it. Even so, I still can't sleep well. My doctor said it's because of stress.
Just like you, my maid brings us a lot of troubles. And we're planning to fire her. However, she's the one who takes care of my son and my son attaches to her. So we need to plan carefully.
Both my husband and I had many problems with our works. Last Friday we even shouted to each other when my daughter threw another tantrum that day. That had never happened before. My daughter just recovered from common cold. My son is sick again....

And I have two kids with special needs.... One is more than enough. How can I handle two? I always ask God.   

mrsphcheung

Dear sjmama,

"And I have two kids with special needs.... One is more than enough. How can I handle two? I always ask God."  Fully understand your painful situation.  

Many mums with special kids are weak in health, e.g. insomnia, headache, stomachache, depression, .....  as they are too nervous about their children's situation.  If we are sick, who will take care of our kids?  Nobody can do better than us!  

Must "休息∼∼∼衝刺∼∼∼休息∼∼∼衝刺....."

Must 留前鬥後,以戰養戰.

    

kawai

Dear all,

Cheers up!  Relax yourself and try to think positively.  I've learnt how to brain wash myself recently that helps to release my pressure a lot.  Do you know what  "sprit of Ah Q" is?  

Sometimes I think it's no big deal to raise a special kid as long as he's healthy and happy. I'll try to accept his problems but not to give up.

Dear mickeyma,
I remembered that your son showed no A-features at all on the last govt assessment. What's his problem?  Don't worry if he'd not cooperate on table tasks.  Kids get smarter when they get older.  They may feel boring when we ask them to do things repeatly.

Dear sjmama,
I do share with your feelings too.  I do imagine how stressful you're as a monther of 2 special kids.  Try not to take too much pain killer as it doesn't help to cure the root of the problem.  Have you ever try foot massage?  It really works.

reginang

all

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