DGJS Interview 後感覺

AgnesTM

點先為之公平呢？
小一收生，間間都係不外乎係睇下小朋友係讀邊間幼稚園，睇下成績表(+評語)，睇家長，睇臨場表現。
唔係淨係名校係咁，就算 d 新派學校都係咁。

其實，唔係咁，可以點？
唔通叫個六歲小朋友寫篇論文？
有時，學校收生程序時，睇漏眼有幾奇？

人地個小一收生方式，用咁多年，唔係唔知卦？
既然間學校處理得咁唔好，收生方法咁唔公平，當初就唔好考啦。
又話人地唔公平，又要擁去考，而家考完，覺得自己機會唔大，就數人地間學校，真係好冇品。

AgnesTM

如果真係次次 dictation 都零分，當然係有問題，
不過，我唔相信係小朋友本身讀唔上咁簡單。
一個小朋友點差，都唔會次次零分。
會唔會係家長唔識點同小朋友溫習 dictation？
又或者有其他事情困擾個小朋友呢？

agreed! My friend's daughter is one of the example, she has encountered great difficulties in studying the subjects in DGJS. She has got 'eggs' in several dictations and was very frustrated as she has never had any dictations before when she was in kindergarten.

kuyt

Chole 寫道:
I would say don't worry!

Most of the kids adjust well after the first month in terms of the long school hours, lunch arrangement etc which is faced by all other P1 students anyway.  

Dictations/tests start in OCT, another adjustment but mostly for the mama (I mean for us to learn how the help the kid to revise).  However, some teachers help a great deal (e.g., recite in the class, group quiz before test etc, test questions are read in class and they do the papers together so they won't miss a part) and I feel much relaxed say after the 1st 3 weeks of OCT.

You won't believe homework is not heavy at all!  1-3 pieces (including corrections wor!) everyday and sometimes she has none!  

Test/dictation materials are not too many at a time.  e.g, 2-3 chapters in General Studies, less than 20 "vocabularies" for Chinese (秋天, 樹葉, 黃色,金色).  Dictation on readers is pretty easy e.g. today they have "shall, children, daddy, mummy, monkey, jump, sit".  My girl did not have dictation in kinde but she has absolutely no problem in adjusting to it(maybe I do not ask for 100 marks! ).

I have hesitation last year when my girl got accepted and the advice I received were quite divided!  I am glad that eventually I have made a right decision and my kid enjoys her school life soooooo much!

Good luck to you all!   

Chole,
想請問你囡兒的幼稚園成績表上老師或校長的評語是否很出色呢?我當然覺得你女兒可成功讀一定是很叻女, 但我想證實幼稚園校長的評語對於取錄機會佔非常重要的地位(撇開家底等問題), 多謝相告.

kuyt

某程度是她女兒很想和其他K3同學一齊直升上連繫的小學, 但因父母覺得既然有幸獲得取錄, 不如嘗試一下, 免得將來後悔. 我相信他囡囡當然不是這麼不濟, 只是一時未能適應DGJS的學習步伐, 我相信小朋友的潛能經一段時間是可發揮出來的, 因她在幼稚園的成績是很好的並且她很主動學習及看書的.

AgnesTM 寫道:

如果真係次次 dictation 都零分，當然係有問題，
不過，我唔相信係小朋友本身讀唔上咁簡單。
一個小朋友點差，都唔會次次零分。
會唔會係家長唔識點同小朋友溫習 dictation？
又或者有其他事情困擾個小朋友呢？



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agreed! My friend's daughter is one of the example, she has encountered great difficulties in studying the subjects in DGJS. She has got 'eggs' in several dictations and was very frustrated as she has never had any dictations before when she was in kindergarten.

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yukico

由 kuyt 於 2006-11-15 22:48:48
agreed! My friend's daughter is one of the example, she has encountered great difficulties in studying the subjects in DGJS. She has got 'eggs' in several dictations and was very frustrated as she has never had any dictations before when she was in kindergarten.

如果個小朋友P.1的dictation攞幾次"蛋", 那就需要提提你的朋友, 試下幫個囡找出原因. 事關DGJS P.1的dictation真的很容易, 只要小朋友有溫書, 就實唔會"捧蛋" (而事實上是有絕大部份小朋友攞滿分10分的!!)

或者可以請你的朋友在每次dictation前一晚, 花點兒時間, 將課文內的生字要個囡串一次, 唔識的就寫多2-3次, 然後根據reading讀句子, 要個囡寫, 還要留意標點符號(因為dictation時, 老師會讀整句句子, 然後由小朋友寫出來), 看看這樣有否幫助?

無論讀哪間學校, 一個P.1(6歳)的小朋友, 很少能掌握自行溫習的方法, 所以在這個起步階段, 家長的扶持是很重要的. 然後當小朋友慢慢長大, 才開始慢慢"放手", 讓他/她去建立一套自己的溫書方式.

kuyt

YUKICO,
Thank you very much for the advice, I would share the suggestion with his couple. As far as I know, his daughter usually make mistakes in the capital letter or plural or singular form of the words. As said before, her daughter has seldom come across the dictation thru. the 3-year kindergarten life. So it takes time for the girl to adapt the life especially in such a hard push and trad. approach school. She also feels the pressure in studying and feels lonely. My friend says that she is the minority of the class as her best kindergarten friends/classmates promote to the associated primary school. I agree that she has some adaptative and emotional problem in addition to the study. The friend couple are struggling and working hard to help the daughter but time is short for them as they are working couples, so there is also pressure existed for the couple.

andrew

coreymami 寫道:
唔好怪我多事, 名校何價??

我有朋友個女以前係幼稚園時, 係學校既尖子, 咩比賽都win, 又年年第一, 因為老豆係銀行做高級人員, 外婆以前又係校長, 結果比佢入左女拔.

前日同朋友傾計, 自得知佢而家日日放學陪個女做功課做到發哂顛, 我朋友不流eq都好高, 係好斯文既人都咁, 上次同佢老公出黎卡啦ok, 咁岩佢老婆唔係度, 佢老公就發哂顛, 講哂粗口咁罵,(佢不流又係好斯文既人), 仲問我地可唔可以講粗口發"舌"一下, 佢話個女而家返左3個月瘦到成條藤咁, 個老婆晚晚好似顛左咁, 晚晚做功課做到10點幾先有得訓, 而家個個星期都冇weekend架啦, 星期六要參加課外活動, 星期日又要溫功課,   成屋人都要陪大女讀書.

咁你地話d小朋友咁細個咁樣正唔正常先?? 有哂童年, 分分鐘重可能迫到個小朋友唔鐘意讀書, 將自己放棄, 咁就一世架啦, 畢竟唔係個個小朋友都受得架, 唔好因為自己想個小朋友讀名校, 就一霜情願咁要佢地入去讀啦, 各位家長真係好三思呀.

I think it can prove that the headmaster cannot pick out the dumps at all.

AdaHo123

冇人話女拔唔好, 但係唔係收咗就讀得掂係另外一回事.
請班女拔小一家長下學期再上來傾下係咪真係咁輕鬆啦.

Chole

Hi kuyt,

swimblue

Hi, Chole,

Since your daughter is studying in this school.  Do you know anything about the school will be moving to TKO?  

Many thanks,

kuyt

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Chole 寫道:
Hi kuyt,

emchan

    我本人認為戴校長是一個很負責又愛學生的校長,(這並不是扣她高帽)，這全是我真心的感覺！首先是進行這麼長時間的面試，體力、心力的付出真的不少，其實她已貴為校長，大可以把這個責任假手於人。我想信很多所謂名校的校長都不願獨力承擔這個重擔。
    另外，各位常常說十分鐘的面試實不公平，那麼大家則認為其他學校的面試就一定公平嗎？其實我的囡囡（她是細女，十一月尾出世）昨年她投考了五間小學，分別是（SFA，APS，KLS，S＠＠C and DGJS)，結果除了S＠＠C,全部都取錄了我的囡囡，而令我最不滿的是校長竟然公然說不會收細女，除非是天才。難道這就是公平嗎？
　還有我亦想講一講昨年的面試感覺，無可否認其他學校的面試時間是長過女拔，但其實囡囡告訴我各間學校的老師都只是問了她幾條問題，其他時間都在課室外等候或行上很高的樓層，不知情的家長便誤以為面試花了很多時間。（聖芳濟各除外）

AgnesTM

如果係咁，即係適應問題啦，
咁佢可能去邊間小學都會咁，唔關 DGJS 事。

kuyt 寫道:
某程度是她女兒很想和其他K3同學一齊直升上連繫的小學, 但因父母覺得既然有幸獲得取錄, 不如嘗試一下, 免得將來後悔. 我相信他囡囡當然不是這麼不濟, 只是一時未能適應DGJS的學習步伐, 我相信小朋友的潛能經一段時間是可發揮出來的, 因她在幼稚園的成績是很好的並且她很主動學習及看書的.[quote]
AgnesTM 寫道:

如果真係次次 dictation 都零分，當然係有問題，
不過，我唔相信係小朋友本身讀唔上咁簡單。
一個小朋友點差，都唔會次次零分。
會唔會係家長唔識點同小朋友溫習 dictation？
又或者有其他事情困擾個小朋友呢？



[quote]
agreed! My friend's daughter is one of the example, she has encountered great difficulties in studying the subjects in DGJS. She has got 'eggs' in several dictations and was very frustrated as she has never had any dictations before when she was in kindergarten.

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AgnesTM

stjoboldboy 寫道:
Tigerprawn,

做密改左個名做 AgnesTM呀! 舊名好聽D wor!

邊個係 tigerprawn？
我冇用過其他名。

話時話，哩度 d 文化，係唔係一見人地講野唔岩聽，就話人地係邊個邊個呢？