好擔心...醫生話BB發展遲緩~~

gtung3388

mamee,

my son had a good improvment , lot of eye contacts now and start his single wording since last saturday.

He just back from the health clinic, after the assessment by the doctor , said it 's a bit late for a 2yr old boy to start speech and  bit of
自閉,need to have further assessment  and action.

will update u all , after the discussion with my wife coz they just back home,and now is my son's nap time

gtung3388

678

陸美媽, kakab, Helen
係囉! 好地地個個喊到咁淒涼, 水浸喇呢道!
hinhinmummy 你鞭打佢地好惡呀!
我幫你手拍醒佢地.      

helen
你個女畫得真係靚呀!

mamee
係呀! 你呀仔冇改錯名真係white on white

tin_tin
你又喊架, 唔好喊, 拍醒你   

陸美爸

hinhinmummy, mamee & gigi,

多謝大家既鼓勵...尤其是hinhinmummy既

心情down都有一段日子喇, 我諗可能係亞仔生日既後遺症, 佢生日前大家都會覺得佢仲細, 但一過生日就會覺得"點解仲未識？", 雖然話可以當聽唔到唔理佢地, 但事實上我真係聽到, 真係會令我更加擔心同唔開心

不過好彩, 之前我咪話亞仔好曳既, 呢排又正常番喎, 好似我有幾次太疲倦係梳化訓左, 佢會乖乖地自己玩, 玩一陣又輕輕走過黎鍚啖我, 好似王子鍚睡公主咁, 真係好鬼體貼, 好甜

gigi講得對 -- patience and wait is our job!

大家努力吧！

陸美媽

678

[quote]I位幼兒園叫我地同仔仔呢個星期一齊去見老師, 要見成個多小時, 有什麼要準備呢?

tintin
你接左社工通知有 i 位後幾耐收到通知信呀?
我呀仔就唔洗interview了, (因為佢已係道讀緊普通位) 我想快d收到信, 穩鎮d嘛!

tin_tin

678 寫道:
tintin
你接左社工通知有 i 位後幾耐收到通知信呀?
我呀仔就唔洗interview了, (因為佢已係道讀緊普通位) 我想快d收到信, 穩鎮d嘛!

I did not receive any 通知信 woh...
我接左社工通知有 i 位後 1 week, the nursery call me directly.
Did you receive the confirmation from the nursery? No need interview is good ah. I'm very afraid of interview. Everytime, my son has big tempered during interview.

hinhinmummy

TIN_TIN

有人成日問我軒軒幾多歲, 我都會好老實講佢3歲, 我覺得我無需要隱暪d乜野law, 雖然佢係好似乜都不識, 但佢真係3歲呀麻, 可能我還有個家姐, 我試過有一次帶佢地去食lunch buffet, 甘3歲以下不收錢, 3歲以上半價, 甘你們都諗到我為左慳小小錢就話軒軒兩歲幾, 點知......後果你們都知啦.

所以我一定會話軒軒3歲, 因為自己都係教佢答3歲

gigi2

軒軒呢排叻左小小甘啦, 我依家努力緊教佢人地問佢咩名同幾多歲佢要答, 佢只係可以有時答到3歲, 咩名就.....有次去大口環做ot, 個姑娘問佢(工人話我知), 佢就識答軒軒, 但我們問佢就....

mamee

tin_tin & 678

以我兩年前既經驗來講..係唔駛interview.
去到學校只係填下form, 傾下呀仔有乜習慣, 食飯如何, 介左大小便未等等. 買下校服, 講下校車, 幾點返學放學..係咁上下.

無記錯, 聽過老師講: 社署派到落黎就一定要收, 無得話唔收. 所以你地可以放心, 唔會無啦啦無左個位.

mamee

678

我呀仔好彩冇人咁樣問過點解咁遲都未識講野! 不過我話比人聽呀仔己經返學了, 因為佢未識講野.
依家我叫佢叫人, 好彩的話, 佢都會跟你叫.

678

tintin
係咩! 我可能當時太雀躍了, 忘晒形! 好似聽到社工話會有信會寄比我.  我依家未收到學校通知, 不過我今日係呀仔手冊寫左下去. 後日等我親身湊呀仔返學問下主任先.

mickeyma

陸美媽, kakab, Helen

Cheer up! I have borrowed one book from my ST on last sunday which is talking about late talker. And there are many sucessful cases there and I found they have much loose definition on the Auctism And a lot of such kids are proved to be quite smart and are going to University later...
They all have something common: good memory, like music, like numbers, good at reading and weak social skills... And these do improve after they grow up.

Regarding I seat interview. We did that three weeks ago. 主任 talked with us and instroduced the facility of the school and we need to fill the form. I位 teacher brought my son along to one room for assesement and brought him back two hours later.
She just gave a short comment when I asked her: Yu knows lots of things.. he is very sensitive to numbers..     I位teacher paid a home visit to us last satuday when YU was 暫托 in their school. Yu likes this school a lot. When we put him to 暫托again this morning, he was quite happy.  

Tin-tin,
I think this kind of assesment done by school is not like in center.. they are more informal and teacher will do it while playing with kids..  

Gigi2,
welcome back! we miss you a lot. Hope you will solve all the problems quickly.  :

678

mamee
可能今時唔同往日了. 係要interview架!
因為d 負責人要見完d 小朋友, 看會不會太差,
佢地怕會影響左其他學生, 所以唔係實得架.

mamee

678 & tin_tin

唉..我(啲資料)out啦
唯有祝你地仔仔見幼兒中心當日, 生生性性, 聽聽話話啦.

mamee

HelenMrs.Lau

多謝大家鼓勵 我都好怕人地問阿仔幾大      我次次都會好衰甘報細數      不過我會比心機教落去既。我唔做，邊個做丫     

mickeyma

exactly.

Actually, before, I hope people can ask me how old my son is as he is much taller than his age peer.(106cm now). So I will always said: 佢兩歲幾喳! Then people would say: wow, he is very tall, like 4 years old..  Starting from Mar. 05, I would still say: 佢兩歲幾喳, but 心虛。After he had birthday last week, now I will say: 佢三歲. Then add again: Just passed three..

HelenMrs.Lau 寫道:
多謝大家鼓勵 我都好怕人地問阿仔幾大      我次次都會好衰甘報細數      不過我會比心機教落去既。我唔做，邊個做丫     

HelenMrs.Lau

   E∼∼∼甘年齡不只是〔女人〕的秘密    仲係我地阿仔阿女的〔秘密〕     
有時見阿女逗阿仔玩，玩得好開心，笑到卡卡聲，反而我好內疚，覺得對阿仔唔住，好唔公平，比唔到阿仔一個健健康康，正正常常既身體。
如果阿仔無事，我地個家庭可能會更加開心快樂。     

gigi2

I miss you all too!  Anyway, your message cheers me up a lot!

And there are many sucessful cases there and I found they have much loose definition on the Auctism And a lot of such kids are proved to be quite smart and are going to University later...

    

hinhinmummy

有時見阿女逗阿仔玩，玩得好開心，笑到卡卡聲，反而我好內疚，覺得對阿仔唔住，好唔公平，比唔到阿仔一個健健康康，正正常常既身體。
如果阿仔無事，我地個家庭可能會更加開心快樂。   


me too

HelenMrs.Lau

HINHINMUMMY：
真係唔識點去平衡呀     

hinhinmummy

尋日帶阿仔同家姐去跺單車, 雖然好倦, 同埋只係在屋企樓下, 但內心都爭札左好耐, 病緊, 但又不想困住佢地係屋企.

軒軒依家可以跺得好快啦, 佢還可以跺到家姐果架12吋大單車tim呀!

helen

我們自己都要平衡, 呻完就算啦, 死得啦呢次, 比你們攪到我都down埋, 快d 醒我之得啦.

不知justjust生左未呢?

reginang

hinhinmummy,helen
你地唔好自責啦,就用個平常心去面對每一件事和每個挑戰,其實大家都咁努力去照顧小朋友,確實難得,反而我覺得我地既小朋友特別幸福就真  
如果行得攰,咪坐低飲杯水,順下條氣law,將來既路仲要加油呵