好擔心...醫生話BB發展遲緩~~

sjmama

tin_tin 寫道:
hinhinmummy , mickeyma & Helen,
我同你地一樣ah! 無左我收入, 好難afford得起佢甘多training...

Me too!     
I really want to quit my job when I find even my daughter has problems. But the dilemma is that:  we need even more money to pay for the training for her.

justjust

It was my last day of work before maternity leave yesterday. No more Chinese input fm the office now...

Our maid arrived on Mon late night, when we were about to sign up another one the same night.  We had no choice since she entered HK under a visa of our sponsorship. But within 24 hrs of her arrival, she said she would work for us until we find another helper.  We had no idea of what she had in mind in our 1.5 hrs of talk, she only said she was nervous that she couldn't meet our requirement, which was completely bullshit.  

Anyway she seemed better after the talk and our "counselling" but my husband and I, and all the relatives, friends, colleagues whom we talked with, agreed that we should look for a back up asap.  Apart from $ wasted, what's worse is she is really wasting our time, something that we can't afford to waste.  It's really tough and we hope we can survive the next few months.

BTW, it tempting to be a full time mom but it is not easy either.  I have been a full tme mom myself for 1.5 yrs, and half of the time I had a full time maid helping out.  What happened was I spent so much time at home with our girl that it was difficult for me to have so much patience with her.  Mentally and psychologically when I come home from work I'd try to give her the best side of myself, 'cos I miss her so much after a day's work. But it is entirely different when I stayed with her 24 hrs a day and 7 days a week.

My husband used to say he worked so much at the office and he wanted to rest at home; but I told him that for a full time mother, there was not even a moment of resting time, esp. for kids not going to school yet.  Now he understands when he took time off from work to take care of our girl during the week that we had no helper at all.  

gigi2

As a working mom which makes me most concern is about the time management for balance of work vs home and the handling of maid that is an issue talking about your luck.

Justjust,

Any other help hands from your relatives living nearby you.  Maybe your new maid can perform better with assistance as she is lack of confidence.  if she is the only one to take care your 2 kids in future, you will worry a lot after resume work from maternity leave because she is not independent type perphaps.

hinhinmummy

justjust

如果我無估計錯誤, 你新請的bun bun不鍾意湊new born baby, 不過無計, 因為你們不經agent,所以佢可以慳一大筆agency fee, 而落到黎香港, 佢就有辦法再搵一個佢應該'好做'的新僱主, 這樣, 佢可以慳好多.

你依家要做的是, 立即搵新工人, 不好再浪費時間啦, 你的bb就快出世啦.

take care, 不好因為工人的事而操心, 小心身體.

to all

呢兩曰係屋企, 下畫得閒(通常朝早出街, 下畫打道回府), 就整muffin, 軒軒可能食慣微波爐叮的hello kitty蛋糕, 見到我將d蛋糕粉放入焗爐, 呢頭放入去, 果頭就要我拎出黎食, 還係甘講'快d, 快d', 點快呀?

佢連廚房門口都不比我出, 我足足企係廚房望住個焗爐30分鐘, 個蛋糕焗好才出得廳

不過佢地好比面, 家姐仔食左6個(細細個), 軒軒食左4個 連工人都讚好食

justjust

hinhinmummy, gigi2,

You won't believe it. We interviewed her in HK and she had full knowledge of her responsibilities.  She knew that if she somehow cannot complete the contract, she has to return to the Philippines.  My colleague said she probably wanted to come here, borrow lots of money and then go back home.  Anyway we are already prepared to look for another one.  We are simply unhappy that we had wasted so much time on waiting for her, and now for sure the new one will arrive after our baby is born.

Enough about the maid ...

Dear all,

We went to Lion Club Park in Sai Kung today. It is always nice to be there and our girl liked feeding the fish.  We plan to go to Gold Coast tomorrow and hope it won't rain.

We also enrolled our girl in some skating classes recently.  She has been asking for dancing classes but the timing was not good.  We hope this will help her to spend her energy and be calmer at other times.

JOANNA722

各位
我明日早機飛嗱!  去芭提雅!  到時日日掛住啊仔

kakab105

JOANNA

玩得開心d~~~~~~~

mamee

Joanna

做乜唔去日本唧, 係既話我可以托你買好多好多野嘛
玩得開心d, 影多d靚相.

mamee

hinhinmummy

joanna

玩得開心d, 要玩就盡情玩, 不好掛住阿仔啦

HelenMrs.Lau

我都好想去旅行呀     

tin_tin

JOANNA
玩得開心d ah!  

Helen,
我都好想去旅行呀! The Easter Macau plan was called off. My elder son is very stubborn. He insisted to sleep at home when we planned to had vacation at Macau. He also insisted not to take aeroplane until he was 18 years old.

mamee,
Your son is very handsome!!  

陸美爸

joanna,

玩得開心d呀...唔駛掛住我架     

我都好想去旅行哦

陸美媽

hinhinmummy

tin_tin

好彩軒軒係邊都訓得覺

有次帶佢去朋友屋企玩, 個個小朋友跳晒上朋友張床, 軒軒都可以自己拿住張被, 見到枕頭就訓覺, 還要訓到流口水, 失禮死人

軒軒終於肯刷牙, 還吐埋水, 佢鍾意的程度可以話駛利, 因為佢成日刷完牙就呃奶飲, 飲一兩啖又話牙膏, 甘就走左去唱向上刷, 向下刷, 又走去刷牙

HelenMrs.Lau

哩幾日對得隻仔多，隻仔一日〔媽〕到黑，好煩呀       
做乜鬼

mickeyma

Hinhinmummy,

軒軒好叻啊。 宇不是很喜歡刷牙,不過我們堅持令他養成這個習慣，因為他前面上面四顆牙都柱得厲害，上次帶去見牙醫,姑娘說因為磨牙,但我覺得他是柱牙多些？看牙醫他是不合作了，有媽咪有此經驗嗎? 雖是乳齒,很擔心會影響恆齒！

hinhinmummy 寫道:
軒軒終於肯刷牙, 還吐埋水, 佢鍾意的程度可以話駛利, 因為佢成日刷完牙就呃奶飲, 飲一兩啖又話牙膏, 甘就走左去唱向上刷, 向下刷, 又走去刷牙

mickeyma

Helen,

仔仔進步好大哇! 吾通你想佢封口?
恭喜!恭喜! 好快同家姐嗌交啦

HelenMrs.Lau

mickeyma 寫道:
Helen,

仔仔進步好大哇! 吾通你想佢封口?
恭喜!恭喜! 好快同家姐嗌交啦

已經動粗添     
阿仔同家姐搶玩具喇!
一路爭, 仲一路講[搶.. 搶.. 搶..]
激C!      
都唔知係唔係喺學校[搶]慣咗呢     
真正既嗌交就未見      當家姐鬧阿仔〔衰人，行開！〕阿仔識反擊，

hinhinmummy

mickeyma

我諗就算佢不合作, 都要捉住佢同佢補左去, 雖然話乳齒, 但係註得深的話都會影響將來恆齒的.

其實軒軒初時都不肯刷牙的, 我都係捉住佢, 一個襟頭, 一個襟手, 後尾佢可能知道都係要刷就慢慢放鬆訓係度比我們刷, 我見到佢肯啦, 就加牙膏, 跟住再肯啦, 咪入廁所刷, 跟住吐埋水tim.

不過佢要工人同佢刷佢先肯'呀'甘ma大口, daddy同我都不得

reginang

hinhinmummy
唉.... 點解d小朋友咁識蝦daddy mami    

hinhinmummy

helen

我都想軒軒有朝一日係甘媽到我煩.

佢有時訓訓下, 無啦啦叫媽媽, 我好開心甘應佢, 係! mug野事呀? 佢就跟住笑啦.

我依家教緊佢'你叫mug野名呀?", "你幾多歲?"

佢只係識重覆講'咩名?", 跟住先講'軒軒', 幾多歲就好d, 3歲, but有時都不肯講, 我講3.......佢先講埋歲字.

我希望快d教識佢, 因為都3歲啦, 出街好多人問佢呢兩個問題.