好擔心...醫生話BB發展遲緩~~

mickeyma

各位媽媽,
就被個工人激c.. �
叫佢去接仔仔順便做埋PT先go home. 佢見學校的其他同學走,佢也走。 Teacher called and I was in China on trip. Only know that after going home at night.
In the morning, I even asked her to bring a pen and book to write down the trainning content...
上星期,叫佢帶我平時同宇做sit up 的reinforcement 英文MY BODY卡片給PT看,示范給她看。I even put the card into my son's school bag myself in the morning. When she came back, I asked her, she said she did.
本星期二,問PT, 完全唔知。
唉,用佐一個幾月,唔知炒唔炒好，人又冇咩笑容,要提先有,總俟太嬤嬤講:皮笑肉不笑那種

kawai

Dear mickeyma,

Yes, it's the most effective method for kids who refuse to take medicine.  My mom taught me and it's been worked on all kids in our family.  Once you've been tried it, most of the kids will take medicine peacefully.  

My son has taken the lab test last Friday after visiting Dr. Ko.  He has started to take some vitamins and minerals which help his attention span and reduce the mercury from his body.  We'll visit Dr Ko again lwhen the lab test report is ready.  I'll post a progress report on BK after Easter Holiday.

hinhinmummy

mickeyma

我自己的經驗, 一個好笑容多野講的工人, 一定會對我們的小朋友有影響.

我個工人黎左不夠3個月, 軒軒多左笑容, 多左聲氣.

雖然有時牛頭不答馬咀, 好似st教軒軒唱:
"我有一雙小腳踏踏踏, 我有一雙小手拍拍拍"

佢可以唱成
"我用一對腳腳踏踏踏, 我用一對手仔拍拍拍"(係甘上下啦).  但我都會諗埋佢係外藉人士, 聽過st唱過幾次(上堂), 返黎都叫做唱到d, 我都好欣惠, 起碼我知道佢係用心上堂, 不係遊瑰.

mickeyma

Dear Kawai,
Is it recommended by the Dr. Ko take those vitamins and minerals?  

kawai 寫道:
My son has taken the lab test last Friday after visiting Dr. Ko.  He has started to take some vitamins and minerals which help his attention span and reduce the mercury from his body.  We'll visit Dr Ko again lwhen the lab test report is ready.  I'll post a progress report on BK after Easter Holiday.

mickeyma

Hinhinmummy,
Your maid is very good already. I used to have three maids, this fourth one is the worst. All the others had good smile and tender heart towards my kids. This maid made me want to fire her two weeks after she arrived our home. But I want to give her some time and thought she might be not used to the life here.
She likes eating so much. We do not care what she eat as we normall have many fruits and biscuits at home as my daughter need to bring everyday for break. But what she bahaved is very bad. She often hide some food in the drawer of kitchen or sleeping room... and I found 糖紙 in her room... She requested my mother in law to buy bread for her in the morning as all of us eat congee and she does not like... I told her none of our previous maid had this problem and rejected my mother in law to buy again. I don't pay for somebody who we need to serve... What is most stupid, she put a bottle of peanut jam in the rubbish bin without cover when my mother in law suddenly went to the kitchen...
We planned to go to China during the Eater Holiday, my daughter is worrying if we leave my maid at home, all the foods will be finished by her.. So she asked me whether daddy can stay to watch the maid...  

hinhinmummy

MICKEYMA

你個女好攪笑.  請工人真係好講彩數, 我都好感謝神, 比我揀到呢個工人, but似乎講得太早, 不知佢做做下會不會變差? :tongue:

tin_tin

mickeyma,

Your maid is really bad! Most of the maid will try to behave well in the first month. But yours seems did not try. She's likely to be worser. I think you'd better layoff her and get a new one asap. Maids who take care of kids need to be kind and patient.

678,
好彩我個仔&個女都好鐘意食藥, 唔洗煩多樣. 唔知係咪個醫生 d 藥甜架呢!
<- My younger son loves medicine very much. Even if his brother is sick, he want to take his brother's medicine. So I need to keep them in a safe place. He's a candy lover. I think the medicine taste very good  

mickeyma

Tin-tin,
I contacted agent two weeks after this maid arrived. He told us we had to pay the maid the air-tickets back and need to wait for 2 months again for a new maid... We can not wait for that and I decided to give this maid a try.
Now it seems my son likes her a lot already... as she is the one who sends him to school and gets him back and she will read English books with him. (my son loves English)... That is why despite of all those bad points, I still keep her till now. She is better with smiling now and will do some basic training with my son before I go home, like PT, OT..   
I treat her rather straight and direct comparing to other maids... eg. last time, when she told the lie reg. PT matter, I told her very directly: If I ask you to do something, you should do it! If you forgot to do it, you should not tell me you have done. She seems a little bit scared and allerted... Let's hope she will get better and better as we can not do without a maid... I will keep setting a clear guideline for her to follow... If she is not improving, we will consider to fire her when Yu is back to I school on Aug.

hinhinmummy

mickeyma

做在職媽媽真係難! 過年的時侯,我請左5日假既, 同軒軒返大陸玩點知出水豆果次呀! 果幾日, 我發覺軒軒進步左好多, 我心郁郁想做全職媽媽, but無左我收入, 好難afford得起佢甘多mug t 物t的training.

好難取捨

gigi2

Busy to die but still want to say yes!



[quote]做在職媽媽真係難!    

HelenMrs.Lau

hinhinmummy 寫道:

做在職媽媽真係難! 過年的時侯,我請左5日假既, 同軒軒返大陸玩點知出水豆果次呀! 果幾日, 我發覺軒軒進步左好多, 我心郁郁想做全職媽媽, but無左我收入, 好難afford得起佢甘多mug t 物t的training.

好難取捨

ME TOO     

mickeyma

Hinhinmummy,
我的心聲啊  :cry:
Not once I have this 沖動 to be a full time mummy after Yu's problem.  But we still need to take care of the house mortage and a lot of other expenses.. Not possible.... Anyway, now he is in school most of the day time, that is why we have to make use of every minutes when we are with them at home. Problem is my husband is not able to do training with him or check my daughter's homework... So most of the burden is on my shoulder. I borrowed one book for my husband writen by 七田真, four weeks passed, he not yet read a single page...   

Any plan for the Easter Holiday?

hinhinmummy 寫道:
mickeyma

做在職媽媽真係難! 過年的時侯,我請左5日假既, 同軒軒返大陸玩點知出水豆果次呀! 果幾日, 我發覺軒軒進步左好多, 我心郁郁想做全職媽媽, but無左我收入, 好難afford得起佢甘多mug t 物t的training.

好難取捨

:  :cry:  :  

hinhinmummy

mickeyma

我的情況簡直同你一樣.

想做全職媽媽, 雖然不駛供樓(已供完), 但都有其他開支. 軒軒又返左成日學, 得出黎對佢的時間亦不是太多. 呢點亦係我考慮的因素.

easter, 有一日會帶佢去冒險樂園, 因為應承左家姐, 測驗後帶佢去玩.

一日入屯門大姑奶度, 老公話, 上年過年無去過, 今年又無去過不係甘好wor, but過完年好耐啦bor. 佢話點都去下wor, 當遊車河wor.

一日, 可能返媽咪度

另一日, 休息日

HelenMrs.Lau

hinhinmummy , mickeyma :
我同你地一樣，隻老都唔肯同阿仔做training      激c！男人都係無乜愛心同耐性     

12312

同你地相返, 我個仔是好喜歡食藥,  不倫是 藥水 & 藥丸, 成日都搶住食, 種成日吼住"麻麻" 的藥丸, (因為佢喜歡咬丸.)   

另外, 叫佢baba 做佢做tranning, 次次都要同佢baba嘈交.   

陸美爸

12312,

唔知道你囝囝要見幾多人, 我果陣就係約左14:00, 去到等-->見姑娘-->等-->見醫生(做各種測試約1.5hrs)-->等-->出醫生報告-->等-->見醫務社工(解釋各種轉介復務及按協助挑選/安排, 訓練/學校, 約1hr), 最後接近17:00至走得, 亞仔極度疲倦

陸美媽

mamee

Easter會去邊~仔仔得4日假.
聽日同星期一可能會去海洋公園, 或者冒險槳園, 又或者去動植物公圍. 星期六同日就去屯門黃金海岸過一晚, 婆婆同舅父仔都會一齊去. 我仔仔好鍾意玩沙, 可以坐定定玩個幾鐘. 黃金海岸酒店旁邊就有個沙灘, 好可便.
不過哩..都擔心天氣轉涼, 同埋仔仔好似作病, 尋日起手有少少鼻水, 今日放左學會去睇醫生拿家d藥.

希望Easter假期, 大家都過得開開心心.

mamee

陸美爸

我個仔響學校食藥就好乖, 坐定定擘大口等老師餵, 食得好開心；但係屋企就要用暴力制服佢, 鏈鼻用針筒唧俾佢食, 每次都喊到屎屎下, 分別咁大？     

我知道復活節淺水灣有復活節嘉年華, 只有28/3(星期一)一日, 13:00-18:00, 有興趣可以去玩玩     

kawai

Mickeyma,

Yes, the vitamins and minerals are prescribed by Dr. Ko.  

tin_tin

hinhinmummy , mickeyma & Helen,
我同你地一樣ah! 無左我收入, 好難afford得起佢甘多training and mortage expenses. 我隻老都唔係好肯同阿仔做training. His excuse is "my son didn't listen to me". Sigh....