好擔心...醫生話BB發展遲緩~~

tin_tin

sjmama,

Give them chance to attend small group social gathering is a good training.
Three years ago, whenever my elder son attended birthday party, he wanted to left before the birthday song. Frankly speaking, left after ate.   Now, he can stay until the party ends and will request to attend birthday party when he received invitation.

sjmama

Dear tin_tin,
Thank you for your advise. Yes, I should bring them to attend more social gatherings, if there is any.  

Dear all,

My son gets cold too. Any idea to feed an autistic kid medicine?

My son refuses to take medicine. He is very sensitive to taste, so even if I mix it with juice, he will still taste the difference and refuse to take juice anymore. Everytime when he is sick, we can hardly feed him any medicine. Finally either he can recover by himself, or we have to bring him to visit doctor for injection if his situation is worse. :cry:  

Really a headache!

mrsphcheung

sjmama,
Have you ever tried a syringe to feed him?  I used to ask my maid to hold his hands and I put the syrup into his mouth with the aid of syringe.  After that, I put my hand on his mouth to prevent him from spitting the medicine out.  It seems that I treat him badly....  
:cry:

hinhinmummy

sjmama

軒軒以前又不係肯食藥, 有一排肯的, 但係果排做得test多, 要食訓覺藥, 甘佢就驚左, 又不肯啦, 之後, 我每次自己食藥/家姐, 終知邊一個食藥都好, 都同軒軒講'媽媽食藥', '家姐食藥', 依家佢自己見到d藥就會話, 媽媽藥藥, 我不知藥水啦, 但呢幾日佢夜晚咳, 我比d珠仔丸佢食(以前食剩, 好細粒, 但要食好多粒), 佢自己都會講藥藥, 跟住就一啖食晒.

試下, 多d同佢講下.

hinhinmummy

激c我啦, 軒軒今朝仆低, d牙咬親下唇, 流血, 佢老豆就話不好返學, 帶左佢去飲茶? 我話下, 甘就不返學? 不係卦? 佢話佢行到去學校門口, 放慢腳步, 個樣好不開心, 當一行遠左就好輕鬆&好開心.

我想問, 你們會不會覺得軒軒讀得不開心呢?

HelenMrs.Lau

hinhinmummy 寫道:
激c我啦, 軒軒今朝仆低, d牙咬親下唇, 流血, 佢老豆就話不好返學, 帶左佢去飲茶? 我話下, 甘就不返學? 不係卦? 佢話佢行到去學校門口, 放慢腳步, 個樣好不開心, 當一行遠左就好輕鬆&好開心.

我想問, 你們會不會覺得軒軒讀得不開心呢?

甘小事就唔返學     
我隻仔近排都黐身到C喇      去到學校門口，喊晒口拖住走呀     
唔通日日都唔返學咩      知道跟住爸媽有街去，有得玩，唔洗上堂，緊係扮晒

mamee

hinhinmummy
去得飲茶, 即係返得學啦. 俾著係我一定要佢返學.
對住你老公所講那番話, 如果係我答, 我會話: 個仔唔捨得你唧!!
好多小朋友同爸爸媽媽分開果一刻, 都會有多少唔開心~係學校見得多. 不過轉頭唔駛5秒就即刻無晒事.
至於軒軒返學開唔開心, 呢個要自己細心留意先知; 我個仔返學就好開心囉.

sjmama
如果講唔掂數, 都要好似mrscheung所講咁, 格硬用針筒捉住食. 可以講條件既當然就好d.
我仔仔係突然間唔駛強逼就自動張開口肯食藥, 可能返學見到小朋友係咁食啩. 有時食完藥, 都會俾丁點咁多零食佢既~1塊紫菜/1粒維他命糖.

mamee

HelenMrs.Lau

好多小朋友同爸爸媽媽分開果一刻, 都會有多少唔開心~係學校見得多. 不過轉頭唔駛5秒就即刻無晒事.[size=x-large]＝＝＝＞完全同意

用針筒[size=x-large]＝＝＝＞我都用緊

有時食完藥, 都會俾丁點咁多零食佢既~1塊紫菜/1粒維他命糖.[size=x-large]＝＝＝＞利誘，高招         

mamee

Helen

個個小朋友都受利誘, 呢招好普通. 唔係仔仔啋我都傻 :tongue:

mamee

HelenMrs.Lau

MAMEE，
英雄，我都係甘話

sjmama

唉!我們試過所有的方法,軟的硬的.....講條件也不肯;他已六歲,三個人也無法按著他force feed,用針筒也不行,強行餵他,也被他吐出來;平時用故事書告訴他生病要吃藥,他是明白,就是不肯吃藥,他知道我們會把藥混入果汁,就只肯喝盒裝果汁, 或者只肯喝水.....
我試過那些藥水,味道甜甜的,也已經叫醫生開味道淡一點的, 但還是不行.....
每次他一生病,我就想癲

HelenMrs.Lau

sjmama：
     真係好頭痛喎     

mamee

sjmama

我都明大個仔就好難用硬.
講條件果道仲有無得傾下=唔食藥就無得睇電視/食完藥可以去公園玩一陣.
把藥混入果汁, 就只肯喝盒裝果汁, 或者只肯喝水>佢只係飲水就無得講, 但係我就一定唔會俾佢飲盒裝果汁. 食完藥我即刻俾你(仔仔)飲, 飲邊種都得.
我都明白你既苦處, 希望佢身體健健康康.

mamee

12312

陸美媽:
系果日早上9.00 到呀, 我怕囝囝早上不肯起身,姑娘說2hrs, 咁實際約幾多hrs 呢?

囝囝呢排多了好多單字, 昨晚佢拿 "麥麥磁貼" 我不停說"麥麥豬" 佢可以說; "麥麥" (可能學校教 英文 "p" 字 "pig", 佢記得, & 每日都要拿在手. )

12312

陸美媽:
系果日早上9.00 到呀, 我怕囝囝早上不肯起身,姑娘說2hrs, 咁實際約幾多hrs 呢?

囝囝呢排多了好多單字, 昨晚佢拿 "麥麥磁貼" 我不停說"麥麥豬" 佢可以說; "麥麥" (可能學校教 英文 "p" 字 "pig", 佢記得, & 每日都要拿在手. )

678

好彩我個仔&個女都好鐘意食藥, 唔洗煩多樣. 唔知係咪個醫生 d 藥甜架呢!

hinhinmummy

mamee, helen

我老公心軟law, 可能佢見到軒軒小, 見到軒軒偏咀就心軟卦??

算啦, 不返都不返左啦, 鬧又鬧過啦(老公), 算吧, 費事又搵交鬧

mickeyma

sjmama,
My son can not sit too long in the birthday party as well. But now is a little bit better than before. Bringing him to the birthday party, I 如臨大敵，要打醒十二分精神。He will be quiet when he is eating. After that, he will walk around. The problem is he does not know how to play with other kids in group... He will imitate other kids to dance.. but I must be next to him and inspire him.

  It is a big problem for you really to make your son to eat medicine. I have this problem when I feed my son Chinese Medicine. But 西藥, he likes it very much. Even eager to eat...  Sometimes, I also use 針筒to feed Chinese medicine.    利誘真俟唔得咩? 難為你了。

kawai

Try the following method, it really works but need at least 2 assistant to help.

Hold your son in your arm.  Get someone to hold his hands, legs and head.  Hold his nose then feed the medicine with spoon directly.  He'll naturally swallow the medicine in 2 seconds as he can't hold his breath too long.  He has to take breath by mouth when someone's holding his nose.
  
My son has been struggled like most of the kids when medicine feeding. I tried this method twice to him then he finally surrendered.  He will not struggle and fight anymore even the medicine taste bitter.



  

mickeyma

Kawai,
Very good way... But need the adult to be with strong body and strong mind..
Any sharing of visiting dr.高?