St. Catherine Interview

siden

原帖由 winifred102 於 11-11-7 20:36 發表
Glad hearing that your girl did well in the interviews.  I'd like to know too how you did in the past two/three years as you said "跟他/她一起成長"??  Are you a full-time parent?  I think the parents  ...

Care about other people's feelings - can't agree more

Many parents are not very good in english. Or, they may not be financially strong enough to employ an english speaking maid or enroll in many english tutoring courses. However, it does not alter the fact that they love their children and would like the children to obtain a better english speaking environment in school.

Paradoxically, those parents not good in english should place their children into a school with better english speaking environment. The school can help to teach their children good english!

I would also like to sincerely seek your advice how you can teach your child so well. Really impressed by your child's performance.

adaho43

原帖由 monster407 於 11-11-7 22:13 發表
見冬瓜師奶用這種態度和語氣來發表文章, 還要向她請教育兒方法.......... 大家味免太過客氣了, 而那邊廂又太過認真罷！

你睇清楚winifred102最尾最精警果句先:
"but I just know that we have to do for our kids the right things, which definitely include forgiveness and caring other people's feeling ..."

我只想講句: can't agree more... haha!!

bopui0607

i think u're so arrogant. 你囡囡in得好好巴閉咩, 唔好講到全世界得你一個培育自己小朋友, 入到SC/KV就係好媽媽叻小朋友啊? 其他入唔到就係地底泥 ? 唔該你反省下自己D態度啦.

原帖由 巴斯東瓜 於 11-11-7 19:12 發表
上星期五IN完ST. CATHERINE,好高興/好安慰. 阿囡INTERVIEW 用英文, 答對晒. 連最難的(蝴蝶)找一樣都岩左. 我見MISS放張岩既CARD係最右手邊,以為佢會拎錯. (因為阿囡係左手仔),點知佢真係識!! 最後MISS對住阿囡問多句 ...

kat_ma

TOTALLY AGREE!!!!

adaho43

原帖由 MLKC 於 11-11-7 21:52 發表
Some parents satisfied with their kids' performance during the interviews but at the end got nothing (not untrue; you can find many many precedent cases). The reality is that the game is not "really"  ...

你講得好啱, 不過我覺得重點係: in得好好又點? 就算真係入到咁又點? 就可以咁講野? 就可以咁話人?

咁如果我英文grammar又錯, 中文又錯別字, 咁應用咩語言去in呢? 定無資格去報呢? 選擇語言係畀小朋友用自己慣用語言去面試, 同家長英文好唔好有咩關係?

如果個家長自以為是同唔識尊重別人, 又可以培育出幾好既小朋友呢?

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5415

請問 巴斯東瓜 讀邊間中小學幼稚園？

巴斯東瓜

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siden

Teaching children is really not easy. Need a lot of patience.

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gothiccsco

原帖由 nlj1216 於 11-11-7 17:12 發表


You mean focus on the lego or focus on the teacher?

I maybe wrong, but I think the voice of that teacher(with cake) is low and I think she did not really want to get kids' attention when building blocks.

gothiccsco

原帖由 lifemustgoon 於 11-11-7 17:42 發表
有冇人有in普通話老師? 好似冇人提!

Teacher was nice and patient, asking few questions which I think are pretty basic.

bopui0607

你做d野好多媽媽做緊, 冇咩特別. 本來你講呢d教小朋友方法係無問題, 但係你又link 去in SC/KV既表現, 又踩其他人d英文, 請問你係咪native speaker, 如果係, 點解唔打英文, 驚我地睇唔明啊.....我希望你既mentality(無禮貌, 自大....)唔好傳左比阿囡.

原帖由 巴斯東瓜 於 11-11-7 23:09 發表
訓左...可以打多D...純交流, 無意得罪, 不要對號入坐.

My case:


當小朋友4個月大我倆決定唔請姐姐幫手, 因為心知一定長時間會靠姐姐. ( 轉鐘點, 這已經可以叫救命 )


我倆都是在職人仕, 時間分配好重要. ( 女麻 ...

lumcmk

it is really sorry to have a parent's attitude like this, what a pity !


quote]原帖由 巴斯東瓜 於 11-11-7 23:09 發表
訓左...可以打多D...純交流, 無意得罪, 不要對號入坐.

My case:


當小朋友4個月大我倆決定唔請姐姐幫手, 因為心知一定長時間會靠姐姐. ( 轉鐘點, 這已經可以叫救命 )


我倆都是在職人仕, 時間分配好重要. ( 女麻 ... [/quote]

winifred102

It'll be good if parents can share good tips and experience for others who have less ability.  This is why this forum is for.
I can understand that some parents may feel really happy, satisifed with their kids and are proud of how they can teach their kids so well. That's alright and it'll be good that they can share with others their experience.  For those having less abilities, it doesn't mean that they don't want to improve.  Parenting is always a process with lots of trials and errors.  One way of teaching which can suit my kid does not mean that it can also fit others.

I do not fully agree that helper is always an evil when talking about taking care of children.  As long as you communicate better with your helper and let her understand your requirements and the reasons behind, she can really help a bit during daily routine on babysitting and assisting you to teach/train your kids some basic knowledge and daily habit, not just simply relying your helper to do all the things for your children.  However, before you do this, you and your helper need to have a good relationship which indeed builds on the trust and respect between two of you.  If you care about your helper, she will care about you and your kid.  

I'm not as lucky as some of the mommies as my son's grandparents may not be able to come very often and I have to work during daytime, so I have to rely on my helper.  Other than working hours, me and my husband devote almost 99% of our time on our kid.  Can't remember when was the last time we had our own candle-light dinner.  PG,  playdates, etc..... are almost standard activities since  6months old.  The progress of my son is fairly good, some areas are more advanced than other kids, but some areas are only satisfactory.  But most important of all, he is really a happy little chap who always carries a big smile on his face.  We never give him pressure on schooling matters nor attending all sorts of activities which he does not like.  Maybe he's still too young and I need not to worry about homework and exams. I'm not too sure if I can still maintain relaxed when he comes to primary school.  I would love to hear more advice from other parents who have good experience.  Let's share more in this forum.

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adaho43

原帖由 bopui0607 於 11-11-7 23:27 發表
你做d野好多媽媽做緊, 冇咩特別. 本來你講呢d教小朋友方法係無問題, 但係你又link 去in SC/KV既表現, 又踩其他人d英文, 請問你係咪native speaker, 如果係, 點解唔打英文, 驚我地睇唔明啊.....我希望你既mentality( ...

Totally agree, 我同身邊個個媽咪都係做緊呢d野啦, 有咩咁特別, 我重識得有d在職媽咪日日專登早個幾鐘6-7am起身陪小朋友就係想多d親子時間添, "但有多少是出了十二分行動/精神去跟他/她一起成長呢?" 我可以答係"好多!"

monster407

見你遲遲味訓著, 還留了兩次post向大家說對不起, 以為大家誤會了你, 但看到最後,也不忘踐踏人兩腳, 就知你道歉得幾有「誠意」！算罷啦冬瓜太太, 我勸你早點抖罷！唔係聽日就唔夠「十二分」精神去教導你的尖子啊！

bopui0607

如果我小朋友in得咁好, 當然開心, 但我唔會批評人地冇好似我咁十二分去陪小朋友成長同踩人英文屎o羅.

不如你唔好塞錢入我地袋喇, 你諗下揀SC定KV啦, 揀DGS定係St. Paul Co-ed啦.

原帖由 巴斯東瓜 於 11-11-7 23:43 發表
如果我因文字上令到大家有不安既心情作誤會. 我向大家說對不起.
我只想分享給大家!!! 得到安慰而以. 我唔覺得有咩問題喎. 轉左係你...你開心唔開心?


另外我見到D POST " I WANT KNOW"既英文都叫個仔去IN 英文 想 ...

jessica1128

原帖由 巴斯東瓜 於 11-11-7 15:43 發表
如果我因文字上令到大家有不安既心情作誤會. 我向大家說對不起.
我只想分享給大家!!! 得到安慰而以. 我唔覺得有咩問題喎. 轉左係你...你開心唔開心?


另外我見到D POST " I WANT KNOW"既英文都叫個仔去IN 英文 想 ...

另外我都見到你個post寫 "得到安慰而以", 正確應該是"得到安慰而已"囉, 咁既中文, 你應該係叫個女in英文架嘞!

Jeanfamily

what you have been doing seems nothing extra to most parents are doing nowadays. Constructive idea on parenting is always appreciated. However, you'd better  be aware   of your critical comments that deemed to be very controversial. I am one of the many who  spend most of the resources in raising my kid. Thankfully, the kid was in good mood and condition in SC interview which allowed his potential to be effectively revealed. I believe that there are many devoting parents out there whose efforts worth to be highly complimented. Result in an interview doesn't necessarily reflect the achievement in parenting neither the full potential of the little ones.

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