讀唔讀多年k3好呢?請給我點意見

琬琬

阿女是細女(12月尾出世),讀唔讀多年k3好呢?
在班中雖不是最差那一個,但她的數學概念較差,與其他較大的同學比較就會有差距.
請各位或過來人給我點意見!   

淋雨

我有個朋友的囝囝現時是小一,他是12月出世,也是重讀k3,是老師建議的,他的老師覺得他的表現不是十分好,可能還未足6歲,若重讀多一年k3會對他的學習更有幫助,他的媽媽接受老師的建議,結果適應小一生活便好多了,而且成績不俗.他的媽媽說,如果當時免強升上小一,他的囝囝可能不及他人.

以上事例,你可作參考.

sephina

我囡囡都是細女, 但她除了數學不是很好外,中英文都有很好的表現, 現在我比佢學Kwik Maths,我諗升P1應沒問題。   

cmama

I faced the same problem last year.
There are pros and cons. It all depends on your own situation:
1) Your kid's development
If she's slow and the teacher's comment's the same. Repeating K3 is a good chance for her to build up a better foundation.
2) Is your kid studying K3 or K2?
If she's studying K2, I think repeating K2 is better than K3 because there will be lots of activities in K3 talking about Primary school adjustment. The kid might find it strange that she's staying in kindergarten next year.
3) You and your husband's attitude. Different parents have different attitudes. Talk with yourself and your husband to see what you're really feeling.
4) Your expectation for primary school.
If you would go for those private school and DSS, might be a bigger kid is more advantageous. Will perform better in the interview.

This is really a difficult question and only you know the answer base on your own situation. Cheers.

meimeilam

我個仔係11月出生, 當佢讀  K1 學期尾嘅時候, 佢老師同我講叫我個仔重讀 K1, 佢話唔係我個仔追唔上, 而係為左佢將來著想, 因為好嘅小學如果有得選擇, 都會首先選擇大仔或大女, 同埋如果同一班, 人地1月出生, 而你11月出生, 真係相差成年, 可能學習有 D 差距, (當然有 D 小朋友例外) 當時我都考慮左好耐, 應唔應該比佢重讀，但係結果我都比佢重讀 K1。而佢個老師話趁佢重唔係識得好多野嘅時候重讀, 費時等佢大  D 自專心受損。

重記得當年幫個仔搵幼稚園時, 有 D 學校都同我講 : 「太太, 如果可以的話, 最好唔好比佢咁早讀書, 因為實在太細個啦!」 有一間重好笑, 已經 Interview 好同埋連留位費都交埋, 點知佢地突然退翻 D 留位費比我, 理由係話我個仔都係太細個, 唔收佢。

而家我個仔就嚟升小四啦, 以我所知佢個 D 同學仔都有 10月, 11月同12月出生嘅。

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crunch

應該重讀會好D
12月尾真係好細
有機會 (但唔一定) 小一讀得辛苦
到時大人細路都唔開心
人生起碼重有10幾年書要讀
讀遲一年其實無咩所謂

mercury16

我個女11月出生,當年找幼稚園時有好學校收我先俾佢讀,果然真係入到,諗都唔諗即刻入讀,咁多人爭都收阿囡喎,如果有得再揀我都想阿囡遲一年讀,係佢果班居然有個足足大佢一歲嘅小朋友,咁自己個嗰會好"舌"底,但老師又覺得阿囡跟得到,我都問過班主任可唔可以重讀,佢話學校k3冇得重讀,我原因係覺升小學真你驚佢追唔上,亦因龍年效應 ,所以是諗重讀一年,應該對佢有莫大幫助.如果學校有得k3 repeat比我都會咁做,如到小學先repeat我覺得好傷佢自專心.

skyy1

收到小一的書本，課程同Ｋ３真有很大不同．
要有一定的心理準備．

琬琬

淋雨 寫道:
我有個朋友的囝囝現時是小一,他是12月出世,也是重讀k3,是老師建議的,他的老師覺得他的表現不是十分好,可能還未足6歲,若重讀多一年k3會對他的學習更有幫助,他的媽媽接受老師的建議,結果適應小一生活便好多了,而且成績不俗.他的媽媽說,如果當時免強升上小一,他的囝囝可能不及他人.

以上事例,你可作參考.

thanks for your  參考

琬琬

Dear cmama:
Thanks for your opions first.

1) Your kid's development
If she's slow and the teacher's comment's the same. Repeating K3 is a good chance for her to build up a better foundation.

the teacher's comment's :睇阿女現時情況,可以唔repeat.but 阿女是個d喜歡說話and 社交都ok,即表面睇佢無mud 大問題,但d數學思維就麻麻,如問佢前後數,即 38前面是什麼,佢就唔識.



2) Is your kid studying K3 or K2?
If she's studying K2, I think repeating K2 is better than K3 because there will be lots of activities in K3 talking about Primary school adjustment. The kid might find it strange that she's staying in kindergarten next year.

if repeat, i will choose K3.因她與現時的同學感情要好,如果要佢repeat k2,佢一定唔肯.




3) You and your husband's attitude. Different parents have different attitudes. Talk with yourself and your husband to see what you're really feeling.

i had talked to him already,at this monent ,we don't have any idea.



4) Your expectation for primary school.
If you would go for those private school and DSS, might be a bigger kid is more advantageous. Will perform better in the interview.

i just want to choose aided school and a happy school.

  

琬琬

meimeilam 寫道:

而家我個仔就嚟升小四啦, 以我所知佢個 D 同學仔都有 10月, 11月同12月出生嘅。

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我想問下10月, 11月同12月出生嘅小朋友與年頭嘅小朋友各方面有否差距

琬琬

Dear crunch and skyy1:
thanks for your opion   

琬琬

mercury16 寫道:
我個女11月出生,當年找幼稚園時有好學校收我先俾佢讀,果然真係入到,諗都唔諗即刻入讀,咁多人爭都收阿囡喎,如果有得再揀我都想阿囡遲一年讀,係佢果班居然有個足足大佢一歲嘅小朋友,咁自己個嗰會好"舌"底,但老師又覺得阿囡跟得到,我都問過班主任可唔可以重讀,佢話學校k3冇得重讀,我原因係覺升小學真你驚佢追唔上,亦因龍年效應 ,所以是諗重讀一年,應該對佢有莫大幫助.如果學校有得k3 repeat比我都會咁做,如到小學先repeat我覺得好傷佢自專心.

其實我個case同你一差不多:
1.如果有得再揀,我都想阿囡遲一年讀.
2.班中同樣有人1月出生,足足大一年,就算與年中出生比較,  她都會好"舌"底.

不過我唔明點解學校唔俾repeat 又或者你可以到另一學校repeat.

abmama

琬琬 寫道:
Dear cmama:
Thanks for your opions first.

1) Your kid's development
If she's slow and the teacher's comment's the same. Repeating K3 is a good chance for her to build up a better foundation.

the teacher's comment's :睇阿女現時情況,可以唔repeat.but 阿女是個d喜歡說話and 社交都ok,即表面睇佢無mud 大問題,但d數學思維就麻麻,如問佢前後數,即 38前面是什麼,佢就唔識.
>在小一的成積是很相近,因為只要一科(如數學)不好,平均分就會拉下,而很多學校都有排名次,好有可能將她的名次拉後十多二十名,這有可能都有可能影“向,”她的自信心,如果她是細女、就告訴她早左返學、要夠六歲才可以上小學,不要說什麼“repeat“,我有一個朋友找了一間好似小學那麼大的幼稚園,告訴她兒子這是小、一預備班。



2) Is your kid studying K3 or K2?
If she's studying K2, I think repeating K2 is better than K3 because there will be lots of activities in K3 talking about Primary school adjustment. The kid might find it strange that she's staying in kindergarten next year.

if repeat, i will choose K3.因她與現時的同學感情要好,如果要佢repeat k2,佢一定唔肯.
>在正常情況下、k2是好過k3。不過其實她們都是好細個,如果我們想想 自己k2/k3發生什麼事、相信印象不大。



3) You and your husband's attitude. Different parents have different attitudes. Talk with yourself and your husband to see what you're really feeling.

i had talked to him already,at this monent ,we don't have any idea.
>也要的好談談。


4) Your expectation for primary school.
If you would go for those private school and DSS, might be a bigger kid is more advantageous. Will perform better in the interview.

i just want to choose aided school and a happy school.
>其實大仔大女讀書真是 好D。
  

hhmami

Hi, 琬琬,

Just want to share my experience with you.  My son is studying in K3 & his birthday is on 8/31.  Although he is not a 細仔 & I still decided to let him repeat K3 & he will go to P.1 in Sept 2007.  He will be the eldest one in his class in future.

Since my son is a slow learner with weak attention, the teachers suggest us to let him repeat K3.  At the very beginning, I plan to let him study P.1 in this Sept & if his progression is not ok, then will let him repeat P.1 or P.2.  This is just my thought, but in fact, the primary schools do not allow our kids to repeat at our request due to the issue of resource.

If my son doesn't have the capability to be a P.1 student at this moment & I insist to force him to study P.1, I can image that we will face difficult & painful time in the coming days.  Therefore, after further consideration, I make up my mind to let him repeat K3.  

Isis_Iain

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琬琬﹕
     
         我個仔係10月到尾出世(本來預產期係11月到尾)，佢和另外兩個細佢兩個多月的小朋友都屬於班中細仔細女。
而班中有好幾個都好高大，有些在年齡上仲大佢超過一年。

如果仲遇上一些早發育(我指六七歲第一輪的發育，如突然增高、出牙等)的大b，他們在說話等各方面都比較成熟，好明顯開始脫離學前兒童的感覺。(尤其是k3的小朋友更明顯，k1k2時差別無咁明顯，不過都係b 左d)

那麼在感覺上，真係差好遠(我唔係指學術上方面)。我阿仔同另外兩個細b囡，相較一些小朋友，好明顯就係bb仔咁。在某一些活動上係有點點輸蝕。

但如果你的小朋友在身心發展上都很早熟，咁又唔同ge..
又或等到自己果個都"發育"埋。

不過好處係，佢地都當左我阿仔係bb仔咁，好想逗逗和錫錫佢.. ，咁，唔好處係被寵慣，阿仔可能會變得無咁獨立瓜，不過還未上小學，唔肯定。

不過，我都係會俾佢照升可也。 但每個小朋友的情況真的好唔同。但如果真係要repeat，我想細個一點會比較好些，不要到小學時才repeat...比較好。   

琬琬 寫道:
[quote]
meimeilam 寫道:

而家我個仔就嚟升小四啦, 以我所知佢個 D 同學仔都有 10月, 11月同12月出生嘅。

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我想問下10月, 11月同12月出生嘅小朋友與年頭嘅小朋友各方面有否差距 [/quote]

Sindy

咁早一年讀咪仲死??(功課上)

Isis_Iain 寫道:
到佢讀小學或中學時，真係追唔上要 repeat 時，就會大同學仔好多，心理壓力仲大呀！！！

桁媽媽

我仔仔係2000年11 月, 我同佢repeat o左一年k2, 而家佢進度好好.

我覺得除o左老師/老公意見外, 最重要係小朋友o既意願, 我上年都係遊說o左阿仔, 令佢明白點解要重讀, 亦叫佢老師向全班同學仔解釋點解下年阿仔會唔同佢o地一齊升上k3, 各方面都配合好, 同時亦有同仔仔講有機會有o的壞孩子笑佢, 教佢點處理等等, 阿仔重讀時都過度得好好, 而家自信心都好o左. :wink:

重讀要早o的決定和預備, 等小朋友有好的心理準備.

vanessamom

我囡囡都係2000年11月,我俾佢係另一間學校repeat K2,覺得她今年各方面都明顯比做細女好(雖然佢係舊校既老師話我囡唔需要重讀一年,但我想佢小學時無咁辛苦)！