細仔，決定repeat, 但repeat K3 還是 P1 好呢？

cyukp

如題。其實學術上完全沒有問題，所以不想repeat K1或K2。不過由於是超細仔，語言表達能力不佳，另外性格害羞慢熱，自理能力差，所以遲一年interview應較好。其實最好希望repeat P1, 可多一年適應，另外小學可能想收正在讀P1多過正在讀K3。但最近有朋友說自己也試過讀緊P1去in 其他小學P1但不收，感覺上和讀緊幼稚園的人不同queue. 請問大家有無經驗可分享呢？謝謝

小曳人

小一先啦
據說co-ed 同 DB都鍾意收小一重讀生

Jessica_chung

但大抽獎只可一次, 三思

MrBeast

Lei 個問題可以在middle of k3決定，若有decemt offer, 想博高一綫，p1, otherwise k3

cyukp

現打算如repeat k3, 就第二年先大抽獎，如repeat p1, 就第一年抽。

ozoz

原帖由 fujitasze 於 14-03-24 發表
本帖最後由 fujitasze 於 14-3-24 20:43 編輯

我個細女dec女，佢只係普通小時候，並非超班。現在已經插班超細b讀pn,我打算pn 轉心儀學校再讀，如果心儀pn唔收，原校k1 repeat。唔想佢k3畢業又去畢業，k3大個已經知乜事，好傷佢心。

atirw

原帖由 fujitasze 於 14-03-24 發表
本帖最後由 fujitasze 於 14-3-24 20:43 編輯

Cannot agree more.

HappiMom

原帖由 fujitasze 於 14-03-24 發表
本帖最後由 fujitasze 於 14-3-24 20:43 編輯

Can't agree more

ericby

好多yw係repeat k3

ajfamily

因為YW講明唔收正讀小一的申請，其他私/直冇這規定。

runme

if the kid has no problem in learning (學術上完全沒有問題), why so cruel to repeat K3 or P1 for him.  

To repeat K3, don't you think the kid would feel odd to have graduation ceremony and then study K3 again ???

To repeat P1, don't you think the kid would be happy if he has made friends with classmate but watching them all go to P2 but you need him to repeat P1 for unsound reason ???

If the kid needs to repeat, just believe the school .... the school would ask him to repeat ....

If it is just the parent hope that the kid can have better performance, please forgive me to say that the parent is very self-fish ....

Don't give undue pressure on kid, just let him grow up in a happy and confortable way, .... always think from his side, not from parents' side ....

MrBeast

Why does it have to be a 'cruel' thing for a kid to repeat?  If a kd was able to get a seat in an elite school and within the appropriate age range, its not hard to explain the rationals to get their buy in, is it?

cyukp

其實repeat並不是想入神校，我寧願小兒在二線學校考得名次高一點而多些自信。只是我認識很多朋友都後悔沒有讓細仔細女repeat而不停在追學業而忽略其他興趣或發展。另外小兒個子細小而不時受到欺負。亦有同學有時笑他是BB. 我也有想過p1才repeat的心理問題，只是世事無完美，只能比較好處多還是壞處多。現在我已有足夠的資料作決定。多謝各位的意見。

MrBeast

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咁你公子現時幾大？

tantanmama

cyukp 發表於 14-3-25 12:15
其實repeat並不是想入神校，我寧願小兒在二線學校考得名次高一點而多些自信。只是我認識很多朋友都後悔沒有 ...

我個女係12月B, 做了一年超細女讀K1, 後來我覺得佢適合做大B, 所以決定幫佢轉校repeat K1. 臨學期尾時, 我才發現原來我女因為係全班最細粒, 所以一直被同班兩個身型高大的女同學蝦. 雖然唔係打佢令佢受傷果D, 但好明顯係欺凌行為. 我女唔開心但唔識話我知, 我知道後很心痛, 亦很慶幸我已安排了轉校. 在新校, 女兒變了全班最高大, 完全冇人蝦佢之餘, 佢仲可以幫老師照顧那些細B, 佢自信心多咗, 返學亦開心咗. 當然, 我個女係個別事件, 唔係一定要做大B先好, 但若家長覺得小朋友適合做大B, repeat一年係值得的.

karen55407

要重讀最好是K2或之前，K3不好了！我會照升小一

瑩瑩老豆

cyukp 發表於 14-3-24 12:21
如題。其實學術上完全沒有問題，所以不想repeat K1或K2。不過由於是超細仔，語言表達能力不佳，另外性格害 ...

小朋友發展可以好快, K3"語言表達能力不佳，另外性格害羞慢熱，自理能力差", 不代表P1也是, 何況你說"學術上完全沒有問題", 我覺得先上P1 才作考慮, 也不用今天就"決定repeat"