蒙特梭利外傭班

ah-ta

有無媽咪想幫自己的bunbun報呢?

因為我問過要有20個先會開班, 而家他地都未知幾時開, 如果有媽咪都想, 不如一齊報, 咁咪可以快d有班law>>>>

tanner

原文章由 ah-ta 於 07-9-17 16:09 硐表
有無媽咪想幫自己的bunbun報呢?

因為我問過要有20個先會開班, 而家他地都未知幾時開, 如果有媽咪都想, 不如一齊報, 咁咪可以快d有班law>>>>

幫bunbun 報, 係唔係有問題架?

都唔知個家長點諗, 自己唔教小朋友, 連玩蒙特梭利都比外傭教...唔湯唔水...

ah-ta,
教育係家長既責任

ah-ta

tanner,

看左你的reply真係嚇一跳, 我唔係一個全職mama, 所以bunbun在我要返工的時候係由bunbun照顧, 我想bunbun都去上, 係想他都配合到我, 好似我想俾bb咩都摸, 俾d自由他, 但bunbun唔明(係同他講完都係咁), 他一樣好多野都唔俾b摸,怕他整親, 所以我想俾他知道我想他明白我想點教bb, 去配合我....因為我唔想我湊bb時用一套, 但工人又用另一套....我當然知教bb係我的責任la....希望你明白...同埋其實你係唔係可以問下先去嘈人呢?

原文章由 tanner 於 07-9-18 15:58 硐表



幫bunbun 報, 係唔係有問題架?

都唔知個家長點諗, 自己唔教小朋友, 連玩蒙特梭利都比外傭教...唔湯唔水...

ah-ta,
教育係家長既責任

...

Babyeddie

any information abt the course to share
thanks

原文章由 ah-ta 於 07-9-18 16:05 硐表
tanner,

看左你的reply真係嚇一跳, 我唔係一個全職mama, 所以bunbun在我要返工的時候係由bunbun照顧, 我想bunbun都去上, 係想他都配合到我, 好似我想俾bb咩都摸, 俾d自由他, 但bunbun唔明(係同他講完都係咁), 他一 ...

ah-ta

我在兒童x限上完家長班, 他地話有埋外傭班又係講解蒙的理念.... 如果你想知詳情不如call他地問下....

原文章由 Babyeddie 於 07-9-18 17:02 硐表
any information abt the course to share
thanks

tanner

原文章由 ah-ta 於 07-9-18 16:05 硐表
tanner,

看左你的reply真係嚇一跳, 我唔係一個全職mama, 所以bunbun在我要返工的時候係由bunbun照顧, 我想bunbun都去上, 係想他都配合到我, 好似我想俾bb咩都摸, 俾d自由他, 但bunbun唔明(係同他講完都係咁), 他一 ...

ah-ta,
真奇怪..我無諗過同你嘈, 只係remind 你你自己唔抽多時間阿bb, 唔好一味rely on 個工人...如果你叫BUNBUN 咁做佢都唔聽, 上完
蒙特梭利外傭班咪一様唔聽...

呢度有好多mami 都唔係全職mama, 好多人都係自己抽時間陪BB玩蒙特梭利

咁我又真好好奇想知你自己有無先上蒙特梭利班?

ah-ta

tanner,

不過一看你的post, 我就覺得你的語氣唔係咁好law....因為你一看topic就覺得我係個d依賴工人去看bb or 教bb的人...可能你對lee d人好反感, 所以我咁問就觸碰到你的神經...

我已經上左個course, 所以我知有個外傭班.  不過我再想講多次, 我想工人上係想他明白, 因為始終教course的人會講得比較全面.

另外, 多謝你的提醒要我抽多d時間去看bb, 不過你放心, 在你remind我之前, 我一直都係一返到屋企就全部時間俾晒bb, 照顧他同教他的人.

我咁解釋係因為我真係唔鍾意人地誤解我, 覺得我係唔理bb的媽咪.... 如果你仲係唔明, 我都唔想多講.....

不過你都可能覺得我誤解你的語氣既.

原文章由 tanner 於 07-9-18 17:19 硐表


ah-ta,
真奇怪..我無諗過同你嘈, 只係remind 你你自己唔抽多時間阿bb, 唔好一味rely on 個工人...如果你叫BUNBUN 咁做佢都唔聽, 上完
蒙特梭利外傭班咪一様唔聽...

呢度有好多mami 都唔係全職mama, 好多人都係自 ...

w_y

tanner
蒙特梭利的理念
唔係單單叫你陪小朋友用教材, 佢唔係迪士尼.
而係日常生活中都要照顧者配合, 包括自理能力培養, 處理佢情緒, 對答用語都要顧及. 俾一個合適環境 (包括人) 係好重要. 有呢個外傭班真係幾好.

我反而相當欣賞呢個媽咪咁細緻, 連呢點都考慮埋...而且唔係人人有條件唔返工.

另外蒙氏教育亦主要希望培養小朋友成為性格高尚的人...呢點, 真係好多大人都做唔到, 就係因為幼年時的環境囉.

ah-tah
遲下再請教你關於呢個班的問題, 如果價錢唔貴, 起碼唔使我自己同佢 brief, 仲要有專人指導添.

[ 本文章最後由 w_y 於 07-9-18 18:47 編輯 ]

bakusensei

原文章由 ah-ta 於 07-9-17 16:09 硐表
有無媽咪想幫自己的bunbun報呢?

因為我問過要有20個先會開班, 而家他地都未知幾時開, 如果有媽咪都想, 不如一齊報, 咁咪可以快d有班law>>>>

ah ta,

thanks for your sharing. :)

if possible, i would also like to let my mum (i.e. grandma) and also the maid to learn more about this theory. at least they won't keep contradicting what we r doing at home. sometimes, i found baby getting confused becoz different ppl has different method teaching him and gave him different standard.

when my husband took the class in august, i note that a grandma came and joined the class. she is really gd n willing to learn what her son/daughter is applying to her grandchild.

it's rather difficult to let them understand the theory from me/my husband. sometimes, i found the problem is they can only remember the specific instruction, but not really understand the principle behind, thus, creates much confusion.

please count me in if it's possible to organize a class. i shall try my best to ask my maid to join.

i m still thinking of how to ask my mum to join the parent class. i guess it's even a harder job!

:)

Happy小米

ah ta,

我由全職媽咪變返做在職ma, 將會請工人揍b, 亦希望有helper既course可畀佢上.

希望可arrange倒畀佢上啦.

我看完你既post都冇誤解你ga.

HimDaddy

我支持tanner

1. 連玩蒙特梭利都比外傭教, 不如做pilot嘅, 叫外傭上飛行員course, 做accountant, 叫外傭上會計course, 等佢地可以做埋你份工啦!

2. 既然你比得起錢叫外傭上蒙特梭利班, 又咁關心小朋友嘅教育,不如加多少少錢送個小朋友上蒙特梭利班仲o錫佢啦!

最後, 恭喜你有個咁醒目嘅外傭, 唔係個個人可以上完個course可以做private tutor, 下次可以叫個外傭學醫, 幫你節省唔少睇醫生嘅錢。

原文章由 tanner 於 07-9-18 15:58 硐表



幫bunbun 報, 係唔係有問題架?

都唔知個家長點諗, 自己唔教小朋友, 連玩蒙特梭利都比外傭教...唔湯唔水...

ah-ta,
教育係家長既責任

...

ah-ta

sorry, 我出lee個post令到人覺得好似玩罵戰咁....  多謝個d明白我的媽咪, 坦白講tanner的回應初時看到都唔開心...不過諗深一層他都係錫小朋友, 所以以為我連教育都俾bunbun做的時候會咁reply我.....

蒙的理念可以話好簡單又可以話好難, 易的就係日常生活已經可以俾到bb好多啟法, 但難的就係開頭起步...好似要考慮點set好個環境la>>>.

himdaddy,
我知你都係一個錫小朋友的人, 我唔係要你支持, 我唔知你對蒙的理解有幾多.......因為我自己就覺得蒙唔同教英文, 唔同玩flash card...係關於生活...如果我返到屋企就用蒙個套, 尊重bb, 完全俾bb自由, 去enjoy... 但到我唔在屋企, 工人就lee樣唔俾, 個樣唔俾, 你估bb會點... 我有咁的concern係因為我聽daisy講有個bb日頭就由麻麻湊, 夜晚就由父母湊, 父母行蒙個套, 但老人家就用他地自己個套, 整到個bb情緒好差, 之後唯有改變麻麻屋企的setting, 俾bb多d自由先好d...我諗就係因為咁, 先會有埋蒙的老人班同外傭班....因為daisy明白唔係個個小朋友都咁幸福可以由mama全職湊....

同埋你覺得俾bb生活在一個用蒙的理念做出來的環境好? 定係送他去上1, 2個鐘的蒙班好呢?  邊樣會對他有利d呢?

Happy小米, bakusensei,
我再看下仲有無其他人, 同埋問多d咩情, e.g. 價錢 話俾你地知...

keep in touch.

Bakusensei,

你講得好啱, 我就係唔想我講一樣, 他地做一樣...我都想99上, 因為他都成日接觸bb, 不過又係唔知點講...因為他會覺得我多事...同埋又要上8個鐘....

w_y

我係全職媽咪, 日日帶 bb 落會所同其他小朋友玩.
成個場得我一個係媽咪自己帶, 其他都係工人姐姐, 媽咪返左工.

你會見到...痛罵/打手等對小朋友粗暴的行為...我知佢地好多唔係話要虐待少主, 只係唔知點去處理, 因為小朋友有時 d 行為真係好令人頭痛. 有 d 工人好有心, 會教小朋友認字等, 但方法未必合乎蒙氏原則.

當然, 唔一定話外傭上完一定會照足跟住做, 但起碼都有個指引先.
我唔知呢個班內容係包括咩, 不過我肯定絶對唔係要將個責任推俾工人就算. 既然日間係工人照顧, 就唔止整餐飯佢食咁簡單. 我搵工人時, 技能度仲有一欄係 "tutoring children". 工人湊 bb ...唔 expect 佢係讀醫, 但都要 train 佢基本醫護常識啦. 佢 cooking 唔好, 都會教下佢或者買本食譜叫佢學下啦. 如果你唔係睇實個工人, 咁唔通日間 bb 只係食飯就唔使接受生活教育咩? 既然係咁, 外傭學下基礎蒙氏又何妨?

上一兩小時蒙班, 我只覺呢種係聊勝於無, 遠比不起在家中長時間的環境培育. 蒙氏理念唔係叫導師教學生, 而係在於俾個合適環境小朋友去摸索.

[ 本文章最後由 w_y 於 07-9-19 11:07 編輯 ]

swongsk

原文章由 ah-ta 於 07-9-19 10:09 硐表
sorry, 我出lee個post令到人覺得好似玩罵戰咁....  多謝個d明白我的媽咪, 坦白講tanner的回應初時看到都唔開心...不過諗深一層他都係錫小朋友, 所以以為我連教育都俾bunbun做的時候會咁reply我.....

蒙的理念可以話 ...

ah ta -  i'm a working mom myself. i totally agree with you. in my case i go to all the playgroups with my bb & i take my bun bun with me. i will be the one playing with the bb, but she will have to sit aside & observe. cos i want her to do the same to my bb when i'm at work.

it really works for me. cos she's now doing kindermusik songs & my gym exercise with my bb everyday. ( i checked on my webcam)

i'm still a total beginner on mont & will be taking the parent course in oct. since my bun bun plays a v important role in my bb's development, i wouln't mind her attending the course if it's not too expensive & time allows.

ah-ta

happy 小米,bakusensei, swongsk,

個course都係980, 係呢, 你地知唔知仲有無其他蒙媽想幫工人apply, 如果係可以group埋一齊....因為他地話而家都係得幾個jar, 我諗我地自己夠人可以快過等他地...

swongsk

原文章由 ah-ta 於 07-9-19 12:00 硐表
happy 小米,bakusensei, swongsk,

個course都係980, 係呢, 你地知唔知仲有無其他蒙媽想幫工人apply, 如果係可以group埋一齊....因為他地話而家都係得幾個jar, 我諗我地自己夠人可以快過等他地... ...

ah ta - can you give me more details, so that i can ask my friends eg
- price ($980 right?)
- no. of classes/frequency
- location

thx a lot! :)

bb@wonderland

Hi ah-ta,

Totally Agree with you.

If one understand Mont theory, he or she will understand "home environment" is the most important one. It is not possible to carry out Mont theory by Dad and Mum but another way by maid or grandma.

Just like Mont theory - let children learn and do by themselve, but maid and grandma always like to do for them (e.g. feeding)  It is difficult to explain to them.

I also want my maid to attend the course (Daisy also told us this course during the parent class last time).

Please let me know if you have grouped enough people.

原文章由 ah-ta 於 07-9-19 10:09 硐表
sorry, 我出lee個post令到人覺得好似玩罵戰咁....  多謝個d明白我的媽咪, 坦白講tanner的回應初時看到都唔開心...不過諗深一層他都係錫小朋友, 所以以為我連教育都俾bunbun做的時候會咁reply我.....

蒙的理念可以話 ...

ah-ta

swongsk,

其實我聽兒童x限個邊的語氣似係好多野都未知, 他地只係話有20人就會開班, 所以我先上來開post, 諗住湊夠人law....

不過我都會再打去問下如果真係夠人, 幾時上堂同埋在邊度上...


[email=bb@wonderland]bb@wonderland[/email],

唉, 我個工人同99咪又係, 好似bb識hold奶樽, 他都要幫他拎...我同工人講完又係唔記得....同埋好似講極都唔明我想點...

而家我知兒童x限5個都未有..另加以下:

1. ah ta
2. Happy 小米
3. bakusensei
4. swongsk
5. 你 ([email=bb@wonderland]bb@wonderland[/email])

我真係想找夠數就叫他開班呀.....

原文章由 bb@wonderland 於 07-9-19 12:22 表
Hi ah-ta,

Totally Agree with you.

If one understand Mont theory, he or she will understand "home environment" is the most important one. It is not possible to carry out Mont theory by Dad and Mum b ...

iceymama

我都有興趣, 不過想問如果有20人, 會有discount ma ? :loveliness:
如果有, 我想會多D人報名.

[ 本文章最後由 iceymama 於 07-9-19 13:50 編輯 ]