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Concerning performing art, that doesn't have to be 'music' 'music' 'music'. Dance and musical always carry an element of music and movement; drama often brings out tempo, intonation and rhythm.
Out there in town must be something he'll enjoy and get inspired. Expose him to a great variety of arts and different cultures (hasn't to be just Western or particularly related to the instruments he's learning - don't impose our preference on our children) and think of it as a change to the lifestyle of the whole family rather than another way to make him play his instruments better! Would be best received in this approach. The life of the child and the whole family will be enriched. Pray for him and pray for yourselves (parents) too.
Guide him to appreciate the hard work and discipline of other performers and strengthen his sense of responsibility in order to improve his learning attitude which would be most important as a student. Let him know that mommy and daddy value all those above exam results or anything else (and of course, that should be from the bottom of your heart! Pray for yourself if you are not ready for that).
You might be a little worried that 兒子比較坐唔定, children's musical/drama such as 怪獸之夜兒童英語音樂劇,明日藝術教育機構執頭偶兒童劇《小魔怪黐笠笠》could make a good start (I think). Hong Kong Youth Music Camp (Day Camp) will be held in July and August - can be a good choice, too!
Make a plan of going to a kind of performance every other week / every month. Happily announce it as a change to the lifestyle of the whole family and describe it positively as a very special time for the family. Present in the family a selection of concerts/shows suitable for him (as a start, only those which admit children as young as 3 years) and let him have a say in which show/event to attend and the schedule of that particular day.
Together you and your child go buy tickets, discuss the price or seat or venue or anything, decide which transport to take, what to wear, what time to get there, where to dine before/after the show. Aim for a happy afternoon/evening spending together as a family. Nothing is more important than this. Have a strong belief in that. Open yourself to get attracted to and become excited about those performances, too. Our children are learning from us. If we appreciate and respect the performers, they'll grow up doing the same. Don't be put off even if he asks to leave in the middle of the show as the first few times. It's ok. Just let him know you love him, and how long and how much you've enjoyed being with him at the show.
原帖由 rookiemom 於 10-4-30 07:32 發表
聽完你這番說話,我真的要檢討一下,可能我自己唔識音樂,所以唔識哉陪兒子,兒子比較坐唔定,可否建議有甚麼適合的musical shows呢?他學緊violin 同 Piano, 謝謝!
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