面試有感

babycatrina

琴日in 坑真，驚交通問題，我地太早去到，阿女好開心可以玩，但因為落過雨，設施仍濕，又當風，所以玩得就住就住，阿女唔小心跣腳，條褲濕左，佢無咩野，做阿媽心裡難受，因為佢病緊未好番晒

等太耐，阿女又想去操場玩。但已夠鐘，又驚佢再凍病，安撫佢唔俾去，但阿女心情已唔好。

面試老師好好人，阿女唔肯答或做錯指令都好有耐性等待同教導，可惜阿女心情唔好，一係唔答一係答錯，奈何嘆句無緣。

講咁多，一來係感嘆家長同小朋友為爭取好學校既付出，二來係見左咁多間，發現最難唔係要小孩做指令，係點樣保持小孩愉快既心情-唔可以病，唔好太high, 唔可以無mood. 咁之後先有機會deliver平時既小朋友水平。

小朋友面試前曳話唔話？教唔教？教的話，小孩就心情唔好，面試死梗。唔教，又覺得唔應該咁功利，為左面試就當睇唔到曳行為。難、難、難！

依家最欣賞小朋友自己入課室面試既安排，唔駛見到阿女唔perform就暗自唔開心。始終都唔夠三歲，要小孩每次面試都叻叻係好難，但做阿媽總想小孩可以有「好」學校收，將來條路潤啲，點樣面對面試帶來既壓力係呢個月最大既挑戰。

好彩已近尾聲，各位家長同小朋友都加油！

babycatrina

siuwing2 發表於 16-11-30 10:45
所以家長心態好重要，一定要自己去做research and choose the suitable courses or schools for our kids, ...

同意，我還在摸索邊類型學校適合小女。

都驚揀錯會害左佢

xiaoxiaoau

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thanks!

siuwing2

babycatrina 發表於 16-11-29 20:10
競爭太激烈了

我唔想三歲開始就要小孩投入競爭

所以家長心態好重要，一定要自己去做research and choose the suitable courses or schools for our kids, 唔去人做我做
努力，我都好努力學習緊！

babycatrina

busydaddy 發表於 16-11-29 19:38
SC KV 學生，一樣可以 apply 20 reject 18 waiting list 2,無錯，係直接reject,沒有waiting 是常態
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競爭太激烈了

我唔想三歲開始就要小孩投入競爭

babycatrina

siuwing2 發表於 16-11-29 19:39
好難比specific example 但小一又要報名又要因應唔同學校整portfolio 每間都2-4round interviews , then c ...

驚驚

siuwing2

xiaoxiaoau 發表於 16-11-29 19:17
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考小一仲顛>>> any example, thank you

好難比specific example 但小一又要報名又要因應唔同學校整portfolio 每間都2-4round interviews , then compare to kindergarten, is it more crazy ?

busydaddy

xiaoxiaoau 發表於 16-11-29 19:17
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考小一仲顛>>> any example, thank you

SC KV 學生，一樣可以 apply 20 reject 18 waiting list 2,無錯，係直接reject,沒有waiting 是常態

xiaoxiaoau

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考小一仲顛>>> any example, thank you

siuwing2

Ctswa 發表於 16-11-29 17:02
都明白小朋友已經好叻，可以面對陌生環境。不過學校開始出result, 而收到waiting時，不其然開始擔心。



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當然明白，even唔係最心儀那間也會在臨近的日子開始不安同心急，所以當知道結果後要識調整自己心態，向前望，如果唔係，考小一仲顛

siuwing2

千語mami 發表於 16-11-29 15:46
Well said,  絕對認同係有得揀的 人生漫漫長路，咁細個識得interview 答問題已經好叻，大家一齊為我 ...

Agree..... even we go for the job interview, we might be so scare and donno what to do/say.....

so we have to praise our kids.... haha

dreamdream081

千語mami 發表於 16-11-29 15:46
Well said,  絕對認同係有得揀的 人生漫漫長路，咁細個識得interview 答問題已經好叻，大家一齊為我 ...

Totally agree

dreamdream081

siuwing2 發表於 16-11-29 15:35
My gal also a big b..... i am scare that i have no offer too...... (the worst case is to stay at the ...

千語mami

原帖由 keith_ccc 於 16-11-29 發表
有一d學校著重英語有一d好似蘇浙咁著重國語！學校考你既情度係廢事小孩入讀後唔識連老師說話也不明失去學 ...

Well said,  絕對認同係有得揀的 人生漫漫長路，咁細個識得interview 答問題已經好叻，大家一齊為我地嘅小朋友加油 :)

siuwing2

My gal also a big b..... i am scare that i have no offer too...... (the worst case is to stay at the current school which we are fine with that as she is very happy studying there), but i have to remind myself..... if there is no offer this year, not because she is not good enough, it is because this is a "yuen fun" game only......

siuwing2

kenysmile 發表於 16-11-29 11:28
有間好學校未必 = 以後絛路會順D對我而言, 幼稚園只係比小朋友接觸社會第一步
日後家長都要放好多心機去教 ...

Agree.... i think what's the parents like, then u will know how's the kids will be like...... as we are their life time teachers (and first teachers), so we have to act as a role model at the first beginning...

I think one of the key things is .... their first teacher is good..... as this will affect their learning attitude....

Wish all the best for our kids.....

siuwing2

chuichuiyuiyui 發表於 16-11-29 15:01
大家加油!
最近睇到大家留言,令我諗起我女舊年考K1...
我女10月細女B, 個樣醒目, 學嘢快,說話能力OK, 我覺 ...

Thanks for being so cheerful....... and i am sure "like parents like kids".....  

chuichuiyuiyui

大家加油!
最近睇到大家留言,令我諗起我女舊年考K1...
我女10月細B, 個樣醒目, 學嘢快,說話能力OK, 我覺得不比大B弱...
舊年IN 10 間,  連續收9間waiting or reject, 包括IN得好0既學校都冇OFFER, 反而朋友0既小朋友(大B)IN得唔好但都有Offer, 連其他細B同學/朋友都有一兩個Offer 0係手..... 個心真係灰到爆! 不禁諗自己好似高估咗自己個女, 懷疑自己小朋友能力.最壞打算係升讀番原本間學校K1, 下一年再報做大大B...
9個失望之後, 第10間都打定輸數...但竟然出現奇蹟, 最喜歡0個間竟然收咗我女...
我女依家讀得好開心, 老師話我女都跟得上; 同埋我留意到呢間學校0既學生(+家長)都係差不多類型...
有經驗0既學校同老師自有佢一套揀學生0既方法同原則, 揀0岩佢0地學校0既小朋友...
所以就算冇offer, 並唔係小朋友唔叻, 只係唔合適(或者家長唔合適)而已...
祝大家小朋友都去到一間0岩0既學校

dreamdream081

ilmummy 發表於 16-11-29 12:46
我個系大B ，只有一個offer ,雖然仲有未有信的，不過已打定輸數，就讀呢間吧，一般的邨校。我之前的post 都 ...

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