大家認為係咪一定要有興趣班?

S-Kwok

依家呢個年代，差唔多個個都會有課外班要上。不談學術性，大家係咪覺得一定要有興趣班?  

以我仔為例，幼稚園時有上科學班、數學班（非坐定定上，以體驗、實驗方式上堂），及cambridge課程（屋村仔center, 鬼佬教，遊戲方式上堂，上咗2、3年）直至小學入學前。

小學開始（今年升小三），試過足球班（已完，學咗半年）、圍棋（已完，學咗年幾），畫班（仍然學緊，已上半年）。這些課外活動，全係佢自願想玩，但全部都係學咗一陣就無興趣，又話浪費時間，想喺屋企睇書。

最近，仔話唔想再上畫班，原因係想多啲時間睇書。
回顧過去，只有科學數學班佢有興趣，上咗幾年，從無話唔想上。我知佢會鍾意科學類嘅班，但問題係我應該要佢堅持多一陣，繼續畫班，還是比佢上科學班呢？  如果係科學班，大家可以推介吓嗎？我試過上網揾，但揾唔到。（可能我唔識揾）

adriantai

一兩樣自己喜歡的少不了

lui

原帖由 little_yolky 於 16-07-09 發表
你細個時無壓力嗎? 我壓力好大, 所以知道小朋友有壓力。我係生完BB之後個人先識放鬆。 ...

我好似冇乜

little_yolky

lui 發表於 16-7-9 15:36
唔好以為小朋友冇壓力（以前我以為），運動可以減壓。又有安多芬。人都開心d



  ...

你細個時無壓力嗎? 我壓力好大, 所以知道小朋友有壓力。我係生完BB之後個人先識放鬆。

lui

原帖由 little_yolky 於 16-07-09 發表
其實除咗運動仲有好多其他學習都可以培養到成敗心理學習、群體合作及意志鍛練, 不過, 運動仲可以外加強身健 ...

唔好以為小朋友冇壓力（以前我以為），運動可以減壓。又有安多芬。人都開心d

little_yolky

lui 發表於 16-7-9 10:08
Team work and toughness are precious. I can see my girl running after all the teenagers when they do ...

其實除咗運動仲有好多其他學習都可以培養到成敗心理學習、群體合作及意志鍛練, 不過, 運動仲可以外加強身健體同減壓呢樣就真係無得輸。

lui

原帖由 lambeanmama 於 16-07-09 發表
I completely agree with you. For me, there are three reasons for doing at least one sport for my kid ...

Team work and toughness are precious. I can see my girl running after all the teenagers when they do warm up ( while my girl actually have nothing to do as tshe stays behind for her teenagers sister). She is actually 10 years younger but the atmosphere made her do it.

lambeanmama

原帖由 lui 於 16-07-09 發表
Sports is very important. Everyone know it is good to health. My friend who is an Korean American ,P ...

I completely agree with you. For me, there are three reasons for doing at least one sport for my kid: 1. Toughness, there are ups and downs during sport training, one must learn how to face the down time; 2. Persistence, it is not difficult to learn the basic skills of one sport, however, if one want to excel from the basic, he or she must persistently do it. 3. Teamwork, particularly for those one child family, a team sport would be good for social skills, learn the importance of collective success, and less self centred. Just my mere thoughts to share.

ericby

唔要有興趣班

S-Kwok

原帖由 Lindytiger 於 16-07-09 發表
係咪本身怕水？有冇試過單對單學？

佢唔怕水，但佢無運動細胞，又唔聽話
今年已報咗一對一

S-Kwok

原帖由 lui 於 16-07-09 發表
Sports is very important. Everyone know it is good to health. My friend who is an Korean American ,P ...

我明白㗎，運動對健康、心靈、頭腦…都有很好嘅影響，只係我仔底子太弱。我唔係錫住佢唔帶佢出去玩嗰啲媽媽，佢細嗰時我會帶佢去波波池、坐地下、坐草地、去公園…，但佢確實易病，我都唔想。

lui

原帖由 S-Kwok 於 16-07-09 發表
係吖，4、5年前已經比阿仔學，學唔識都無辦法

Sports is very important. Everyone know it is good to health. My friend who is an Korean American ,Ph.D. From Harvard. We always talk about child education ( though he yet to get married but he is the godfather of my two girls) One thing he points out which is quite impressed me is the importance of sports. Through sports u learn the success and failure. Your emotion might change and you will try to adapt it. He said many Asian parents do not focus on sports. He can see the difference of kid's academic performance during high schools and university for they have sports or not. Luckily before he told me I actually engaged my girl in 3 kinds of sports.

Lindytiger

原帖由 S-Kwok 於 16-07-09 發表
係吖，4、5年前已經比阿仔學，學唔識都無辦法

係咪本身怕水？有冇試過單對單學？

Lindytiger

原帖由 little_yolky 於 16-07-09 發表
應該好多學校都有吧。

我咁啱遇到幾個小朋友都冇暑假功課啊！

S-Kwok

原帖由 小曳人 於 16-07-09 發表
咁更應早D學！當初大仔被醫生話氣管敏感/輕微哮喘，我地好快報咗游泳班，冬天無咳就照去，升小學前已學識三 ...

係吖，4、5年前已經比阿仔學，學唔識都無辦法

小曳人

原帖由 S-Kwok 於 16-07-07 發表
未學識游水。
阿仔容易病、哮喘，所以報咗1:1，減少等候時間，希望可以減低冷親嘅機會。



  ...

咁更應早D學！當初大仔被醫生話氣管敏感/輕微哮喘，我地好快報咗游泳班，冬天無咳就照去，升小學前已學識三式，哮喘發作亦少咗，現時亦只係暑期去上幾堂。。。keep 住叫識游水，唔駛食西藥，咳時頂多ventalin 旁身

scyauchris

回覆 Lindytiger 的帖子

我估無乜!  除左今年我囡學校, 不用做中數, 反而有英文。

scyauchris

回覆 IloveJJ 的帖子

我寫得不太清楚啦！  我囡現在唔會肯學, 她怕跌。不過識多樣野, 大左多樣野同朋友玩。

little_yolky

原帖由 Lindytiger 於 16-07-09 發表
題外話，係咪好多學校都冇暑期作業要做架？

應該好多學校都有吧。