父母們，愛我們的孩子請不要這樣！

five555

考小一，大人小朋友也有壓力，但你對只有5歲的小朋友又打又駡，跟本就對事情無幫助。
你每次問完個小朋友剛才考了什麼，點解會唔識，點解咁蠢，點解。。。。。。得個惡字，你有無想個小朋友會從此怕了面試，怕了跟你分享面試內容。

假如你發覺身邊有家長越來越緊張，越來越惡，請告訴他／她考小一只是一個很小的試煉，不要動不動便發火。大人找工作面試都不是次次成功，更何況是個很小很小的小朋友呢。

希望你看完會明白，不要握殺了小朋友對你的愛，不要再嚇怕小朋友了，好嗎？

tws2010

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To a certain extent, I agreed with you.  

For my kid, he's quite blessed, For the past 5 years, I don't feel he feels the pressure studying at subsidy school (so far, he's a happy boy),  His school is quite a famous one in this district, but unlike those other schools, that school does not really give a lot of pressure to students and parents for the TSA.  He's busy just because he enrolled a lot of activities at his own wish.  I asked him can he manage, he replied yes.  And it's the time, he can play with his friends at school.  All activities he enrolled, he enjoys so much.

This year, I feel a bit pressure coz it's time for him to choose secondary school and this year, he has to take PRE-S1 exam, so I noticed that school started to be a bit serious.  In fact, if my kid has not enrolled in so many activities, he can definitely go to bed early.  Even my friends say it's a miracle studying in a local subsidy school.  So far, I feel happy on his result.  

yhchoy

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jchw

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totally agree and really impressed

Soundervolt

原帖由 simonwan 於 15-10-04 發表
要好成績唔一定要功課默書多，問題系好多學校衹懂谷功課，其實大部分功課系無用！
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要做到好嘅學業成績需要靠整體學習條件，跟功課量多少當然並不掛鉤。功課只係整個學習條件嘅一部份而已，而且功課嘅質量比數量更為重要。其實好成績嘅學校唔一定多功課及用機械式操練，不過課程就一定唔會簡單。

simonwan

charlottechy 發表於 15-10-2 15:08
"有本事自己去考個名校回來"

甘如果父母本身系名校畢業，就系唔系可以谷仔女入名校？

simonwan

Soundervolt 發表於 15-10-3 10:44
In the old days, we went through so called "Gavage style education system", I studied in a homework ...

要好成績唔一定要功課默書多，問題系好多學校衹懂谷功課，其實大部分功課系無用！

nerolibaby

原帖由 charlottechy 於 15-10-02 發表
"有本事自己去考個名校回來"

金句～

milktealai

支持！

alovea

說實在...so far我未聽過未見過有咁嘅家長喎！個個家長都好好喎，出唻都係鼓勵小朋友為主

superying

知易行難呀！

vinik

原帖由 picture 於 15-10-03 發表
其實嗰D家長chatroom, 最有用係報導面试現場交通狀況和室內溫度。。。其他的哂命/欢水function , 切勿理會 ...

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picture

原帖由 Jane1983 於 15-10-02 發表
吾好同人比較，少d同其他家長傾，係好好多。

考小一，對父母吾係舊生，無兄姐開路，無識人搞關係，抽獎又 ...

其實嗰D家長chatroom, 最有用係報導面试現場交通狀況和室內溫度。。。其他的哂命/欢水function , 切勿理會。。

Soundervolt

charlottechy 發表於 15-10-3 11:05
100% agree with you. that's why I said it's the choices of parents matter. for myself，I applied for ...

Agreed! Therefore, parents should choose the school with a clear-mind for fitting the kids' abilities and personality rather than pursuing the reputation of the school itself. But unfortunately every DSS or private school have thousands application each year, it's not easy to acquire an appropriated school for the kids with good matching.

charlottechy

100% agree with you. that's why I said it's the choices of parents matter. for myself，I applied for private schools like ICQM but never SFA or APSKT.

at least we can make our choices instead of being chosen, right?

Soundervolt

charlottechy 發表於 15-10-3 09:04
primary school in the past is so different from those nowadays. remember the days when we, the paren ...

In the old days, we went through so called "Gavage style education system", I studied in a homework-slaving primary school which had tons of homework with various intensive test and examination... not that easy than current students. I don't think the school is the only factor what makes the kids endures in a stressful life nowadays, my kid had studied in a subsidized school previously which had less homework and not harsh on academics, very easy to achieve the good scoring. But that school is not popular among the parents due to her result on the secondary school places allocation is not so impressive. I wondered would you prefer your kids studies in this kind of happy schools? The "Free Lunch" doesn't exist in the real world. APS, SFA, KTS are good schools and very popular in town. But do you think they are not such demanding on the kids? I'd believe the parents' mentality is more decisive to driven the kids' way of living rather than the schools.

charlottechy

primary school in the past is so different from those nowadays. remember the days when we, the parents, went to school?? we finished school at noon, head home for lunch, do 3-4 pieces of homework, some revision occasionally then watch tv And have fun.

look at those subsidized schools today. most of them give tons of homework to the kids, a lot of assessments to make sure they have good results in TSA or other public exams. how's their childhood like now?

I'm not saying all private schools provide good environment or less pressure to kids. but at least we can choose and we are not up to the “lucky draw” to decide our kids’ life. if we are financially capable, I think it's the only way to give them back their childhood by choosing a right school.