夠竟嚴紀律嘅學校好定唔好呢?

sheepyland

阿仔本身屬於坐唔定，多手多腳果d，其實咁嘅話嚴紀律嘅學校好定唔好呢? 嚴可能令佢乖d，但又驚佢對返學反感，如果happy school應該會開心好多，但個人會無曬紀律…

victoryu19

chkwok 發表於 14-12-1 08:47
請問邊間學校呀?
之前好似聽過學X園係咁

Yes it was LH (but let's keep the details in PM if interested).  I tried to post my experience before but lots of LH parents were all over me and sounded like they wanted to kill me.

chkwok

victoryu19 發表於 14-11-28 08:26
It depends on your preference.

Personally I don't like it.  My son's PN school (last year) asked hi ...

請問邊間學校呀?
之前好似聽過學X園係咁

我好記得我自己讀KG的時候, 老師要我地聽歌時, 雙手合埋放O係耳側, 我果時雖然細, 但係我好有印象我係好憎的, 成個KG 所有野都冇記憶, 係呢單野記得

soso3509

原帖由 gg33 於 14-11-30 發表
請問有邊幾間幼稚園係出名紀律較嚴的?

天主教好著重守規則..係比較嚴肅既學校..

creama

其實happy school係指小朋友無功課壓力，唔代表唔重視品德，好多happy school好似救世軍創價等個d，好多小朋友出到唻，自律禮貌比好多只谷學術嘅名幼好好多，
反而我覺得你小朋隶本身係坐唔定，反而要揀一d活動教學嘅學校，如果要佢坐定定死讀反而可能令佢討厭返學同學習。

gg33

請問有邊幾間幼稚園係出名紀律較嚴的?

ballg

有紀律都好，唔喜歡學校怕老師，好過唔喜歡我怕我，我自己可以响課餘同小朋友玩，探索，一樣可以得到童年快樂

Julybabe

victoryu19 發表於 14-11-28 08:26
It depends on your preference.

Personally I don't like it.  My son's PN school (last year) asked hi ...

Agree.. I don't like this style of teaching as well.... I think children should be active and energetic where the traditional school seems to take away the kids' 童真and freedom... My child was asked to sit properly during class where she's just been curious on every little things in class and just can't stay still... The teacher talked to her privately and asked her to behave.. We quitted in the end

catcatma

Happy school都可以好有紀律的，仲要係自發地守規，老師識教、了解小朋友發展需要、用正面的態度教，識同小朋友溝通、係有技巧和方法的，不需要嚴小朋友都可以好守常規。

Joball

原帖由 victoryu19 於 14-11-28 發表
Agreed.  It is against human nature for a young kid to sit without being allowed to explore.  It lim ...

My boy is a "naughty boy"

victoryu19

Joball 發表於 14-11-28 11:29
對N1K1，個人覺得小朋友周圍摸，周圍探索係學習一種！

佢地唔係曳，係透過五感去學習！

Agreed.  It is against human nature for a young kid to sit without being allowed to explore.  It limits the kid's opportunity and interest to explore and learn.  If 'sitting still' and 'following order' is considered to be 'behaving nicely', then I would rather see my son 'behaving badly'.

Joball

原帖由 sheepyland 於 14-11-27 發表
阿仔本身屬於坐唔定，多手多腳果d，其實咁嘅話嚴紀律嘅學校好定唔好呢? 嚴可能令佢乖d，但又驚佢對返學反感 ...

對N1K1，個人覺得小朋友周圍摸，周圍探索係學習一種！

佢地唔係曳，係透過五感去學習！

過份要求坐定定，絕對扼殺學習空間！

到K2K3，個人覺得小朋友要學習秩序、規矩！

知道幾時可以周圍走，幾時唔可以！

Joball

原帖由 victoryu19 於 14-11-28 發表
I personally think kids are being over discipline most of the time in school in Hong Kong.

Putting  ...

Agree

siumak

其實哩樣真係睇家長點揀o架咋喎﹐
家長相信學校嚴會教得好咪揀嚴﹐
家長如果相信應該順應孩子天性去揀學校咪照做囉﹐
其實真係無絕對的答案。

supermom1

Unless your target is international primary school, otherwise kids will have problem to adapt to local primary school

victoryu19

I personally think kids are being over discipline most of the time in school in Hong Kong.

Putting the hands behind the back and on the knees don't mean much to me (even adults won't do it so why should we expect the kids to do so).  I also don't like the concept of 'raise your hand before you speak'.  To make matters worse, a kid doesn't get a chance to speak even though he / she raises the hand (as many kids do so and the teacher only has time to let one or two kids to speak).

It is just not my cup of tea.

Wongleungyuen

我覺得嚴都ok,不過最重要係恩威並重，到小朋友守到紀律同做得到時老師都會欣賞讚賞。而唔係淨覺得做到就必然唔讚賞，但一錯就即罰。

nekoneko79

老實講, 睇你想入咩小學, 如果目標小學係嚴厲的, 早d俾佢適應, tune返個紀律會好d

victoryu19

To me:

"...I won't do it because I worry that I will get punished..."  <-- that's fear, not respect.

victoryu19

It depends on your preference.

Personally I don't like it.  My son's PN school (last year) asked him to put his hands behind the back when he walked and put his hands on his knees when he sit down.  I used to hate it so much as I felt like a kid looked like a robot this way.  He was not happy with all the pressure etc too.  He ended up not crying and not speaking in school for 3 months.

This year he goes to another school without those restrictions and is a lot happier.