想知邊間小學出事？

stockmike

因下年要考學校,不想入同一間

6歲女童疑校內遭學長強姦 - http://s.appledaily.com/apple/a.php?i=20141120&sec_id=4104&s=0&a=18941545

tester5

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我正擔心學校處理的手法...如果好似你咁講的為面子唔通報..我只擔心同樣事情會不幸地又發生.
其實作為家長, 學校越透明, 家長越放心. 最起碼, 我知道你肯面對和唸辨法解決!

kenwong888

tester5 發表於 14-11-21 17:25
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作為家長, 我真係擔心, 學校理應是安全的地方, 點知會發生風化案. 無論點, 都唔 ...

學校 must 100% 收埋唔講 cos this will definitely affect her competitiveness to enroll top tier's students!
Hence affect the banding of the school in future!

tester5

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作為家長, 我真係擔心, 學校理應是安全的地方, 點知會發生風化案. 無論點, 都唔想在自己孩子的學校發生.
我唔清楚件事點發生, 但有朋友話比我聽, 已經拉左人, 在調查中. 我自己都希望警方盡快有消息, 釋除我們家長的疑慮, 唔好大家估估下.


如果真係在學校發生, 我希望那所學校唔好收埋唔講, 而係應該通報家長並想想改善措施, 希望同類事件唔好再發生.

little_yolky

tester5 發表於 14-11-21 16:12
事情發生左, 冇人想,
但最好公佈邊間學校發生.

其實, 大部份報章除咗生果報之外, 無人話係响學校發生, 仲查緊, 所以大家唔好先講到已經結案陳詞咁。

BTW, 希望個女仔無事。

tester5

事情發生左, 冇人想,
但最好公佈邊間學校發生.

涉案學校亦應即時出通告報告家長, 有什麼改善方案避免日後再發生同類事件.

其他刑事交警方處理.

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原帖由 Yanamami 於 14-11-20 發表

which school???

kenwong888

Dear webmaster,
Could you please remove this topic?  Thanks in advance.

Artie

kenwong888 發表於 14-11-21 13:17
I am not “知情人士”!
But i just want to point out we should not jump to the conclusion the boy's p ...

This has nothing to do with ADHD or children with special needs.

We are talking about rape.

Artie

kenwong888 發表於 14-11-21 12:20
Yes, you are right.  The boy is sick, otherwises he should not do this!

When the parents discover  ...

It is still too early to say whether the boy in this case is really "sick".

Most of the time, rapists are not exactly sick people. They are merely manipulators that do not want to control themselves.  And thus the responsibility is still on the parents' shoulder.

In any case, I do not know how cruel this is for the boy's parents, to bear responsibilities of the boy's act. But definitely, it is cruel enough for the little girl and her family.

torunpoland

明白係人都有七情六慾，男仔情慾到，難以控制，唔識控制，父母咪要教囉！就係咁簡單。在他還是小孩子時，已經要教。實在不能一句「when the desire comes」就算。父母教的是（1）控制慾望，有時連俾粒糖個小朋友，都要教佢返到屋企先食，而唔係即場食。（2）做事負責任，做咩都好，唔好傷害到人，在地鐵扶住扶手轉轉轉，好小事，但整到其他乘客就係唔啱（即使大多數大人都話「唔緊要，小朋友係咁」）（3）尊重、保護自己私處，推而廣之到其他人（包括孩子）。

gigayan

kenwong888 發表於 14-11-21 13:17
I am not “知情人士”!
But i just want to point out we should not jump to the conclusion the boy's p ...

家長如果明知小朋友控制唔到自己, 佢有責任和學校講小朋友的問題, 令學校注意! 學校知道學生有問題, 亦都有責任看管好有問題的小朋友, 保護其他小朋友。有問題的小朋友有沒有接受治療呢個問題又或者政府資源足唔足夠, 離呢件事太遠了! 因為大家都唔識呢位小朋友, 唔知真相!
發生了事, 唔係一句話小朋友控制唔到, 家長和學校負唔到責任, 就將整件事推卸了! 你話大家沒有想男孩子的一方, 女孩子呢?? 這是一生的烙印!!!!!!

kenwong888

I am not “知情人士”!
But i just want to point out we should not jump to the conclusion the boy's parents do not teach him properly!

Let's say when people seeing ADHD children behaving bad in the public, they will also discriminate their parents right?

But those parents should not know the government queues for treating those SEN children are so long (waiting for two years is normal case)!

For example 早期教育及訓練中心, should we ask the government to be responsible for this happening for long time!

Yanamami

詳情警方都未公佈，點解你好似“知情人士”禁既？連個細路要seek treatment都知？

明既，有時父母點教，個細路未必受教（就好似臺灣地鐵砍人事件），但咩原因都好啦，唔喺推卸責任既籍口。

kenwong888

jumbojet 發表於 14-11-20 22:32
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If all boys desire come and they will action, there should be no co-ed schoo ...

If the boys are not sick, they should not do this!

kenwong888

When i read the news. my first impression is the boy must be sick!

Therefore i show sympathy to both victim and the boy!

You should know the boy will have dark future after this incident right?

kenwong888

Artie 發表於 14-11-21 09:11
I cannot believe someone say "when desire comes...... blah blah blah" in ek. It indicates that the ...

Yes, you are right.  The boy is sick, otherwises he should not do this!

When the parents discover their boy is sick, and want to seek treatment form Government specalist doctor like psychological, you know the queue is more than one year waiting time!

The parents cannot afford private clinic because the consultation and treatment fees are so expensive!

The society is cruel right?

kenwong888

Yanamami 發表於 14-11-21 08:15
唔喺乜野叫監護人？18歲以下俾拉左，都要家長去保吧~~養不教，父之過呀~細細個就要教男仔要尊重女性啦。野 ...

Frankly speaking, you can say the boy and animal and cold-blooded!
You do not understand how parents want to do and can do!
But how come their children are sort of ... their parents feel so regret because their children do harm the society!
But how can the parents do... the parents are also helpless...

kenwong888

Artie 發表於 14-11-21 09:05
乜 LOGIC？人同野獸唔同，因為有道德，有法律。家長責任一定係最大，因為佢地冇好好教個仔。

有女兒的父 ...

人同野獸 is exactly true!
It is because human has extra-ordinarily good control and suppression of desire!
But we should know the children have weak control right?

I do agree we should all have high moral and correct value!
But god know?  Even most respectable persons actually are human-skin-animal-heart right?

兜仔媽媽

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好同意~從小就要加强小孩自我保護恴識, 不論仔女!