在家多國語言交談

Hyda

我個女201201出世（16.5個月大），我主要同佢講廣東話，20-30%時間講英文（講完一個語言講另一個語言-喺同一個situation會用的）。是我見我fd咁同個mixed嘅仔溝通又好似ok，所以我都試緊。
我亦都會同佢講日文。但仲少d，怕令佢confuse。

有冇家庭都係咁，雙語或多語的呢？
可以交流下心得嗎？

shevachevy

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返過東山, 而家o係ekimae

Hyda

原帖由 opuyo_kannus 於 13-06-30 發表
禁快學晒，第時學乜？

邊有咁快學得哂吖。
宜家比佢聽多d，等對耳靈D。

Hyda

原帖由 sunsky46 於 13-06-29 發表
請問你囡囡返邊間日文pg?

冇呀。我諗住自己同佢講日文，慢慢教咋。

opuyo_kannus

禁快學晒，第時學乜？

sunsky46

原帖由 shevachevy 於 13-06-27 發表
樓主, 我同你情況有d似喎
我主要係用廣東話, 我女而家3歲多d, 中文溝通完全冇問題~
英文我通常同佢講故事先 ...

請問你囡囡返邊間日文pg?

Hyda

Thank you!!
哈哈，咁我又唔會捉住佢聽嘅。我諗我算係果d唔係太緊張嘅家長。較注重自然發展。
只不過有時又會擔心自己同老公係咪太過乜都唔緊張。。。
經濟上比唔到d咩佢，冇閒錢去play group／國際學校。但底線係點都想過我嘅語言能力比佢作為一生受用嘅東西。我，唔收佢錢架嘛！但肯定自己點都正過果D所謂外籍英文老師而其實係講有accent嘅英文的南亞人。
題外話，玫瑰x果單嘢，新聞中播出了被抄的外籍英文老師的錄音，你唔覺d英文唔正咩？我真係怕自己個女返學反而d英文會學壞。

Hyda

原帖由 hoihoima 於 13-06-27 發表
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It is very important for parents to use their mother tongue to communicate with ch ...

Thank you.
Yes I do that. I want her to know about the natural flow of conversation, intonation, etc.  Not just vocab.

shevachevy

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真係唔駛心急, 我女都要2歲先坐得定聽得完成個故事, 一旦坐得定就一路都坐得定, 放心!
最緊要係唔好push佢, 佢唔聽就話: 咁我地做第2樣o野啦, 千其唔好捉佢/迫佢聽, 總有一日會ok的~

Hyda

原帖由 shevachevy 於 13-06-27 發表
英文好細個已經比d video佢睇, 所以佢已經識左好多基本詞彙, 咁睇書當然就會就返佢個程度o黎睇啦, 我平時真 ...

講開story reading，其實佢地幾大先明d 故仔講乜？同埋有心機聽？
我個女就17個月，睇一頁就走人或者自己揭，講唔完故事！

hoihoima

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It is very important for parents to use their mother tongue to communicate with children.  Multi-language to communicate should be workable as long as the whole sentence is spoken in the same language.

Obiepapa

原帖由 Hyda 於 13-06-24 發表
我個女201201出世（16.5個月大），我主要同佢講廣東話，20-30%時間講英文（講完一個語言講另一個語言-喺同 ...

If you are native in that language, you can do. If not, I suggest not to talk a few languages with your kid.

shevachevy

英文好細個已經比d video佢睇, 所以佢已經識左好多基本詞彙, 咁睇書當然就會就返佢個程度o黎睇啦, 我平時真係95%以上o既時間都同佢講廣東話, 所以佢又好明白剩係講故事先會轉台, 而且講故事我都係一本中一本英, (以前細個剩係講英, 發覺佢變左唔多喜歡中文書, 即刻睇返多d中文), 到而家已經睇晒ORT READ AT HOME STAGE 1-5 o既書, 中文書我自己有mark低果d大概40本左右。
我個女係明d 故事講咩, 唔明都冇心機聽我講晒啦, 而且佢已經咁大個, 唔明都會問咖喇~

Hyda

好掂喎！
咁喺1.5-3歲之間，你係點分配中英文溝通時間架？淨係講故事先轉台，佢會唔會唔知我up乜架？

shevachevy

樓主, 我同你情況有d似喎
我主要係用廣東話, 我女而家3歲多d, 中文溝通完全冇問題~
英文我通常同佢講故事先用, 而家佢都聽到簡單指令, 一般yes no question佢都答到, 有時仲可以complete sentence 講, 睇指示牌呀呢d我地唔解釋佢都ok, eg: "dogs are prohibited", 但講流利程度同詞彙就一定冇中文咁好
日文我女都有上pg, 暫時都ok, 識得自我介紹, 講幾歲, 一般招呼用語, 生果, 顏色之類都講到。
我覺得三語係ok o既, 但一定每次講都係complete sentence, 全英/全中/全日 咁樣, 小朋友先唔會混淆, 有時阿女都會問返我點解呢個音咁似 "中文/日文", 反映到佢係分得到 , 好似尋日我用同佢講"mud bath", 佢話mud 咁似中文, 咁我又乘機同佢解釋返 mud 有"d" 音, 留意呢個consonant o既發音

Hyda

I really appreciate your advice!
I'll think about it and decide on what I want to do. Thanks loads.

Hyda

原帖由 sbux 於 13-06-26 發表
雖然你三種語言都近乎流利，但母語只有一種。。。仲有，你講嗰個吹頭例子係日日做，可能你講咩文佢都會條件 ...

其實仲有其他例子嘅。
不過我會繼續留意的了。謝謝！

Walala99

And build second languages from there. For example, u speak mostly English. But on certain activities u speak Japanese or Cantonese. She will pick up super fast. But her main language is still English. This is my opinion. Every parent raise their children differently. Follow your heart and choose what's best for u and ur baby. ^^

Walala99

I speak full English to my child and my husband speaks Cantonese. I think kids are quick learners who can distinguish different launganges at very early age. I personally think you should pick one language that u want your kid to learn now, and maybe speak Japnese to her during story time. The language that u choose to speak to her should be the language you want her to be strong at now.

sbux

原帖由 Hyda 於 13-06-26 發表
Thanks for sharing!

我本身成長環境關係，廣東話、英文同日文都係native or close to native，所以呢樣我 ...

雖然你三種語言都近乎流利，但母語只有一種。。。仲有，你講嗰個吹頭例子係日日做，可能你講咩文佢都會條件反射做到都唔定