讓活潑好動小朋友到比較傳統的pn班,學規矩和紀律, Work嗎?

mamath

可否討論和分享各位的經驗, 以便為小朋友選擇合適的學校?

mamath

Very well say.  Let them go and let them try.  Maybe i should let him try a traditional one first and test his response.  My hubby believes that kids are adaptive and they will respond to the environment well.  Maybe i am still a bit conservative:  it's always easier to 先緊後鬆.

ericngkc01

mamath 發表於 13-3-19 11:41
Thanks :)

Do you and all mamas think that we can accurately see baby's character when he/she aged  ...

In my opinion, we as parents shall provide different opportunity for them to try and observe their behaviour from time to time, they can tell us.  Let them go and let them try!

mamath

For example, my son refuses to sit tight and listen to teachers during playgroup some months ago.  Yesterday my helper told me that he began to sit well and was attentive to the class.  So, i may conclude too early about his character

mamath

ericngkc01 發表於 13-3-19 11:38
呢個 POST 好好!  我會選擇適合子女性格的方式俾佢學習! 咁樣佢先會有機會發揮同學到野!
我地要有勇氣擺脫 ...

Thanks :)

Do you and all mamas think that we can accurately see baby's character when he/she aged 2?  If not, how can we choose the right teaching approach for our kids during PN or K1....  

ericngkc01

呢個 POST 好好!  我會選擇適合子女性格的方式俾佢學習! 咁樣佢先會有機會發揮同學到野!
我地要有勇氣擺脫舊有思維. 唔係話紀律及學術呢D 唔好! 紀律太好會唔會變成奴隸? 會唔會缺乏自我思考能力?  祇顧學術好會唔會擔心高分低能!?

sweetcandychan

我個仔好動，對文字冇興趣，唔可以靜靜睇書，冇耐性，玩玩具時好有創意，記性好。我覺得佢返活動教學會開心d,但又擔心佢升小學時追唔上。其實而家呢個時候，我最想培養佢自主思考的能力，我覺得呢樣野對佢長遠學習及解決問題會有幫助，學術方面係會比傳統學校差，其實幼稚園學術再深，可能係小一或小二程度，呢d可以升小學時追返。最重要係，我個仔唔似係鍾意讀書類型，我想佢返學開開心心。再諗長遠d, 讀到書當然最好啦，但如果佢能力唔係讀書方面，我唔會迫佢，我唔想佢成個童年都係温書考試做練習補習，佢辛苦時，我仲辛苦。讀唔到書就培養佢發展其他興趣才能，我生佢出黎，都係想佢生活得開心。

armo1184

我個仔返而係靜，觀察型，怕羞。我都係諗緊比佢讀啲活動教學會唔會領佢主動啲。。。

luckyveronique

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所以每家幼稚園都好難非常全面，既有學術、又注重潛能激發、德育又教的好好。因為一日得3個鐘返學，時間實在太有限。

家校合作始終都很重要，比如你可在校外教個仔學術，甘就揀活動教學的學校。反之，如果在家可經常陪仔仔一起玩，又懂得如何保護孩子的創造力和想象力，甘就揀學術強的。即係，parenting同schooling可以互補，就完美喇

mamath

luckyveronique 發表於 13-3-18 16:27
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咁樣既話，不如選活動教學的傳統幼稚園，如香港靈糧堂呢種，小朋友好乖，又可培養創造 ...

Thanks.  I am also considering it.  But it's academically less emphaised.  another worry for P1 admission.

mamath

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i meant relatively weak chinese proficiency and free style are two worries for me in choosing IS schools

luckyveronique

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咁樣既話，不如選活動教學的傳統幼稚園，如香港靈糧堂呢種，小朋友好乖，又可培養創造能力，保留住孩子的好奇心

mamath

luckyveronique 發表於 13-3-18 16:21
mamath，我係FTM

I can guess, and that's why you are more relaxed in monitoring the discipline.  For many working mums, this may not be easy.

Discipline and Chinese are two key concerns to me in sending kids to IS schools.

luckyveronique

mamath，我係FTM

luckyveronique

國際學校的學生因為接觸的知識范圍廣泛，接觸人種較多，因此會較為open-minded，但不代表學壞的可能性就更大。家庭教育對一個人品行上的熏陶及約束更加重要。

我個女同樣屬于好動、探索型、人際交往能力強（我自愧不如）。分析黎分析去，我會比她讀國際幼稚園，一路IS學校升上去。因老師都幫我分析過，認為她在這類幼稚園會更加得心應手，能力可以得到最大發揮。而如果她讀非常傳統、紀律要求非常高的幼稚園，她活潑好動的性格會得到遏制，甚至有可能影響返學的興趣。

當然，國際學校較為活潑的學習環境更加要求一名小朋友有學習主動性。如同樣一份國際學校的作業，題目是發散型的，不設正確答案的情況下，自律較差的小朋友就做完了事，而要求上進的小朋友會花大量時間完成一份作業，改進再改進，盡善盡美，在這過程中他會學到比本地課程更加寬泛的知識。

至于紀律和個人品行方面，我家家教很嚴，相信不會因為讀IS學校而培養出黎一個混世魔王

mamath

heiphy 發表於 13-3-18 14:33
我個b而家先3個月，路以為有排先要諗，而家好擔心。個人梗係想佢玩得開心啲自由啲啦！但我嗰個係超百厭同挑 ...

3個月就看出他的挑戰權威性格?

heiphy

我個b而家先3個月，路以為有排先要諗，而家好擔心。個人梗係想佢玩得開心啲自由啲啦！但我嗰個係超百厭同挑戰權威既人，永遠唔會俾你話事嗰啲，又真係擔心唔知會唔會玩創個心

smallb2011

近日兩單倫常慘案令我更加唔知選邊種學校比BB讀好紀律訓練強既傳統學校?又怕迫得太緊.........國際學校?又擔心會唔會太自由放縱....大左會唔會易學吸毒.....

mamath

bamalamb 發表於 13-3-15 19:38
I love this post, it's more like a heartfelt sharing than arguing which school provides stronger aca ...

Thanks.  I sincerely want to address my son's needs in deciding the best school for him.  Maybe this post is not attractive to parents who care academics more.... I wonder if most of the kids are that quiet and that this is a non issue for them?

Anyway, I guess the schools you referred to were IB or activity based DSS schools.  While the phsilosphy of IB is good, I have reservation about its implementation as this is rather new in HK.  The traditional education curriculum has its own merits, though we are all afraid of its homework and exams...

bamalamb

I love this post, it's more like a heartfelt sharing than arguing which school provides stronger academics :)

I think semi-international schools will be my target but there are not many choices out there. Well, they are also the most competitive ones in HK nowadays coz I think most parents would want to escape from HK traditional education system but cannot afford IS... so we may end up pushing our kids again to get into these schools.. Aiiii... pathetic!