身邊幾個朋友的仔仔都有關係入到名校！

Happylily2012

好感慨！朋友甲的小朋友自行派到區內熱門學校，同時又有親戚招呼佢去九龍塘名英文津校！佢仲煩惱選邊間！

朋友乙的親戚為某band1官中的高層，保證小朋友順利升中！

朋友的朋友的小朋友上年考唔到私校，派唔到心儀小學，動用關係入到聖保羅男女！

本人小朋友自行20分未中，又沒私校offer,更加沒關係！前途渺茫，呢排寢食不安，好辛苦又無助！

記得有句話講得好啱，有中國人的地方就有關係網，香港也不例外！

tws2010

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sorry, a bit off track 個主題

tws2010

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Agreed.  Those westerners also play a lot of games...what they do is - at the beginning, they say a lot of words to please you / appreciate you first and then stab you at the back.  Meanwhile, we Chinese, are more direct - they start the war with you without saying any lovely words.  What do you prefer?  The former one - you may not find out in fact you are killed already.  The latter one - you definitely sure you are in a fight.

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ilj 發表於 12-12-5 11:43
係,所以人際關係打從BB出世開始要安排

錯啦, 請從找男女朋友開始!

fc926

錯誤---入錯位

cautionchan

So Siu Siu : 須然我唔識你，如我係你，我一定問，不過點解你細嫂又唔主動問你呢？（都叫好親既親戚）但都很欣賞你的堅持！亦恭喜你搵到龍校，不用同政府玩游戲！

Sosiusiu

就算識有勢力人士, 但我面皮薄, 真係唔想求人幫手, 好彩我囝憑自己實力考到幼稚園龍校

cautionchan

看完十一頁，發人深省，你問我，如我識人，會唔會去求人俾學位？如真是好熟，我會架！我成日都同小女講，盡力就得！實力好緊要，但人事都不能拂絡，它可令你如魚得水！起碼在同層次的人中，留意你先！當然要培養小朋友造個個層次先！否則得物冇所用！
所以這話題沒有對錯！也不須堅持自己不用憑關係，只靠實力！可知，你堅持，人地都會走後門！呢個世界就係甘！同級數的小朋友太多啦！要分就是甘樣分，我好相信未來學校將會很多幼稚圓接龍直上，將呢個游戲愈推愈前！
所以你問我，我會答，有得利用就利用，沒得用亦不要怪人。你有你的堅持，世界都是甘運行，恕我直言！

gigi1020

各有前因莫羨人

Jane1983

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老師/校工，咪玩啦！都是搭上搭找校長和校董，可能條線吳夠堅。

雖然他們走精面，失敗左都吳值得同情，不過希望越大，失望越大，都好傷。

ysnmama

Jen123 發表於 12-12-5 14:41
十分同意你的説話，不過，有實力也需要運氣和際遇，否則，好似岳王爺遇上秦丞相，有什麼實力，也沒有用。



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如果真有實力. 一定能讓聰明如你所知. 不怕. 不怕.

運氣際遇不會一世如是. 總有出頭天.

如你引用的例子. 後人也能一清二楚.

mk3288

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在那裡讀得如魚得水的學生也不少吧。在小學已覺得壓力大，到中學時點算？

Jen123

十分同意你的説話，不過，有實力也需要運氣和際遇，否則，好似岳王爺遇上秦丞相，有什麼實力，也沒有用。

avaya

And come on, all places in the world talk about connections!   You really think in US, UK, Canada, Australia people really don't talk about connections?   Don't be naive.  The main point is you need to understand your kid and try to pick the right school for them.   

avaya

It might not be a good thing to get into those so call prestigeous schools honestly.  It could just be the beginning of a real torture.  My friends have kids studying at SPCC.  They all complain because they have no time for a normal family life even on weekends!   Their kids have to study for tests, work on projects, read books and write book reports every week, and together with all the busy activities schedule.   And the avg marks for a P.4 student is 95!   If your kid's marks is below this he/she would be considered as "problem" student and parents would expect to recevie calls from the teachers..... Huge pressure you know!  Also schools only focus on picking top students to do all the things and competitions.  If your kid is not one of the top students, he/she would be totally being ignored.  The kid wouldn't be happy and unable to gain any confidence.   So just don't compare with your friends!

ysnmama

能靠自己真正實力的永遠是最長久。有實力去那裡也不用怕。

Jane1983

hadwinboy 發表於 12-12-5 13:15
我一直都有這份堅持, 不做偽教徒! 但當in 完神級學校之後, 便有一剎那的後悔. 心想, 個仔咁叻入到2nd in,  ...

既然而家改都太遲，不如吳好想甘多，可能馬到功成呢，到時記得報喜！

hadwinboy

Jane1983 發表於 12-12-2 12:48
我都係做吾出為5分扮信教，眼見其他朋友都紛紛領洗，都有d覺得吾係太舒服，but that is
the right to do！ ...

我一直都有這份堅持, 不做偽教徒! 但當in 完神級學校之後, 便有一剎那的後悔. 心想, 個仔咁叻入到2nd in, 我的那份固執堅持, 會不會累了他呢 (因為2nd in 開始計宗教分). 如果最終是唔收, 可能我都會一直怪自己下去......

sammilcm

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