My kid is studying in SC in K1 this year. When he was in pre-nursery, he spoke only Engish to me at home. He also went to an international pre-nursery class at that time. But after studying in SC (English and Cantonese Class), he switches to Cantonese. He doesn't want to speak English at home. I am wondering if other kids have the same problem. Please share, as it really troubles me a lot! Thanks!
Do you think kids studying in SC can get enough English input without the need of going to English classes and parents speaking English at home? What I mean by enough is kids can speak simple English and communicate with a foreigner using simple English.
Before K1, my kid even spoke English in his dreams! At that time, his Cantonese was more like a foreigner speaking the language. Now, he speaks Cantonese much much more than English.
It is very natural because our mother tongue is Cantonese and he knows his parents are talking in Cantonese. But, I will remind him to speak English whenever I speak English to him. When he speaks to the domestic helper, he naturally switches to English. If you want him to pick up native accent, let him watch more English programmes.
Though he speaks Cantonese much more often, his pronunciation is very accurate!
My girl is in EP class too.
It is very interesting to find out that when they talk with the classmates, they will automatically and naturally switch to English or PTH (in outings, even in private birthday party). That's why I think you need not worry and children can handle multi languages when they speak to different person.
Thanks for your sharing, cutecutewing. May I ask, by your observation, kids in E/P class speak more English or PTH with thier friends on the picnic day? Thanks!
May I know if English is your mother tougue? Do your child knows you speaks C ...
English is not my mother tongue. Maybe you are right that he knows that I speak Cantonese to other people. He doesn't think it is a must to only speak English to me. Yes, you are right! I think I worry too much. Thank you.
May I know if English is your mother tougue? Do your child knows you speaks Cantonese too?
Assuming that you are Cantonese speaking, so my fair guess is that you may only speak English to him but will speak Cantonese to others, so knows very well that you could speak Cantonese and more important your mother tougue is Cantonese.
If it is the case, I think it is just because he could feel that your English is not your best language; or at least not mother tougue and so do not feel that he should speak in English with you. It is very natural to children..Children are very sensitive to language and could diffentiate who speaks which language.
I myself have a similar experience but the other way round, i.e. when she is small I speak English & PTH with her, but when I she got to 2nd term of K1, I purposely not to speak English and PTH with her because my Eng/PTH are not that good as compare with her teachers (native speakers). I don't want her to learn anything HK English/PTH from me.
I think the most important point is that you are worry too much on this. I don;'t think it will affect his English standards at at,
My hubby and I use Cantonese only when I am speaking with my son. We are chinese. Why we need to speak in a foreign language! Of course, when I'm talking to both my son and my helper, I will speak English.
In the estate that I live, French women talk with their kids in french. Indian women talk with their kids in Indian. Japanese moms speak in Japanese. Mainland moms speak in Mandarin. Only HK moms are not speaking to their kids in their mother language. And I am the only HK mom who speaks Cantonese. What a strange phenomenon it is.
I speak English to my son but my husband speaks Cantonese to him so as to provide hime with the language environment to learn both languages. I think a lot of parents are using the same method. How about you and other mums? Please share, thanks!