與一名德望畢業生對話後感

miutang

最近請了一個ＩＮＴＥＲＮ，她現在是某大學的二年級學生，現兼職形式來我們公司工作。她１２年來都是讀德望，我問她會否讓未來的女兒入讀此校，她郤說一定唔會，因校內很多政治斗爭，老師轉得快，叻的同學都只是本身叻，而體育叻的同學，因大都學術水平低，上中六時便會被學校淘汰。

我相信這位小妹妹對母校的批評只屬個人意見。但本人覺得感觸的是我們一路以為幫小朋友選擇最好既路，但到頭來，孩子是否這樣諗及感恩呢？私校／直資係咪真係咁好呢？花了的金錢會否就是換來這樣的評價呢？

Carelesswhisper

其實都要睇下學生和家長跟學校有無錯配，如果與期望有偏差，家長和學生便會說後悔了！但沒有學校是完美的！
學校提供優質教學資源，都要睇學生吸收能力，學習態度和熱誠，靠學生自己造化！家長會加以引導和協助，但實際上助力有限！
德望女普遍都有自信和語文能力（尤其英文）較高，亦普遍熱愛學校生話，學習氣氛也不錯！

申報利益：現任小六家長，小女九月升上中學部

Jackieson

miutang 發表於 12-5-8 17:42
其實我不是想討論呢間學校係好定唔好，只不過想帶出討論係，我們花心機時間金錢去比孩子讀私校或直資，但原 ...

講返樓主想帶出討論係: "我們花心機時間金錢去比孩子讀私校或直資，但原來有可能唔係心目中的好。"

大家又睇吓呢條link 的另一個同樓主有similar case的 "kuper" (106#)的見解及討論:
http://www.edu-kingdom.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=2385603&extra=page%3D2&page=6

and
http://www.edu-kingdom.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=2385603&extra=page%3D2&page=1

Haz-mama

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為什麼一定要到讀九龍塘的私小?  其實有些他區的私小也不錯呢!   當然以津小為首選, 想想 -- 要支付6年私小的學費也不便宜, 大家也不知道孩子是否適合這所學校, 但是, 給予孩子的支持是最重要啊!!  大家努力! 加油!!  

cherrychris

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Hi, I'm a Goodhoper too... is it easier to let my girl to get a seat in GH...

Despite this post is so negetive about GH... I definitely would like my girl to grow up in Good Hope!!

Don't bother others... haha..

Jackieson

williskg 發表於 12-5-26 23:06
其實間間學校都係咁㗎啦，冇競爭，冇進步。
我好相信唔係德望係咁，可能女拔，男拔，la salle同聖保羅男女 ...

其實始終係人既問題, 男校又咪咁, 記得當年學校打校隊, DB仔係度叫: 狗公, 汪汪汪, 好無品. (註: 狗公係一間學校名), 最後輸左仲當場哭tim; 喇記有$, 仲在周邊放左幾部攝錄機, 好有氣勢架! Anyway, many parents like 名校, me too!

Jackieson

tko-parent 發表於 12-5-31 09:18
老實講，真係吾太關老師事，名校大都無小班，一班 30 人至 40 人（e.g. GH)，老師上堂有盡力教已好好，之後 ...

其實我覺得老C&同學同樣重要, 好似阿仔吾鐘意班主任, 所以數學(班主任教)冇心機, 反而奧數攞到獎(因吾係班主任教)! 而同學就近朱者尺, 人玩什魔佢又玩, 人做什魔佢又做. 當然要睇小朋友的性格啦.

tko-parent

老實講，真係吾太關老師事，名校大都無小班，一班 30 人至 40 人（e.g. GH)，老師上堂有盡力教已好好，之後真係要睇小朋友吸收和家長的支援，好似 GH 出名谷，你真係谷吾上，退一步海闊天空，搵間一般津校讀，開開心心，壓力細 D，輕鬆 D，好難要求人地老師幫你做買補習，係吾係？

fatanna123

係呀，而家d細路好慘，又要上學，又要去補習，如成績不好的話，老師又話你資質有問題，永遠都不關老師事！

lugano

hyatt 發表於 12-5-9 09:10
this is an interesting topic, i also want to know if there is any comment on boys school.

比較各男校學生的 Stereotype ?

Seemingly interesting......

SalasIwak

"叻的同學都只是本身叻".
即本身三歲時已被牛津劍橋取錄五歲時已被請為講帥果D係咪呀.
到夠歲數就回港入去中學純係為左近自己屋企見下家人同埋HEA下時間,
得閒又用筆名寫書咁果D啦係咪呀.
問題真的只和別人有關嗎. 沒思想的嗎？

CoffeeCake

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我都想講,我身邊頗多DG女既感情生活係比較差,不過難怪,都好難接受要"嫁下去".

lugano

reneeleung 發表於 12-5-9 10:18
每間學校都有政治斗爭, 正常不過, 小學和中學都是一樣. 只不過家長和學生知唔知咁解.

我又唔覺德望老師走好多, 相比起有些直資. 佢地委員會總算是壓得住場.

放心. 都係果句, 入到先算. ...

一針見血....... good point

學校 / 公司 / 社會都有鬥爭，有乜咁出奇，呢 D 傳聞每年都有，但就算有幾多人不滿 GHS，形容到 GHS 好似中左輻射咁，我相信明年依然咁多人報名，名校始終都係名校，個世界就係咁 Run。

GHS 始終都係我心目中一所有份量名校

williskg

I know some good hoper, too. and most of them are now parents. they are smart and bright and not as somebody said that they like to show off. One of them even give up a very good job and become a good mum. Her son now become the very top tier in DBSPD.

tanglulu

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2001parent,
may i know what kind of attitude that you are not agree with? if you are still talking about those gramma stuff,
sorry, maybe we share different view. but it won't discourage me from sharing my true experiences to help other sincere parents.

and i think the attitude of criticising others rather than a frutiful discussion on the related topic is not a good parctice that should be encouraged in bk too.

青青河邊草

jantan28 發表於 12-5-27 08:29
我都係GoodHoper, 係中一先入去中學部嘅...讀緊或剛畢業時都會覺得其實間學校都唔係好好咁.....但到而家做 ...

無人會反對呢樣野, 名校=校風一定好, 係大家的期望.
但問題只在於香港唔少家長, 眼中會認為只有名校先係校風好既學校./
於是每年放榜, 不論中小學, 都見到D眼淚漣漣的家長,
原因,, 係入唔到心目中果種名校.
把整個社會的氣氛推到如此緊張.
但返過頭來又批評香港的教育情況對小朋友壓力太大.
家長有無諗過, 自己係造成這種局面的推動者???

band 2中學係, 一定有唔好學生, 但係咪一定無乖學生呢?
如果小朋友只係得band2 level, 係咪入band 2學校, 佢就一世抬唔起頭做人呢?

jantan28

我都係GoodHoper, 係中一先入去中學部嘅...讀緊或剛畢業時都會覺得其實間學校都唔係好好咁.....但到而家做咗人母,就會諗我嗰個係女就好啦可以容易d入番德望。我老公係教緊一間band2中學,平時聽番佢講番d學生先生,就深深感受到好的學校並不是老師最大影響.....係朋輩間嘅學習風氣同氣氛最能激發一個人自我讀書的推動力! 名校都會有d麻麻地教得唔好的老師,但係出來個個成績都唔會差!我嗰年理科班100%入U㗎！

GHcat

I also find a lot of unfair and untrue comments about Good Hope. Don't understand why

zerocoolmama

parentslove 發表於 12-5-27 00:57
From the above comments on Good Hope Primary School, my daughter and me (parent) found not fair.  As ...

Don't take it seriously. Just keep life simple. I'm glad to know that your daughter likes her teachers.

parentslove

From the above comments on Good Hope Primary School, my daughter and me (parent) found not fair.  As parent, I believed I sent my daughter to this school with proud and she is quite enjoy her school life so much.  The girls there are simple and discipline.  Don't make the school so complicated.  My daughter loves her teachers so much and would like to be one of them.