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owl_2046

pp819 發表於 12-4-30 13:10
佢超軟皮蛇, 下下耍至死死地氣做

我仔都係超級軟皮蛇, 叫佢做功課藉口多多, 常見話要痾屎, 一入就半個鐘以上, 寧願係廁所玩無聊, 拉廁紙, 問佢OK未, 死都唔出黎. 一出黎對住D功課就狂打喊露, 老師都話佢唔係唔識, 係唔肯做, 佢又"高人"無野引誘到佢
條死人懶根點挑都挑唔出

szeszes

自閉小朋友要佢突然改變係難,即係以前唔使做功課,而家要做就係改變。之但係成了習慣,就不同。因為佢地既固執,令佢一定會做足及做齊

szeszes

pp819 發表於 12-4-25 15:18
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we have been always praising him on his good behaviour but his misbehaviour is always more than ...

有自閉問題, 就要戒食朱古力, 甜野及零食, 由其是係情緒及專注力方面, 戒左你會見到分別既

如果你坐在他旁邊陪著佢做功課, 會唔會有進步呢? 又或者, 做完功課後比佢去做下佢想做既野呢?

我仔都係有自閉問題, 佢係讀一間幾谷下既幼稚園, 呢方面既問題發生於K2, 果時我地都好辛苦, 原因係... K2 佢言語表達及理解差 (我仔6歲 - 1年前言語評估, 只有4歲大既表達及理解力), 佢只識不停在喊, 唔肯做; 試過將佢既功課掉入乾淨既垃圾桶, 好過一段時間, 之後又來 ... 係升到 K3 先好些, 因為 K3 老師惡, 無做功課真係罰佢無得玩, 要坐定定做晒為止

今年小一, 大家定下左時間表 [呢個時間表一定要同佢一齊訂下的, 大家商討好], 保母平日就係咁既 (星期五除外, 因為要趕及7時半返小童軍, 要食左晚飯先, 咁就可以唔洗完成晒全部功課), 如果唔跟或唔遵守, 就要扣睇卡通片或打 Wii 時間, 有時係罰一星期無得玩既

放學就同佢去茶餐廳食下午茶
回家睇半15分鐘左右卡通片 (有時可以半小時, 要睇功課量而定), 之後就沖涼, 5:30至6:00pm 坐埋位做功課, 7:00pm 一定做晒 (我仔間小學仲有英文圖書閱讀計劃, 一至五每天一本圖書), 仲要默中/英文生字各5個生字, 之後食晚飯, 食完晚飯可以玩15-20分鐘 Wii 或 上網睇 youtube 或 中文網上字典 <- 佢既至愛, 學部首); 晚上9時左右回到家與我見面, 佢仲要做中/英/數網上功課, 我一定會坐在他旁邊, 唔明就讀題比佢做, 再唔明就解釋比佢聽, 我仔就10:30pm 或 之前上床睡

呢個只係我仔既例子, 因為佢好怕保母及我既, 我地平時大聲鬧一句, 佢已經會收聲及靜下來的

Capricorn2521

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Have you discussed the issue with the class teacher ? If it happens the same in class, there may be the homework is too difficult for him, he has no interest in the subject, or he is weak in fine motor skills. Try to find out the problem first and then it's more easy to look for the appropriate solution.

Yes, you're right. It will become a disaster if the problem exist when he's in P1.

Capricorn2521

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oh, that's the homework battle.... sorry, mine still in kg stage with little homework only.

Capricorn2521

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Is that the prize no longer attractive to him ? how about changing the prize to something else ?

do you praise him for acceptable behaviour ? In my opinion, praising should be more than blaming in order to make the plan work.

Capricorn2521

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獎勵計劃：由佢鍾意嘅野著手作為獎品，每日review吓當日的行為，好的行為讚揚後再比分，存有100分就有獎品。不當行為要指出及扣分。初初會扣多d分，習慣後知道遊戲規則不會咁易比你扣分。第一次我會口頭解釋要佢以後不再犯，再犯就要扣分。

有了目標，自己對自己的行為負責任。不過，家長要有耐性，逐個逐個行為糾正。

owen2008123

是不是自閉症，你帶他去評估一下才知道。
評估過後才知道，才知道问题出在哪里，應該怎樣做？