父母親自養育 小孩腦部成長佳

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多謝分享,真係一個好有幫助嘅題目,如早十一年知道就更好 ^^

annie40

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As parents, it takes so much time and a clear mind to stand against the possible "tristed" mind, and to provide alternatives and different models of learning to our children.
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I really love your words.  

motherotk

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因材施教


Agree with your point of view on education - especially important for kids with special learning and developmental issues. Most of the teachers or school system cannot do this, therefore, most of the kids are molded through a "manual like" curriculum..our kid's mind are tristed. As parents, it takes so much time and a clear mind to stand against the possible "tristed" mind, and to provide alternatives and different models of learning to our children.

motherotk

Hi Annie40, agree with your point of view....
"Can a loving mother cause her child to be a potential neurotic?"

Definitely will, as per clinical cases as well as from research studies...family interaction pattern (e.g. overprotective or abondoned or detached parents - not only mum) causing an "anxious" or "depressive" child....

See Dr Lee Wai Yung's (Family therapist from University of Hong Kong Family Institute), her chinese stories at bookstore or at newspaper documented a large percentages of her clinical cases as related to this point of view - never grown up child, never let go parents.....causing mental health issues of the inividuals (either parent of child).

Keep parents as having good mental health and children's good mental health is a key point to a successful and meaningful life.  What meanings can we get with a tristed mental health/personality?

annie40

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Many parents are overprotective and watched the kids all the time. (24 hours a day?)  Many parents are better than a lot of parents are.  We have a nice home, plenty to eat, and nice clothes. Our children have lots of toys and books.  Parents interfere with kids’ education and activities.
But still they are fragile and unhappy.  Is it due to a lack of understanding, not a lack of caring?  
The kids have no reason to complain.  Why they feel odd and failure when they grow up.
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I’m reading a Psychology book and a question circled my mind is :
Can a loving mother be dangerous?
This mom is ambivalent.
The kind of consistently inconsistent love is dangerous to the trusting child. Can a loving mother cause her child to be a potential neurotic?

caca316

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Hi Christi,
Can you PM me, about the 感覺統合相關的書籍? Really thanks.

Christi

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你有興趣於大腦東西,那或者你會對感覺統合相關的書籍都感興趣.

Christi

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係啊.大腦全攻略好好睇啊.睇到呢part : "在幼兒期安排過多的學習活動，會引發神經元間連結的擠迫現象(neurological crowding)，阻礙突觸修剪的過程順利進行，影響腦功能的專業化，也限制日後創意思維的發展",好啱好多家長參考呢...

殷!!

殷!! 發表於 12-2-14 22:51
以前聽左中央心理輔助服務（學前服務）- 家長講座糸列 , 對我既教仔心得, 起了很大改變和改善.... (print出 ...

我最鍾意"大腦全攻略".....

Christi

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謝!
呢個網站易睇好多...!

殷!!

以前聽左中央心理輔助服務（學前服務）- 家長講座糸列 , 對我既教仔心得, 起了很大改變和改善.... (print出黎, 睇多幾次, 好好用,)

http://www.swd.gov.hk/tc/index/site_pubsvc/page_cps/sub_946/

motherotk

Thanks for clarifications Christi... so many "expertise" terms and languages, kind of scary to an ordinary mother like me....

From my own understanding, "risk for depression" - everybody is risky for depression somewhere in their life,  throughout their life span...for tons and thousands of reasons, other than non-'positive parenting".

Christi

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motherotk, 其實研究人員冇講到 'good parenting'的介定,但他們用了positive parenting來敍述.

Christi

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嘩,乜咁多謝呀!

粗略睇咗啦(估唔到呢...),在Materials and Methods一part就講咗個研究點進行,但都係睇唔明研究人員所用的model怎樣可以排除其他因素,不過佢地話呢啲models/Assessments係widely used.咁可能真係要行內人先明囉.

不過撇除技術性嗰啲嘢,有啲都幾有趣既,自己又學多咗一啲嘢啦.(just copy and paste) :

hippocampus is a brain region central to memory, emotion regulation, and stress modulation, all areas key to healthy social adaptation.

numerous studies have reported that major depressive disorder (MDD) is associated with smaller hippocampal volumes in adults ....smaller hippocampal volumes increased the risk for development of stress-related psychopathology.

one hypothesis is that impairments in early maternal nurturing contribute to enhanced and maladaptive stress reactivity, reduced hippocampal volumes, and increased risk for depression.

估唔到同depression有關.我一直以為只係一啲好極端既負面行為先至會令到小朋友長大之後增加抑鬱症既機會.

仲有呢個:

Sex, age, and parental income were examined in separate repeated-measures models to determine whether they were significantly related to hippocampal volume. Sex was significantly associated with hippocampal volume , whereas age and parental income were not.

真係估唔到性別對hippocampal volume既影響咁大.
唔知信仰又可否令到hippocampal volume增大呢?

(無聊中,大家可以不理...)