love to share some news. a friend of mine grad. from st. stephen and since he's stayed at the school for many years, his attachment to family, dad and mom are relatively low. he admitted this to me....
well i am kinda emotional personal, i treasure all moments with my kids even ppl can say, it trains the kid somehow when they lived alone when they were small.....this is another view/ thing u need to re-consider...
I think you should consider that the tutor fee is too heavy financially or not. If your whole family need to change your lifestyle very much for paying 12 years school fee, I think you need to consider. If not really impact your life, I think should choose St Stephen.
If you have so many concerns, in my opinion, there are lots of treasure of St. Stephen's which you could not 'seen', and it seems you will not treasure. Then, better to save $...
More questions you should ask yourself:
- among these few schools, which one fits your son the best (in terms of teaching method, environment, curriculum), and which one he could benefit the most (look beyond short term, life long effects/foundation)
- what are you as parents looking for? and what are your expectations on his education (high academic standards? creativity? overall balanced achievements on every aspect?...)
In any case, your open attitude, supporting and dedication of time to your children are more important to guide him through and pave way for his success.