有無人9月仔做超大仔? 可以分享經驗嗎?

iloveal

9月出生唔大唔太細, 想做大b 讓他準備好些才入小學, 唔想repeat怕對小朋友自信心有影響, 我就諗咁不如一開始就遲一年入學, 從pn開始.  
唔知有無家長是這樣做呢?

larry_kawin

係呀, repeat k1, 阿仔可能覺得無聊, 畢竟好多嘢已經學過一次. 如果n1, 就更加大問題了

iloveal

原帖由 LUCUSMaMa 於 11-12-9 17:20 發表
我個係0809B, 佢今年已經讀緊K1(無讀過PN), 但係今年都有申請宣道K1, 因我很喜歡宣道既小學, 希望佢如果真係入左就大機會D上宣小, 點知下年取消學卷, 而且佢讀緊既學校我覺得非常滿意, 一動不如一靜, 同時真係入左宣 ...

你話會跟細b行為的一點, 十分有point!  謝謝意見!

iloveal

原帖由 summother 於 11-12-9 17:15 發表
我個女宜家都讀緊PN, 宜家都有2間K1 offer (但係不是太心儀), 我會報一些好D有PN的KG (e.g. SC, KM, LH, etc), 如果有幸收O左, 咁我個女出年一定可以直升K1, 出年唔洗又報K1

如果我選擇讀一間無咁心儀的K1, 出年就 ...

完全同意!! 有一樣的煩惱

summother

我個女宜家都讀緊PN, 宜家都有2間K1 offer (但係不是太心儀), 我會報一些好D有PN的KG (e.g. SC, KM, LH, etc), 如果有幸收O左, 咁我個女出年一定可以直升K1, 出年唔洗又報K1

如果我選擇讀一間無咁心儀的K1, 出年就算可以再報心儀的KG都未必一定有offer....真係好難決策

開心小花

如果係細B真係報咗K1, 有學校收就讀咗先. 明年再以大B身份再報競爭激烈的學校. 因為, 都見唔少媽媽分享, 學校係in 大B時, 要求又會高D. 未必一定收硬. 另外, 見有post話協恩今年考K1係只係考慮09年的小朋友, 大B當係插班. 難保明年其他學校唔行同一政策. 如果, 明年學校收生政策變, 到時小朋友真係唔上唔落.

larry_kawin

我個B係12月B, 宜家讀K1, 本來都諗住比佢repeat. 但係, 又好似好無謂, 佢好似未至於完全跟唔上. 我都擔心佢上小學後會覺得自己點解大 人o地咁多.

另外, pc, spc本來就相對地收比較多大仔, 所以小朋友未必咁覺自己大左

iloveal

原帖由 manman0808 於 11-12-9 16:10 發表
...However, when he is in primary school, most of his classmates were born in 2010, and then your son was born in Sep 09, he may ask himself what is the problems with me?  Why I am older than other people even more than a year.....
,  ...

Good point!  thanks for reminder!

But why there is no problem for kid to be super big boy in PC or SPK ?  There will also be kids are small and a year younger.

[ 本帖最後由 iloveal 於 11-12-9 17:54 編輯 ]

manman0808

U also need to think about how will your son feel about it when he goes to primary school.

In kindergarten, he may not know he is super BIG compare to others.  However, when he is in primary school, most of his classmates were born in 2010, and then your son was born in Sep 09, he may ask himself what is the problems with me?  Why I am older than other people even more than a year.....

Unless you can guaranteed that your son can go to a school like SPK, PC.... this kind of one dragon school.

iloveal

Wishwong, yes!  I understand the limitation. So that's why I want to hear more comments here.

I don't know why there are about 10 posts have been deleted here and those are all very valuable discussions! pity pity..>.<

I'm so happy to see those constructive feedback and discussion provided to me.  BK server must get something wrong.

gisoleung

最明智係..最好找到一間幼稚園讀住先..如果出年真係做唔到大B(無人收)都起碼有得讀呀~~唔好想太多啦..小朋友發展可快可慢..可能佢追得上其他1-8月D小朋友呢!追唔上先比佢重讀!

iloveal

oh my god! why so many posts have been deleted?!

wishwong

I think if you decided to stay in the same K for PN to K3.  It will be fine.. But if you will apply another K for K1 or K2, then have to think carefully as other parents stated before, more & more Ks not accept super big son like PC.  Then your choice will be limited... i.e. 唔上唔落~

iloveal

原帖由 larry_kawin 於 11-12-9 15:13 發表
要repeat做大仔唔一定如想像中容易, 最好還是先讀K1, 到出年再睇下有無好啲幼稚園收.

宜家好多人做大仔, 幼稚園interview時對大仔要求會高啲, 而且小朋友三歲再int K1已經開始有自己主見, interview時失準機會都唔 ...

謝謝提點!  多謝你的意見!  這正是我開這thread的目的, 想聽多d各方意見. 怕自己考慮不夠周全.

iloveal

原帖由 marinang 於 11-12-9 13:30 發表
...there is no meaning to compete in the very beginning in kinder, but I will perfer to step backward to look the results for the whole education journey. (1 year can finish a master degree, why as a mother, I will waster my kid's 1 year time.)

Don't take me wrong.  I don't mean to let my son being big kid because I want him to compete better in kinder stage.  Instead, I do this is just because I really view the whole 20+ years of study as a whole education journey.  That's why I don't think deferring 1 year is a waste of his time.  It's rather to let him build a better foundation for his basic development in early years before feeding him the over his standard academic learnings.  HK has a very strange education environment.  All schools and kids are learning things at least 1 year higher than their age/level.  
Like what I discussed with Wishwong in earlier posts, she also pointed out that overseas education even send kids to kg until 4/5 years old.  There are even some schools overseas arrange boys to start school a year later.

It's right that if you look back to your ex classmates there are cases with outstanding students born in Oct-Dec.  it's because the development of boys will catch up with girls until teenages(late primary or secondary school).  and by secondary school, the development discrepancy between boys/girls or Jan born with Dec born will be diminished or even not exist.

[ 本帖最後由 iloveal 於 11-12-9 15:29 編輯 ]

larry_kawin

要repeat做大仔唔一定如想像中容易, 最好還是先讀K1, 到出年再睇下有無好啲幼稚園收.

宜家好多人做大仔, 幼稚園interview時對大仔要求會高啲, 而且小朋友三歲再int K1已經開始有自己主見, interview時失準機會都唔細, 所以要三思呀.

summother

My girls can speak full sentence and follow your instruction. But she is very shy, so she didn't have good performance during the interview. We got an offer from Our Lady and SN only which are not our targets. Luckily, she have outstanding performance during KM interview (I never see my shy daughter can answer all questions to the stranger).

I checked SC, KM and LH also accept 0909BB to apply PN this year. So far I know KM and LN are 100% promoted to K1.

iloveal

原帖由 Himmi 於 11-12-9 14:01 發表
我唔知有無誤解你既意思﹐你系想下年先比拒讀PN﹐跟住個年先繼續K1﹖
我覺得你唔應該甘讀....  除非你間PN有K1接住上而系一定會比位你繼續讀。如果唔系你個超大B讀完PN﹐下年D K1個個都唔會收0909 B﹐你幫唔到拒報學校窩。連 ...

我想讀的PN是可以真升原校K1的. 所以我先會有呢個想法. 如果唔係我都唔會考慮. 會比佢先讀有OFFER的K1, 下年再REPEAT.

想問你是什麼原因要為你0809的仔仔REPEAT K1 呢? 你有打算讀什麼類型小學呢?