做細仔/大仔??

1001jenny

去出名的嘅小學面試時，是否有足夠的時間讓一個小朋友去發揮他（她）的能力和潛能呢？還是同考多人競爭的幼稚園一樣，短短幾分鐘去揀人？如果同考幼稚園GUM，就真的細B蝕底的了

feiji

我都覺得女仔嘅發展平均係快過男仔一段距離。

joannechow1031

其實這是年年都有家長好煩惱的問題, 我果囡都係07年12月, 果時我都係佢in 咗先囉, 睇吓收唔收, 5間都有2間收咗, 而我最想佢入聖心和聖保祿都唔收, 但讀咗一年後, 發覺佢真係成長咗好多, 講嘢叻咗好多, 人又高咗好多, 到第二年, 考過果2間, 都係唔收, 都唔係因為大囡, 本身都係好難考, 又諗亞囡高過其他剛入學的k1小朋友好多, 思想和學習能力都無問題, 所以就比佢繼續讀, 所以如果家長只是因為想佢入d好學校, 個人case就覺得唔係一定大囝囡就入到, 特別是囡仔, 比囝成熟, 就算做細囡問題也不大!

stinkyrabbit111

my girl is 0712, this was exactly what i did with my girl, except I let her 插班 in pn...although my girl got sick quite often, but social skill & 自理 had definitely improved...

南瓜妹

12月做大仔啦，我個囝都係12月，佢係大仔，真係比其他小朋友叻d架

feiji

evacalbee,

I want my son to be a big boy not because I want him to get into a famous school.  Actually, I am not too worried about his performance in interviews, coz this is indeed his strong part.  What I want is to let him learn happily, confidently and capably throughout the years.  That's why I will let him repeat K2 instead of K3.  I am considering switching to another school so that he would feel better and he won't be bored by learning the same text books all over again.

feiji

ting-ma,

Yes, I understand your point.  There will be someone being the youngest in a class anyway.  It is just that if there is a choice, try not to let him be the youngest (again, except that he is super advanced in physical and mental development).  Second, the syllabus was originally designed for children at a certain age, e.g. in Hong Kong, for example, P1 program was originally designed for children above 6 years old.  Sometimes a difference of 2 months would make a difference.  Why would we push the kid from day 1 and why not we let them learn what they are capable to learn?  Especially if yours is a boy, then I believe it is a good decision to let him be a big boy.

I let my son study in PN when he just reached 2 and now he is in K2.  I feel that if I really want him to be a big b, it is time to make the decision, so I have decided to let him repeat K2.  If I could make my decision all over again, I might let him attend playgroups only and then attend PN class as a big boy.  I still remember he cried for many weeks when he began to go to school.  Now when I look back, I feel that I could have made a better decision.

evacalbee

睇完大家講既野都覺得各有各o岩.
我兩個都係十月B, 仔仔叻, 做細B ok. 女女真係差dd, 但做大的話我又真係覺得太大...

都識得d repeat k1的小朋友話好悶,我都覺得係一個問題.

好矛盾, 我選擇自己努力d谷下佢... 但返工媽媽真係好難抽時間. catch up係辛苦, 但唔想就咁放棄.

我估大部份人選擇repeat, 都係唔想大家都辛苦?

或者咁諗, 考到好學校就值得repeat啦, 係咪?

Ryan_baba

依家係講緊9-12月出世嘅小朋友可以揀做大b定細b。而7-8月嘅小朋友係現在嘅制度下係冇得選擇，所以必須去面對。

南瓜妹

12月做大仔啦，我個囝都係12月，佢係大仔，真係比其他小朋友叻d架

Mabello6

讚同, 我小囡在moral上比較不佳,

sllau

學校有咩表演比賽大b機會都會多d...

原帖由 whychan777 於 11-11-18 10:21 發表
我以前都分唔開大仔細仔爭幾遠....
今年我個小朋友返n班........
其中一個係大仔, 佢架表現簡直係no. 1, 好快反應, 同埋井井有條, 坐定定, 未上堂時自己係度讀英文, 簡直吾敢想像同一班......
當老師問問題時好快有 ...

sllau

其實如果學校有觀課堂, 家長一定要去睇小朋友上堂情況, 就可以睇到小朋友有冇自信心, 明明係d野小朋友係識晒,點解佢一d都唔熱心舉手答問題, 只係望住其他小朋友做野...
成日見d家長話將repeat留返日後先用, 我想講日後小朋友長大,有自尊心,有自己既睇法...重讀比佢地大同學小小既打擊會更大啦...
教書朋友都說小學repeat,其實對個小朋友既正面影響不大, 學業成績唔見會大躍進, 反見自信心大大受挫, 更何況津校根本唔比重讀呢!!
點解唔比小朋友細細建立好自信心,讀得輕輕鬆鬆...

whychan777

我以前都分唔開大仔細仔爭幾遠....
今年我個小朋友返n班........
其中一個係大仔, 佢架表現簡直係no. 1, 好快反應, 同埋井井有條, 坐定定, 未上堂時自己係度讀英文, 簡直吾敢想像同一班......
當老師問問題時好快有反應, 當然好得老師歡心啦...
其實真係好著數, 到老師要評估表現時......吾會因為佢年幾會減低架, 所以一定會好好成績........

feiji

Yes, my sister is a primary school teacher and she saw many cases of small b. They are often lack of confidence and even when they are P6, some of them are still behind, coz they have grown up without confidence. Very often in a P6 class, the top students tend to be the older kids and the bottom students tend to be the small kids. (of course there are rare cases of exceptions)
This implies that their level of confidence affect much on their development. Also, even if you think your small b is smarter than the others, you have to consider their physical development too. There are a lot of sports activities in school and their capability affect very much their self image. Only if your small b is both physically and mentally advanced than the others, you may consider letting him be small b, especially boys.

sllau

自信心重要過一切，終生受用！

feiji

I think even if you don't mind what primary school your kid go to, it is always good to let him be a Big Boy, coz he will grow up confidently. He will be physically and mentally ready for what he needs to learn at school. He don't need to always try to 'catch up' with the others. It will create a huge pressure on him if he feels that he is often behind the others. Does this feeling feel good? Of course not...