比你, 你還會選宜資嗎?

heismama

大仔本身工人湊, 而家K3, 出年小一,
細女出年1月出世, 大仔讀P1時先9個月
大仔APPLY左2間直資, 自行面試入左區內TOP3既小學,亦即係我母校(有20分)
但我中意誇區小學多,
因怕大抽獎唔知去左邊, 所以入左我母校backup, 到時6月再叩誇區小學
直資已interview, 而定諗緊直資如果收, 究竟讀唔讀

1/ chk過直資校車只到地鐵站, 即工人日日要帶9個月細女搭車去mtr接送(約15分鐘車程)
2/老公把口就話知直資好, 但佢覺得政府免費教育無理由唔用要自己比學費, 即暗示佢唔會因此加家用, 我要全數負責(每月3-4千蚊)
3/本身話大家share一半家庭開支,各7千共萬四 但實際上佢比既都唔夠, 萬四只夠cover工人+租+煮飯+學費錢,
我每月最少要拎9千-1萬出黎,先比到水電煤+大仔興趣班錢, 到時細女出世我相信佢都係會比多一千家用, 老公一路唔主張迫小朋友學咁多野所以興趣班唔會比$
4/而家我地都係租樓住. 如果比埋直資的話, 已經無咩錢剩, 即一係比個仔讀書, 一係買樓

如果比大仔讀直資, 基本上我人工都仲岩岩好cover到, 比你地, 咁既情況下, 直資收還會讀嗎??
我好想比呀仔讀好書, 其實我地家庭收入唔少的, 要供個仔讀直資係夠的,
無奈老公成日唔主張迫小朋友, 如果我要呀仔咁既我就要自費....

Bravewoman2011

the school fee will increase subject to need in private school. Must take this into account.

Some govt schools are already good.

chair

其實你心中都作了決定啦
不過 yw同 tsl都係熱門學校
收你小朋友先算啦

莎莎莉莉

樓主, 船到橋頭自然直既.
我老公開頭都反對架.
但我係好堅持, 其實佢依家somehow都屈服架啦...
講真, 供就一定供得起佢讀既, 家庭開支可以再諗.
我自己住天水圍, 如果英華收, 我都會出來讀呀!

TSL我仔都有考.
但考完, 我同佢都麻麻地鍾意間學校, 肯定放棄佢的了.

[ 本帖最後由 莎莎莉莉 於 11-10-14 21:27 編輯 ]

ParcoBabyBaby

anyway, 樓主一早就決定左，如果YW／TSL收左就去讀。就算老公吾支持（吾放水即是吾支持）她都會去YW／TSL。

希望你成功啦 ：P

bb@wonderland

Heismama,

I know it is difficult to reach a decision if there is a conflict of idea between you and your husband.

Since you have already applied YL and TSL, I suggest you wait for the results first, and then discuss with your husband all overall again when you have the offers.

By that time, you two could make a decision that suits your boy the best.

Good Luck.

Chloe.Mat

OK, thanks for letting me know more about your situation. As you don't have concern on education plan about financial burden, you can free to pick anyone of schools (TSL or YW). In fact, I have 2 kids and both are studying in DSS & Private schools. I can foresee the "big projects" about financial support for them.

SFA is private school (not DSS). Have you tried to apply it for backup purpose? However, I know SFA is not your cup of tea!

Some of goverment schools (e.g. LS) with good academic standard as usual but most of parents are low profile. Surely, it will have keen competition to get in there. But the teaching way may not be your cup of tea, too!

Relax....

heismama

actually my parent school is not famous so i dont want to open its name here,
as most of you wl not know it,it's only popular in my district,
for me, i think YW & TSL is much suitable for my son.
i'm not saying the traditional school is not gd, but just not fit to me son.
i hv chk the traditional school record,
ard40-45% can go to the secondary school(with eng. as main lang,).
it's one of the PLK school so they are easily to get into a PLK english secondard school,
so you can find the % to go english school is not bad,
but i think the traditional school which may be boring and not fit to my son,
they force the student to hv a good result by giving a lot of homework, quiz,
you can imagine the homework is really a lot that the parent hv to complain to the school,
to be honest, i don't want to make my son feel study is boring,
i want it's interesting & fun to him so that's why i wonder if i should send him to a DSS school,
no matter resource & support i believe it's much better than a traditional school,
but now the main concern is my hushund think DSS not meaning the best, traditional school is always bad,
of coz i know it's the fact also, but i don't want to make my son afraid by doing a lot of homework,quiz,
i hv to take the bal.,how to make him interest so he is willing & happy to learn,
to our family income, I don't think it's a great issue on the school fee,
but of coz both me and my hushand hv to support and standing at the same way,
but now, he isn't, i'm thinking of how to make him standing with me,
everytime when i talk abt. the school to him, just like "playing piano to the cow",
he only believe his way, all DSS school like SFA, he doesn't want our son to hv the same child time like him,
i know he wants our son to be happy, but the fact is TSL & YW is not the same level as SFA,
our boy can hv a happy child time also better education, but it's charged, not free......

Chloe.Mat

Which government school you applied? Is this school better than TSL or YW? If you focus on academic standard without finanical burden, please pick the one which meet your expectation. As the results have not been announced yet, difference senerios will have difference suggestions....
Good luck! Relax!

[ 本帖最後由 Chloe.Mat 於 11-10-14 14:42 編輯 ]

Big-Mouth

TSL = 陳守仁

heismama

yes, i know, but i really afraid once we get the result and if my son is accepted, there is ard 3-5days to register, the time is not enough for me to think carefully and make the right decision....that's why i am thinking of this at this early stage, since i chk TSL result was released in mid/nov last year, meaning which is close to the gov't 1st result, if i take the offer of TSL, then DSS is my only choice bcoz i give up my parent school, but wingwa, it's fine becoz the 3rd IN is in Jan of next year, so even i register my parent school, i can still take the offer fm wingwa in case finally they accept my son

Chloe.Mat

你同老公最好有共識, 而且要量力而為! 當然, 能力許可, 選擇一間你認同教學理念的直資也不錯.

以YW而言, 學費平有質素, 但係亦有其他額外開支, 如體藝班, 奧數班等, 亦要學校家長配合, 如果想keep住好成績, 有D小朋友亦可能要額外"補品"...

而家咩都貴, 咩都加, 教育係長遠計劃, 真係用好多錢$$, 你要好好計劃呀!!

有D官津都好有質素, 當然都係競爭激烈先入到, 同樣都係有其他額外開支$$...

YW收左先算, 冿校都係入左再諗...塞翁失馬, 焉知非福! Good luck!

heismama

yes, you right, is my gov't school, not SFA

Big-Mouth

TSL & YW 有好多人申請, 我覺得收左先算, 唔洗念太多, 船到橋頭自然直。

ANChan59

原帖由 獅子狗 於 11-10-14 13:36 發表


相信樓主係講緊佢囝囝可以好大機會入媽媽間母校，而唔係爸爸果間學校....

唔好介意，唔知係咪我攪錯...

She said her primary school connection can pass on to her daughter even her son gets in YW, so I imply her son can get in SFA through his father's association.

That's why I seek for her clarification, but she didn't...

Anyway, thanks.

獅子狗

原帖由 ANChan59 於 11-10-14 12:20 發表
Did you invite him to visit the said schools before?

Do you have friends' kids study in YW and TSL? If yes, arrange a gathering to share the pros and cons of the new DSS schools. Third parties opinio ...

相信樓主係講緊佢囝囝可以好大機會入媽媽間母校，而唔係爸爸果間學校....

唔好介意，唔知係咪我攪錯...

heismama

其實我已經盡量有機會既都比佢認識呢2間學校, TSL OPENDAY佢有事去唔到, WINGWA上次interview佢有同我一齊去, 係等緊呀仔個一個鐘既talk入面, 好開心終於有呢個機會比佢認識到個校長, 聽到佢亦好buy校長個套, 見完個下佢同我講"唔好太緊張, 放鬆啦, 如果真係一個好學校, 佢自然會收呀仔, 如果唔收既, 唔覺得呢間學校有咩過人之處"個下我聽到真係以為改變左佢想法, 佢同我同一個諗法, 但返到屋企同呀仔傾計時. 似乎in得麻麻, 佢話佢d中文唔識, 我亦不抱太多寄望, 反面TSL我比較有信心, 因為我本身好多時用英文同呀仔對話, 工人亦係用英文, 加上呀仔本身好中意英文. conversation完全無問題, 學校老師都話佢英文好好, 但中文真係唔係好得, 所以我覺得可能考到TSL既機會可能大少少, IN完之後問呀仔, 佢都話好多野都識答老師, 當然我希望有2nd in la, 聽到呀仔好似in得ok, 又同c6講直資呢個問題啦,因為我見上年TSL係11月中左右公佈, 同自行派位差不多時間, 佢又話其實有間唔錯既官小backup, 點解仲要比$入直資, 一黎我話呢間唔係我心水既官小, 當然6月我會再去叩我心儀個間, 但因為個間小學同一間band1既中學有聯繫(每年有40個學生入到), 所以超級多人考, 機會好微, 而backup既呢間官小, 亦出名功課多, 同谷, 當然佢既派位係唔差, 但都唔夠我心儀個間小學 加上呀仔既性格 我覺得直資佢會讀得無咁辛苦 官小太填鴨式死讀書既唔岩佢 佢會似遊雲咁 其實我好中意林校長講過一句說話:你就咁講未必會記得 但經歷過學習過程既, 會好記得" 我個仔就係呢類 拎住本書就咁讀係唔得架 佢呢樣野我同幼稚園老師都認同, 但佢成日覺得直資為左名氣, 會好谷小朋友, 好似sfa咁, 覺得間間要交學費既學校都一樣, 佢唔想呀仔好似佢細個時咁辛苦, 佢覺得官小一步步黎, 唔會讀深一年書, 所以唔想比呀仔入直資,我話我無諗過九龍塘既學校, 一黎我覺得名過於實, 同埋除非我唔做野日日同佢溫書, 否則追唔到的, 咁我同個仔都會好辛苦, 反而wingwa同TSL, 我覺得呀仔handle到, 所以我先會考量, 但比ban晒....佢話間間直資收得學費都一樣的.....

ITETmom

原帖由 heismama 於 11-10-13 20:10 發表
其實我已經睇左好耐直資小學 去到而家真係in我再同c6講 雖然我有份工仲afford到 但我真係唔知究竟係我執著定咩問題 點解佢好似硬係覺得我唔應該報直資咁 我明白我應該比一個快樂既童年小朋友 但同時係米要諗埋將來呢 ...

官津唔一定代表輕鬆快樂,直資唔一定代表有將來。其實我想講你可從哪間最適合囝囝著手,如果覺得TSL or YW 適合而又收你囝囝就去馬啦,當老公看到囝囝讀得開心便會改觀啦。經濟問題既然現在afford 到就ok,我覺得如果可以就比最好給他們,touch wood 真係失業總有辦法的(eg 唔請工人,搬屋等)  大不了返官津,相信TSL or YW 學生都可插到ok 官津校。

做人快樂才有將來,直資都可以好快樂,官津(就算唔係名校)都可有美好將來。 祝你好運!