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回覆 96# evianh2o 的文章
My two cents:
這現象健康嗎?It's not healthy, we play by the rules. Your question may address to EDB and not just parents, educators......
當中有多少家長會因應孩子能力和興趣去選擇學校? Most parents are, no one want to torture their kids and themselves, but, if luckily enough to shift one band up (e.g. top Band 3 to bottom B 2), they will do it.
真係入去讀既孩子有冇機會表達內心所想?Yes, in my family at least. It's a great learning experience for him and us. His criteria and weighting not the same as adults.
His priority
- close to the kindergarten, he assumes the classmates can group together again
- where his good/girl friends going to
- gut feeling
家長面對學校A/B/C時應該用什麼心態去選擇?
I draft an Excel table with criteria and weighting, like religions, associated schools, academic results, ECA related to my son's interest, language of instruction, distance from home, discipline, first impression in briefing, words of the mouth, handle special needed students (handicapped and or gifted), chance (no. of seats) ...... We discuss, debate and my wife, my son and I grade each criteria individually, average out the scores....... 1st choice, 2nd choice.....
又或者舉一個實例,當孩子問你點解一定要揀呢間學校,你會點答?I asked him why he picked D >> S in secondary school selection, he gave me a few grounds. Not 100% agreed with his views, but I respected his choice. Of course, D & S are comparable schools.
I am not sure BK is a good platform to collect the info you want, but I know some parents they are extremely helpful to guide me through the selection process. I recommend you PM some parents have track record to help other parents in BK, you may know their directions and experience. (You may one of them). You can also pm other parents like to compare school A vs B vs C or school A is good or not.....
My answers are more micro and pragmatic, may not fit your macro question. |
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