Interview 後感

GAT

大部份Interview 已經圓滿結束, 大家有什麼感受或得着可以一起分享?

我自己有以下見解:

1. 其實講到尾都喺睇平時家長點train小朋友. 如果教得好同全面,面對各形式的interview都無難度. 平時家長要對小孩有充份了解,知送佢弱項及早改善. 呢樣無疑full time Mom 喺有著數.

2. 有50%其實喺In家長,家長點答問題極之重要.呢點就喺好多人忽略的地方.尤其喺Daddy,唔可以只靠Mommy. 有時可能baby做得好但parents答得唔好累事. 要答得好就要搜集資料知間學校要咩人.

3. 報多少及哪些學校呢D策略亦會形響自己心理質素,一定要有backup學校.

4. 我覺得其實In得好自己心裡有數,出來結果亚非与想像相差太遠,所以我並唔相信喺luck!

希望各位的分享! Good Luck to all BK parents!

charlesmama

係呀，有D野要早D開始教。但係教又唔等於會教倒，不過禮貌同價值觀又真係唔教唔得。
上到小學，就更多野係掌握以外，所以盡左力就一百分啦！日後小學中學o既變數仲多，只要凡事滿足，小朋友同大人都會happyＤ！

原帖由 GAT 於 11-2-27 21:46 發表
Now I find out indeed politeness is very important, as well as discipline. Of course independence is also another trail many schools are looking for.

Finally, the kinder result is not really as impor ...

[ 本帖最後由 charlesmama 於 11-2-28 00:51 編輯 ]

GAT

Now I find out indeed politeness is very important, as well as discipline. Of course independence is also another trail many schools are looking for.

Finally, the kinder result is not really as important as what we think. As long as parents made an effort for the next two years, still got chance to go for good primary schools - another big big competition!

iluvchun

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[ 本帖最後由 iluvchun 於 11-2-17 19:51 編輯 ]

小黑牛

Agree! This game is really valuable! I learnt a lot by going through this game with my little girl, becoz of this game, I can understand my girl's charater and her strongness / weakness much more, and learnt how to learn together although it is a tough job! Anyway, it is really a great lesson for my little one and me!

  

原帖由 iantsang 於 11-2-7 13:19 發表
Well, look at it this way.  It is part of the growing process.  Start to work hard at an earlier stage would accumulate valuable experience for the future.

Good luck to all!

iantsang

Well, look at it this way.  It is part of the growing process.  Start to work hard at an earlier stage would accumulate valuable experience for the future.

Good luck to all!

MUMREDBB

When you have time, interview is a game, otherwise it is a pain!

chowhui97

haha my girl also asks me to bring her out to play 'interview game'!

GAT

personally I do not feel interview as a difficult task. I feel it is a challenge, an opportunity to get to know more of our son, and also to understand more what students are schools looking for, as well as get to know more of the school we are applying.

After every interview, I know the school more, much more than that found in the website, so I know better how to chose among the schools.

Gratefully my son loves interview very much. He like attending interviews because there are always new schoold to go and new toys to play. He still want to go for interview now every sat. So it makes me more comfortable to bring him to so many interviews.

d-ma

原帖由 iantsang 於 11-2-2 12:35 發表


Very much agree with you!  After going through interviews for both my daughters, as long as we as parents have done our job, the right kindergarten suitable for your kids will naturally make an offe ...

Agree x 2!!!  My son performs better if he likes that kindergarten.  He even ask the teacher what to play next after one task is done.  So, just relax and wait for suitable offer.

fefemom

我覺得父母要為孩子提供機會,把握與否,好難控制.所以得失唔好睇成一切,最緊要明白孩子, 例如小孩子見到其他小朋友喊自己喊埋一份都係同理心強,雖然咁樣被叮好可惜,但知道佢會關心別人都好安慰.

iantsang

原帖由 w_y 於 11-2-2 10:06 發表
其實係咪要去 interview, 就必須要百發百中至係最理想呢? 有時學校面試方式, 唔多唔少同學校辦學理念有關. 如此說來, 不必太大費周章, 有時候還是得順著小朋友個性去教育 (不是遷就).  

Very much agree with you!  After going through interviews for both my daughters, as long as we as parents have done our job, the right kindergarten suitable for your kids will naturally make an offer to the right candidates.

Cutemom0808

原帖由 chowhui97 於 11-2-2 10:25 發表
即席揮毫趕 / 挑燈夜讀趕問卷...

好句好句, 幫小朋友報學校仲辛苦過返工, 記得小朋友自己入班房面試時, 口話唔驚唔担心, 實際上自己手心也在冒汗了! 唔係担心學校唔收, 係担心小朋友自己應唔應付到, 會唔會驚, 辛 ...

其實真是不有甚麼好擔心呢，入去見其他人一齊玩不是很好嗎，得就得，唔得就算，順其自然！

chowhui97

即席揮毫趕 / 挑燈夜讀趕問卷...

好句好句, 幫小朋友報學校仲辛苦過返工, 記得小朋友自己入班房面試時, 口話唔驚唔担心, 實際上自己手心也在冒汗了! 唔係担心學校唔收, 係担心小朋友自己應唔應付到, 會唔會驚, 辛苦了我們才2歲的孩子!

Cutemom0808

原帖由 w_y 於 11-2-2 10:06 發表
其實係咪要去 interview, 就必須要百發百中至係最理想呢? 有時學校面試方式, 唔多唔少同學校辦學理念有關. 如此說來, 不必太大費周章, 有時候還是得順著小朋友個性去教育 (不是遷就). 不多說, 建議大家去看看孫瑞雪 ...

真係講出我心聲，我地培育小朋友不是為interview，不要本末倒置。學校既offer只係培育小朋友過程中的bonus！

w_y

其實係咪要去 interview, 就必須要百發百中至係最理想呢? 有時學校面試方式, 唔多唔少同學校辦學理念有關. 如此說來, 不必太大費周章, 有時候還是得順著小朋友個性去教育 (不是遷就). 不多說, 建議大家去看看孫瑞雪的<<愛和自由>> 一書. 究竟我們教育, 是為了去面試, 還是為了教好小朋友? 面試等待期間, 見到各式各樣家長, 有時真為我們的小朋友心疼. 教育真不應該本末倒置. 當然在香港家長都會說, 制度如此, 我們身不由己; 但實際家長還是有一定自由空間唔去隨波逐流, 視乎各人選擇.

祝各位都找到最合適的學校.

stinkyrabbit111

"我相信, 經過呢2年 PN 同 K1 interview, 大家與孩子一同渡過..BK 爸爸媽媽的孩子都是幸福的..試想想我們經歷了甚麼....
- 係大雨天頂著風雨同孩子等interview
- 為孩子有無同老師唱歌而擔驚
- 晨咁早去排隊拎 / 交報名表
- 同一日趕幾場...(仲紅過D紅歌星)
- 出盡法寶希望小主肯自己入班房
- 即席揮毫趕 / 挑燈夜讀趕問卷"

真係好有共鳴!!! 我真係覺得現在的父母辛苦好多...

joyjoy815

原帖由 snow228 於 11-2-1 17:07 發表
count 1-10 真係幾有用, 我都係在playgroup 學, 請問仲有咩 對付小朋友 "失控" 時的方法?

可以試吓"視線轉移", 用另一樣吸引, 避免直接衝突, 不過用係細D既小朋友功效大D.

嘗試了解佢既情緒, 引導佢表達, 認同佢既感受, 比佢知道你係了解佢.獲得信任後就萬事好辦.

或者有時可以用 "ignore", 俾佢知道"發脾氣" 是沒用

BK 係一個好好既平台..可以去 "親子溝通" 取經

http://forum.baby-kingdom.com/forumdisplay.php?fid=25&page=1

joyjoy815

原帖由 iantsang 於 11-2-1 23:56 發表
well, I still have works that would occupy me from time to time (many parents forget that I have to work!).  Also we have a number of events in the past few weeks (which you may not be aware  ...

真的...教學相長....孩子在成長時, 其實我地都要努力..

題外話...見朋友小孩在讀 P4, 我拎起D Eng 練習嚟睇, 睇左幾耐先諗到點答, 朋友說: 呀 joy ..梗係啦, 你都未重讀 P1 Eng ..., 原來真係要與孩子一同成長

我相信, 經過呢2年 PN 同 K1 interview, 大家與孩子一同渡過..BK 爸爸媽媽的孩子都是幸福的..試想想我們經歷了甚麼....
- 係大雨天頂著風雨同孩子等interview
- 為孩子有無同老師唱歌而擔驚
- 晨咁早去排隊拎 / 交報名表
- 同一日趕幾場...(仲紅過D紅歌星)
- 出盡法寶希望小主肯自己入班房
- 即席揮毫趕 / 挑燈夜讀趕問卷

[ 本帖最後由 joyjoy815 於 11-2-2 00:30 編輯 ]

iantsang

well, I still have works that would occupy me from time to time (many parents forget that I have to work!).  Also we have a number of events in the past few weeks (which you may not be aware of) for the kindergarten with external parties, so it doesn't leave me much time to give feedback here.  I am still here monitoring everyday as this is my responsibility, but giving feedback would mean I need to follow-up those threads, and I can only do that when I have time.

Sorry to those who would like to hear from me.

I always feel my children give us good opportunity for reflections.  Genetically, they inherited certain traits of characteristics from their parents.  Also, they learn from their parents' behaviour on daily basis.  So, if we find something that they do which we don't feel comfortable, the first thing is to ask ourselves, if we have done so that way too.

Ian

原帖由 sheffield 於 11-2-1 23:44 發表
hello ian, seems that you haven't spoken for quite a while, where have you been?
yes, you are right, parents have to set themselves as a good example for the kids.
i would speak loud  to my sweethea ...

[ 本帖最後由 iantsang 於 11-2-1 23:59 編輯 ]