呢個遊戲真係唔易玩, 放低一切, 紓發心情.

眼超超

呢一世我諗我都會記得呢兩年.

去簡介會, 攞表, 填form, 做profolio, 遞form, interview, 有d學校仲要2nd in.  

個遊戲仲未完.

每次interview前都好緊張, in完後散晒, 有時仲一日兩間, 身心疲累.

我知我咁講, 你地實會叫我放鬆, 不過你地都可以咩?

大家放低吓, 有咩都講吓吧.

thomasha

Whether the game is cruel to the child depends on how we communicate with our child.  In fact, my son enjoyed all the learning processes before the interviews and the interviews themselves (except one of them), and we turned the subsequent reviews to interesting "memory games".  

The real cruelty is towards parents.

原帖由 Clarawsf 於 10-10-27 23:57 發表
The feeling of being in the selection does really hurt.... Just wonder why we have to force our kids to play such a cruel game....IT's really killing and exhausting....

Clarawsf

The feeling of being in the selection does really hurt.... Just wonder why we have to force our kids to play such a cruel game....IT's really killing and exhausting....

may6b

真係幾down, 一封又封reject 信, 雖然不是間間你都想讀, 但係又真係佢揀你! 好似你唔鍾意的都想佢鍾意你家嘛!特別你知道呀女都知發生咩事, 雖然理性些會想不取錄只代表不適合而不是不及格, 但感性上又仍'銀住銀住'!

不過no matter what, we love our kids! 對嗎?

ICbaby

原帖由 dk486 於 10-10-27 21:01 發表
我 in 6間，已有D收左，有D reject, 有D仲等緊公佈，但我全部無話佢聽.

佢有時都會問起第一間考的小學，點解仲未派翻張表比佢 (佢以為係有自行派位表咁)...我只係話無呀，邊有咁快呀？！ 佢就話:唔知係咪要等到2011年。我話係呀！！   ...

我今天上網check 番陳守仁既result, 佢見我打佢d info 入電腦, 女女好緊張走過黎問我咩事呀媽咪 ? 上網check 咩野? 我見女女個樣有d緊張, 我就話冇野呀, 老師report 比我聽你上次去學校玩左d咩野姐, 跟住女女就行開左喇,

我覺得d小朋友好識睇面色, 好多時佢地既壓力係黎自家長.

misstaisen

我都想放低，但係收到object信那時，真的好down,唉，重要一日收2封信添，自情想死。
這個遊戲真殘酷，大大的打擊我同女的信心。唉

kochiman2004

原帖由 dk486 於 10-10-27 20:47 發表
Lee 個遊戲，都幾折磨。

依家社會，好像越來越覆雜咁。以前，亞媽只比我地到樓下間小學讀書，越近越好，唔好花錢坐車去，下晝又唔駛返學，通山跑，不知幾開心。

依家d 小朋友為左入名校，小小年紀，又要公開比賽，羅cert考國際試，揠苗助長 ...

... live and educate in HK, must follow the game rule ... therefore ... shopping is very very important to relieve pressure ... shopping ... shopping ... shopping ...

dk486

我 in 6間，已有D收左，有D reject, 有D仲等緊公佈，但我全部無話佢聽.

佢有時都會問起第一間考的小學，點解仲未派翻張表比佢 (佢以為係有自行派位表咁)...我只係話無呀，邊有咁快呀？！ 佢就話:唔知係咪要等到2011年。我話係呀！！  你出年先讀之嗎！！！  我話唔緊要啦，一定有一間讀的，仲會讀得好開心的。

原帖由 ICbaby 於 10-10-27 16:42 發表


我諗我唔會同個女講rejected既事, 反正佢都唔記得IN 過邊間學校架喇, 我都預左全軍覆沒, 那又如何?
最多咪留係同區讀之MA, take it easy la

dk486

Lee 個遊戲，都幾折磨。

依家社會，好像越來越覆雜咁。以前，亞媽只比我地到樓下間小學讀書，越近越好，唔好花錢坐車去，下晝又唔駛返學，通山跑，不知幾開心。

依家d 小朋友為左入名校，小小年紀，又要公開比賽，羅cert考國際試，揠苗助長。香港地實在光怪陸離。外國D學校5歲先入讀。

我無特別train up 亞仔，亦不想佢入D最top 果d   直資學校。當然，當中有些學校收左，有被reject.   

過程中，最大得著是看到小朋友的長處短處，亦有自已做得不足的地方。。。這些都是要在k3這一年內要進步的，因為上了小一之後，課餘時間又少了，更加沒時間。

我地lee個禮拜考完最後一間，下週會同亞仔請假 (雖然唔係咁好)，飛去東南亞玩一轉。

judy

原帖由 眼超超 於 10-10-26 19:53 發表
呢一世我諗我都會記得呢兩年.

去簡介會, 攞表, 填form, 做profolio, 遞form, interview, 有d學校仲要2nd in.  

個遊戲仲未完.

每次interview前都好緊張, in完後散晒, 有時仲一日兩間, 身心疲累.

我知我咁講, 你 ...

講開interview, 我一個比一個差，阿大未interview己識緊張，阿二見完識緊張，阿子都唔知有interview呢回事。

阿子見第一间，問佢有咩做。佢話玩，"除咗玩之外呢？"我問。佢答："先生問我5,10,15之後幾多？" "幾多呢"我問，"16"。佢答。全家人笑死。

阿子去過男拔開放日，好仲意男拔，話有好多嘢玩。我問:"如果xx学校都有咁多嘢玩，你選邊間？"，佢想了一會，好為難地說:咁两間都讀。

我同阿仔報5間，看來冇咩機了。但我又唔覺得好失望，大不了就找間就近学校讀。覺得不好，再敲門吧。

meia

Agreed.  If she doesn't ask, no need to tell her.  

If asked, I am prepared to say 間學校話冇位lu, 我哋不如再睇下邊間仲有位先.  Guess she is too small (less than 5 yrs old) to ask follow up questions.

原帖由 ICbaby 於 10-10-27 16:42 發表


我諗我唔會同個女講rejected既事, 反正佢都唔記得IN 過邊間學校架喇, 我都預左全軍覆沒, 那又如何?
最多咪留係同區讀之MA, take it easy la

artroboy

簡直折磨

ICbaby

原帖由 nicolelouie 於 10-10-27 15:06 發表
我都報左5間, 一間做後備, 上星期六夜晚11點幾, 在bk 見人地話收到信了, 即刻走落街收, 結果rejected, 星期日同亞仔講, 失敗了, 佢話: 下, 點解唔揀我呀 ? 聽起有d心酸, 亞仔講完都無乜野, 佢針未到肉未知有咩問題,  ...

我諗我唔會同個女講rejected既事, 反正佢都唔記得IN 過邊間學校架喇, 我都預左全軍覆沒, 那又如何?
最多咪留係同區讀之MA, take it easy la

babiesmother

I have already tried my very best over the past 2 yrs.

We've let him study in a private kindergarten, attending parent-child music class, learn violin, english, swimming, drawing, and also interview classes. I am a working mom, but I still tried my best to provide as much family education and parent-child time.

I can see my son maturing over one after another interviews. He is
cooperative and well-behaved all along.

Receiving the rejection letters let me feel so down...I am asking myself,'have I done something wrong?' Anyway, we have to head on! May be something better is waiting for us!

suewong

不過一切交托比神.....reject 的學校一定不適合我女女的......神會choose a right school for her ^^

suewong

in 左 n 咁多間, 現有1間已2nd in, 3間reject左.  女女最愛果間已reject左佢, 我地心儀果間未知result.  心裏甜酸苦剌, 七上八落咁......

nicolelouie

我都報左5間, 一間做後備, 上星期六夜晚11點幾, 在bk 見人地話收到信了, 即刻走落街收, 結果rejected, 星期日同亞仔講, 失敗了, 佢話: 下, 點解唔揀我呀 ? 聽起有d心酸, 亞仔講完都無乜野, 佢針未到肉未知有咩問題, 我都唔講咁多, 這兩晚自己祈禱, 希望星期六有好消息.
雖然話預左機會低, 但總是盼望有奇蹟出現....

WinkyLee

絕對認同.   我阿仔重係早幾日先5歲生日咋.

原帖由 wasabi-cat 於 10-10-27 10:11 發表
其實我覺得要比個 BIG CLAP 我地 d 小朋友...

5 歲人仔，要佢地去 interview, 既要受我地父母既壓力，又要陪"我地"去完成"我地"設定既 target (去 join d 咩 class 咩 class, 去考幾多間 ...

DebuPegg

原帖由 goo_littlebb 於 10-10-27 13:26 發表
ai....the child can feel the pressure. I told my girl, doesn't matter, let's try other school to find one most suit her, and hopefully her attitude is positive.

We just registered a school this morni ...

我地真係無諗過俾壓力佢
每次interview後, 都淨係間佢開唔開心, 有無遊戲玩, 鍾唔鍾意呢間學校呀咁!!
興趣班/活動, 都會問佢想唔想玩先幫佢報...

不過, 既然今次衰左, 梗係要同佢檢討吓, 發生過乜事, 有乜可以改進... etc

唔開心, 有壓力個個, 似係我!!

[ 本帖最後由 DebuPegg 於 10-10-27 13:43 編輯 ]

DebuPegg

呢幾日
我就不停同老公傾呢件事

我地 / 大仔今次差d乜呢?....
莫非真係因為無俾佢學音樂(我知有得 2nd interview既三個同學仔, 都有讀音樂, 有學琴)...  莫非係我地無幫佢報多d興趣班, 學術班, 公開比賽.... ??

我係度不停諗...  
仲有乜可以做, 寫封信俾校長死"螺"俾次 interview機會??  

又諗, 咁我仲有邊間揀呀??  我知, 香港咁多間小學, 實有一間有得讀..