小朋友係學校比同學圍摳

軒蕎媽媽

小兒今年讀小一,比同學圍摳件事發生係9月13日,而呢件事係我仔心裹面而存下陰影,直到琴日,經我不停既追問,校長同主任先同我見面,而到終校長睇完我個仔份驗傷報告,我得到既答覆係你小朋友既傷勢都只係D(魚)傷,唔係好嚴重唧,(驗傷報告只止寫咁),校方亦質疑返咁問我會唔會係我既小朋友將件事講得嚴重左?會唔會係家長你對呢件事太過緊張?會唔會你既小朋友知你又或者想你緊張佢,佢先同你講話怕左個4個打佢既同學?除左以上既說話,亦對我講左好多好不負責任既說話,我真係好想知道,作為一間學校既校長,佢既答覆有冇問題?聽到校方既回應,我既心真係好痛,對學校既處事態度好失望,因為自從圍摳件事發生,個仔返學我每日都擔心,我所有朋友都叫我要轉校,我係咪應該要幫佢轉校呢?有冇人可以幫下我???有冇人可以教我點做?請大家幫幫我,教教我!!!

戀仔狂

樓主一定要學校比個交待呀!!!
聽到都鄧你肉痛
樓主一定要話比個仔仔知唔係自己錯呀!!!
希望仔仔早d忘記d衰野, 日日都開開心心!!!

DD仔

处理你儿子的情绪是第一要紧的,作为父母,一定给他有信心,发生什么事情,我们都会勇敢以公理面对逆境,帮助他渡过难关,也要训练他面对挑战.
如果由我去处理,我一定会要求学校安排我夫妇两人跟恶霸同学父母见面,有班主任和校长在场,讨论整件事,如果证据确实,就要求恶霸同学父母带同恶霸同学向儿子道歉,也要学校交代以后有什么安排来避免同类事件重演.若果学校还是拖泥带水,就惟有升级,到校董会投诉,若不得要领,就惟有诉诸传媒.
现在是危机,也是契机,让你的儿子学习人生功课,希望他长大以后,也记得父母是怎样以公理来为他出头.

ZZdaphne

學校有無做野
如果無真係可以轉校
投訴都無用
如果有....我會看看成效如何

Sindy

原帖由 軒蕎媽媽 於 10-10-3 13:13 發表
係度多謝你寶貴既意見!但我想(情)清幾件事!

1.係呢件事上,我冇講過大話,我有驗傷報告的,如果你地任何人有質疑我既說話,我不介意pm驗傷報告比你地.

2.我唔係因為想搞大件事先上BK講出黎,我真係好驚又唔知點做好先上 ...

就算阿仔有咩唔啱,都唔應該咁解決,個同學一定係錯,個校長更加不負責任.......我會忍佢呢次,再有一次,一定投訴及報警處理,要求掉位就一定架喇....好似我仔咁,老師話佢比人打...係個女同學..好在我平時教阿仔千期唔好還手,唔係變左打交....老師只係話,因為個同學嘈住我仔,我仔嬲得濟就撕爛左佢一張紙....咁佢就打我仔....佢亦都有前科....但老師既態度係好負責任,即日已經掉位...不過掉左去我仔位個同學就唔好彩,都比佢打......但學校係有做野囉.....而且係主動聯絡我.....我仔又無表面傷痕....但你仔比人打到瘀晒.....真係赤死我呀....雖然唔係我仔....

bbcyrus

I heard the same case last year and that happened in a famous DSS in Hong Kong.  I wonder if that is the same school.

kalongma

原帖由 軒蕎媽媽 於 10-10-3 13:13 發表
係度多謝你寶貴既意見!但我想(情)清幾件事!

1.係呢件事上,我冇講過大話,我有驗傷報告的,如果你地任何人有質疑我既說話,我不介意pm驗傷報告比你地.

2.我唔係因為想搞大件事先上BK講出黎,我真係好驚又唔知點做好先上 ...

軒蕎媽媽,Don't be scare, just do the right things and protect your son...add oil, support you...

CCC123

Would u mind PM the school name for me ?

cecichan

Would u mind PM the school name for me ?
Hope yr son can get better

Train-train

原帖由 軒蕎媽媽 於 10-10-3 13:13 發表
係度多謝你寶貴既意見!但我想(情)清幾件事!

1.係呢件事上,我冇講過大話,我有驗傷報告的,如果你地任何人有質疑我既說話,我不介意pm驗傷報告比你地.

2.我唔係因為想搞大件事先上BK講出黎,我真係好驚又唔知點做好先上 ...

軒蕎媽媽：
知道更多之前發生的事情，看得出你是個好堅強和冷靜的媽媽，對所發的事我個心更痛。

好明顯事情己嚴重咗，第一次是自已打人，第二次是叫埋其他人一齊打人，如咁樣發展下去，第下次會點打呀。

首要是關心你小朋友的情緒，與他king 返件事，看看他的睇發同佢既感受。如小朋友無顧發燒或頭痛可能係壓力的一種反射，要及早看醫生或轉介。

一定要學校比返個合理解釋同打人的父母一定要知自已個小朋友在學校所做的bad things.

轉唔轉校都要同個仔king 下，看看他的睇發。如果唔轉校最好就轉班，同亞仔講要get away from those bad kids.  If they hit your son again, need to scream out for help, but don't fight back.

可否pm我邊間學校，我都唔想我個仔將來讀這間咁無愛心的學校。

andrewpapa

to 軒蕎媽媽

This is the school located in kowloon side.........?

To protect your son and you have evidence, you have to formally write a letter to the school cc the own school board and the Education Dept.  Then ask for change of class.  

Stay away from those touble classmates.  Most importantly, tell your kids he did not do anything wrong, and encourage him to bravely face the pressure.

bobee

軒蕎媽媽, i won't stay quiet.  i will report to the police.  this is very serious as if P.1 is already like that, those kids could go out and kill people or kill their own parents in P.6 then.  Plus, the school is not doing an appropriate job at all.  These days, many educators in HK and also the parents totally ignore the importancy of moral education.  They just care about academics.  I think it's quite sad.

軒蕎媽媽, if you don't mind, please PM me this school so I can ensure my second kid won't apply that.  In the meantime, take good care and hope your son will recover very soon.  Stay strong!

pbchan

So terrible !  You need to be a "strong" mummy in order to give the fully support to your son !  With your support and all of my BK mummy support, trust your son will more brave to face the future and face the "scary" !

By the way, can you PM me for the school name?  My son will be P1 next year.....

tracytang

樓主,
  絕對明白你嘅難受, 支持你!   小朋友對我們是最重要的, 請好好保護佢弱小嘅心靈.

原帖由 軒蕎媽媽 於 10-10-3 13:13 發表
係度多謝你寶貴既意見!但我想(情)清幾件事!

1.係呢件事上,我冇講過大話,我有驗傷報告的,如果你地任何人有質疑我既說話,我不介意pm驗傷報告比你地.

2.我唔係因為想搞大件事先上BK講出黎,我真係好驚又唔知點做好先上 ...

BBJT

我聽到這個消息都覺得好震驚, 竟然小一都會發生這樣的事, 我覺得先要處理小朋友的心理先, 對日後會有影響, 再問仔仔想唔想讀這間學校, 另一方面再找校長跟進, 交代就一定要, 之後4個小朋友怎樣處理, 大家都細, 睇下藉唔藉得俾機會他們改過, 如果校長隱瞞此事, 先去教署

我覺得6歲的小朋友都是成長在教的階段, 不論仔仔或是他們

HelenHillary

希望你個仔快d開心番。問題快快解決。返學學習都未熱身。如果這間是直資，我都想知道是那一間。免得就免嘛！

aiyah

好明白樓主此刻難受的心情。按樓主的資訊，我相信當務之急是家長處理小朋友的情緒問題，增強小朋友對此事的正面看法，緩和事情對他的驚嚇程度。小朋友因此事而對上學或同學提介心是會影響日後學習生活的。

轉校考慮及要求學校徹查事件是必須做的，但相信未必能即時辦妥，過渡期間，或可考慮向校方提出轉班安排，減低小朋友的憂慮。當然小朋友在校內還有遇見該涉事小朋友的可能，那就要教導小朋友嘗試處理及避諱一下。

NorikoLam

Would u mind PM the school name for me as I am finding primary school for my son?
Hope yr son can get better