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我要做既 ( portfolio ) 已經攪掂啦, 家下就係睇個仔, 有冇人好似我咁, 好緊張, 已經成日叫自己放鬆架啦

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原帖由愚人於 10-9-15 17:21 發表
唉, 個仔依2日流鼻, 好驚影響佢星期六面試表現, 希望佢快d 好返

我仔上個星期in左一間, 我接佢o個陣佢帶住左個mask, 我問佢做咩帶住, 佢話咳左2聲, 個老師就比左個mask佢啦~~
家下傳染病高峰期, 所以要有心理準備~~

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可以找出乜野令佢好到爆，乜野令佢傻嗎？如果可以理解孩子表現的背後原因，可能會事半功倍。

原帖由 manmak88 於 10-9-16 11:40 發表
好大壓力啊.......
一來我老婆情緒
二來阿仔的表現好唔穩定, 一時好到爆, 一時傻鬼左...

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好大壓力啊.......
一來我老婆情緒
二來阿仔的表現好唔穩定, 一時好到爆, 一時傻鬼左...

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呢個星期真係日諗夜諗~~

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My daughter also loves being the best too. Perhaps I should use some other method to motivate her trying harder in the interview.
Thanks for your sharing!

原帖由 thomasha 於 10-9-15 19:37 發表
Just to share my experience:

My son cares much about whether he can answer correctly. We set up a scoring system with the following elements:

嘗試 (30%)
禮貌 (30%)
盡力 (30%)
答案內容 (10%)

Bonus ...

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Just to share my experience:

My son cares much about whether he can answer correctly. We set up a scoring system with the following elements:

嘗試 (30%)
禮貌 (30%)
盡力 (30%)
答案內容 (10%)

Bonus marks will be given for creativity.

My son gradually shifts his emphasis from the answer itself to the process of answering, e.g. whether he can show and keep his manners, whether he is willing to try even if he is not sure, etc.

I don't know if this mechanism will work for other kids. My son likes to grade himself in everything, so the scoring system works for him.

As parents, we must bear in mind that interviewers are not up to having correct answers, but rather want to observe how the candidates answer.

原帖由 cpcog 於 10-9-15 18:48 發表
I also ttry not to think too much now. It is our kids' fate.

I agree that children shouldn't be scared even if they don't know how to answer the questions. However, not all kids can do so. :(

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I also ttry not to think too much now. It is our kids' fate.

I agree that children shouldn't be scared even if they don't know how to answer the questions. However, not all kids can do so. :(

原帖由 ANNAFRIEND 於 10-9-15 18:14 發表
我報既10月先開始面試, 而家仲未好緊張. 不過都唔到我緊張, 又唔係我interview. 我報幾間都係普通學校, 唔係名校,所以少左一份壓力感. 只希望小朋友到時表現自然, 唔好驚. 就算唔識答都唔緊要, 最緊要保持有禮貌. 我 ...

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我報既10月先開始面試, 而家仲未好緊張. 不過都唔到我緊張, 又唔係我interview. 我報幾間都係普通學校, 唔係名校,所以少左一份壓力感. 只希望小朋友到時表現自然, 唔好驚. 就算唔識答都唔緊要, 最緊要保持有禮貌. 我都信收唔收係講緣份, 天注定, 真係強求不來.

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唉, 個仔依2日流鼻, 好驚影響佢星期六面試表現, 希望佢快d 好返

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If the result is good, it would be worth. sigh..

原帖由 ming_1212 於 10-9-15 00:56 發表
加油啦! 其實真係幾難忘嘅體驗ka! 雖然係好攰好辛苦!但真係值得ka!

所以我成日都同阿女講: 你地真係好幸福, 可以見過咁多唔同嘅學校, 仲有得比你自己去感覺一下你最鐘意咩學習環境, 而且interview仲可以有人陪 ...

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加油啦! 其實真係幾難忘嘅體驗ka! 雖然係好攰好辛苦!但真係值得ka!

所以我成日都同阿女講: 你地真係好幸福, 可以見過咁多唔同嘅學校, 仲有得比你自己去感覺一下你最鐘意咩學習環境, 而且interview仲可以有人陪你玩, 幾好呀! 媽咪以前就唔係啦, 我唔會知道有咩學校, 又唔會去到人地d學校, 仲要我都未去過間學校就話第日我就係响果度過六年啦!

原帖由 vvwawa 於 10-9-14 22:49 發表
think about 緊張 not only this year! Like me every year still feel 緊張 for the others and keep checking the interview progress/process

HI HI :-D

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緊張

think about 緊張 not only this year! Like me every year still feel 緊張 for the others and keep checking the interview progress/process

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You are right. It seems we have no "right" to choose at last. We are too passive in some degree. :(

原帖由 kanahose 於 10-9-14 19:32 發表
其實我個仔對每一間小學的喜愛程度都唔同，我想幫佢入到佢想入嗰間，但係决定權不在考生同家長，唯有聽校由命罷了！

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I agree that it is a "game" for parents.
Sigh.

原帖由 thomasha 於 10-9-14 19:29 發表
Of course, we have to really have the 平常心, not just pretending to have it in front of the child.

This whole application "game" is a learning process for parents too. :)

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haha ... 我就同個囡講，我地報既學校，佢學校個 best friend 都有報 ... 如果想同佢繼續一齊讀小學，就一定要比心機！ ... 又講大話 ...

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我個仔St Paul Boys編左o係第一場(8:15 am)，有少少後悔咁早交表。算啦，塞翁失馬，既然係頭一批，就當係飲頭啖湯，至多大家早少少起身，飛的士去囉。

我地同個仔講，我地報o既全部都係爸爸媽媽精心揀出黎o既好學校，入到是旦一間都一樣咁開心，只要佢盡力而為就得喇。

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其實我個仔對每一間小學的喜愛程度都唔同，我想幫佢入到佢想入嗰間，但係决定權不在考生同家長，唯有聽校由命罷了！