是否讀男女校心智發展平衡些呢?

mamamolly

可參考一些外國的研究報告︰

研究：女孩讀女子學校　更自信更聰明

最新的一項研究顯示，如果女孩子入讀女子學校，那麼她會變得更加聰明，更加自信，更加有事業心。

據環球郵報報導，這項由加利福尼亞大學公佈的長達100頁的報告稱，從女子學校畢業的女孩成績比入讀一般學校的女孩好，而且她們在數學和電腦方面更有自信。
研究中稱：“單性教育和混合教育有很多巨大的差別，兩種不同的教育會對學生在自信、政治和社會活動、生活目標和職業方向等方面造成很大的影響。”

研究指出，在女子學校中學習的女孩子，她們會對工程方面的職業感興趣，她們對數學和電腦技術更有信心，她們與同學之間有更多政治和學術方面的交流。

雖然這項研究沒有針對男子學校，不過專家認為，男孩子們在男子學校中也會受益良多。

此前的一項研究表明，男性和女性的大腦結構是不一樣的，大腦發展的速度也不一樣。女性大腦更容易對語言、閱讀理解產生興奮，這就是為什麼女孩子話比較多。而男性大腦對衝動的控制發展得比較晚。一位研究者稱：“研究結果很清楚，男孩和女孩學習和發展的模式各不相同。我們應該理解這些不同，使我們的教育方法更上一層樓。”

這項研究針對美國６５２２名從２２５所單性學校畢業的學生和１４６８４名從１１６９所混合學校畢業的學生進行了研究。

不過這份研究並不會停止對單性學校的爭議。這是因為，研究很難證實單性教育對孩子們在學習成績方面的影響，因為需要考慮學生的社會經濟背景、學校招生和課程設置等多個因素。

安省教育研究機構的Paula Bourne說，很難衡量單性學校好還是混合學校好，因為入讀單性學校的學生一般家庭背景不錯，父母也重視對孩子的教育。另外，到目前為止，還沒有任何研究證明單性學校學生的成績比混合學校的好。

TinHay

Agreed that there is no right or wrong answer.  both me & hubby came from co-ed schools but we put our girl in a all girl thru-train school because there will be less headache in the long run (we hope she made it into secondary school) & is planning to put son in boy school.  When I pick school I did not look from the point whether it's co-ed or single sex school....I only look at the school's background, past history 辦學宗旨whether it agreed with our point of view.  As for co-ed life, there are all these EC activities...whether my girl will trun into Leb or son into gay...this may not have anything to do with school, it could be bron with. There are so many things in life that we can not control, take for one, I can't control whether I'll have a son or daughter or to have more than 2 children...

心智發展平衡 is not just the works from school education, there's also family responsibilities.  Just like "港童" effect, as parents we need to take up responsibilities and do our parts

ahtan

原帖由 mosibaby 於 10-8-24 14:12 發表


多謝晒!

咁除左st paul co-ed呢d超級名校, 仲有冇d比較好既男女校可以介紹下? prefer香港區~

St. Stephens College in Stanley is pretty good too right?

BBTWIN

我有一對女, 我都傾向報女校多些. 我以前由小學到中學都係男女校, 但係我唔覺o係心智發展會有什麼特別幫助. 反而我覺得o係某些唔方便o既日子令我好embarrassed. 一路以來我最好o既朋友都係女同學, 成班女同學約埋一齊返學同食lunch, 大家可以無所不談. 如果加多個男生, 我一定冇o甘自在.  果時我反而會prefer自己讀女校多過男女校. 我自己就有這樣的體會.

我有幾個朋友都叫我應比對女讀男女校, 話驚佢地將來唔識同異性相處. 不過我自己都係男女校出來的, 又不見得我特別懂得同異性相處, 我會比較相信"人緣"多些. 其實除左學校, 都有好多機會比兩性相處的地方. 至於擔心單性學校普遍出現同性戀現象, 我就覺得除非係先天(有呢個基因存在), 要後天培養其實係好難. 我自己為例, 果時我只鐘意同女同學一起, 唔鐘意班男生. 但係我百份百清楚自己只喜歡男性. 唔係les始終都唔會係, 係就讀男女校一樣會係.

Sorb

Haha, I think you have mistaken me lah.  I have a very happy school life and all my good friends are from that girl only school.  I just do not agree your statment that girl only school is more 愉快 than Co-ed or vice versa.  Or girl only school  較不注重打扮. Many of my girl friends 注重打扮 even in school too : )

I am just sharing my experience and don't want to pin-point a particular school to scare the parents away.  Girl only school has its good side and down side, so, it is all up to the parents to weight and choose.  

原帖由 wunma 於 10-8-24 16:55 發表


請問妳讀哪間女呢? 妳的學校生活不愉快?

有些女仔好喜歡手拖手, 攬頭攬頸的, 或是真的好鍾意某同學, 不代表係同性戀, 當遇上心儀男仔時便正常返, 男仔
也母也母地亦不一定係基. ...

Sorb

Based on my own experience in girl only school, I can only agreed your #4 體驗 only.....and for the lesbians that I know, based on my understanding, they were not in-born to have lesbian tendancy, they may not have this tendency if they were not in a single sex school.  I really feel sorry for them (inside my heart only) when I meet them each time.  Their parents do not know about it until now.

Lastly, if one is targeting 1st line famous schools, single sex maybe your only choice other than St Paul Co-ed. But if you can accept and step back a little bit, I still think there are lots of good primary co-ed schools for you to choose.  

quote]原帖由 wunma 於 10-8-24 14:47 發表
有正常社交圈子, 有足夠的家庭教育, 單性學校理應不會有問題.

不抗拒男女校, 但喜歡單性學校多些. 女兒讀女校有7年, 兒子讀男校有11年, 得出的體驗是:
1. 校園生活更愉快, 因為顧忌少;
2. 同學間常以師兄弟, 師姊 ... [/quo

ggoo

我覺得可以問下小朋友意見鍾意男女校定單性學校.我個女就話一定唔讀女校,要讀男女校,佢話有男仔女仔一齊玩會開心d,我會尊重佢既意見.
港島較為好既男女校(單講津校)我知有基灣小學（愛蝶灣）,聖公會柴灣聖米迦勒小學,北角循道學校,北角官立小學,軒尼詩道官立小學,聖公會聖雅各小學.仲有其他,不能一一盡錄.之前有個topic專講12/14/16 校網既小學,你可以上去睇下,資料好詳盡.

原帖由 mosibaby 於 10-8-24 14:12 發表


多謝晒!

咁除左st paul co-ed呢d超級名校, 仲有冇d比較好既男女校可以介紹下? prefer香港區~

mosibaby

原帖由 Sorb 於 10-8-24 01:15 發表
I like your comment:  如果係我自己讀的話我一定prefer男女校, 但係如果自己個女又想佢讀女校.  

  

多謝晒!

咁除左st paul co-ed呢d超級名校, 仲有冇d比較好既男女校可以介紹下? prefer香港區~

Sorb

I like your comment:  如果係我自己讀的話我一定prefer男女校, 但係如果自己個女又想佢讀女校.  

原帖由 mosibaby 於 10-8-23 22:35 發表
我都諗過呢個問題!

我自己都係讀男女校, 而家大女考到一間不錯的一條龍女校(如果好彩直升的話), 本來我同我老公都好開心, 但係睇左之前有位bk mami講既女校問題, 的確令我有點擔心!

如果係我自己讀的話我一定pref ...

mosibaby

我都諗過呢個問題!

我自己都係讀男女校, 而家大女考到一間不錯的一條龍女校(如果好彩直升的話), 本來我同我老公都好開心, 但係睇左之前有位bk mami講既女校問題, 的確令我有點擔心!

如果係我自己讀的話我一定prefer男女校, 但係如果自己個女又想佢讀女校, 感覺會純品d, 冇咁易學壞, 但係就真係怕佢好難識異性或唔識同異性相處! 因為我身邊那些高學歷的女校學生真係好難識男仔, 佢地話真係唔係好識同d男仔相處, 而且個pool又細, 真係好難搵~

有冇mami可以分享下?

Sorb

There is no definately Yes or No answer.  I think the answer to the survey all depends on one's experience.  My answer is NO because I participated in school sport team while in school, so, know many Tom-boy or Lesbian (which are more easier to find in sport team), so, have the impression that girl only school has higher risk of this (just higher riske ge) and wants to avoid if possible.  Another collegue also replied No with the above rationale.

Two of my collegues answer No because they think their ability to communicate with opposite sex should be much better if they are not from girl only school.

bb2

我個friend 就相反, 佢兩個女都首選要讀番女校...

Sorb

I am from a girl only secondary school too.  I have been thinking of this question over the past few months too.  I therefore have done a survey by asking myself and 3 of my collegues (from girl only school too) the same question: "If you have a daughter, will you let them study in a girl only school since primary school."

All of our answers are "Definately No". Those girl only schools involved in my survey are:  St Paul Convent, Maryknoll, Heep Yunn and 庇理羅士.

Charlotte_mom

我自己細個讀女校, 我女而家讀男女校
讀男女校有好處既.........同學會多元化d, 有鐘意玩男仔野既女仔, 亦有斯文受歡迎既男仔
如果擔心男生女生開始大個果D sex issue (開始識得用性方面黎開玩笑, 笑人地發育呀果d), 我相信咩學校都有機會發生, 咁我細個讀女校, 又唔係好外向豁達果d, 都係尷尷尬尬架喇............男女校要睇下老師點handle啦, 我又唔太擔心既, 例如我女而家都開始發育, 我見佢都有同d女同學傾, 老師都有留心住d同學情緒轉變呀
至於再大個d, 講到拍拖, 有次有個同學媽咪話"咁你寧願佢同個由細既到大既同學拍拖, 定去出面搵丫", 咁又係.......而家我女間學校一條龍, 好多同學係邊個打邊個, 大家都識, 咁呢樣又係另一樣令家長放心既地方lor

cpcog

I think studying in co-ed schools would be happier. So, I wouldn't choose any girls' school for my daughter. Once we asked her and she also prefers co-ed schools. She said she doesn't just want to make friends with girls.

MAMAMEEE

我都係諗緊呢個問題, 一直都未有一定的答案. 應該話如果兩間素質一樣的學校, 我會傾向選擇男女校, 但如果間女校的素質非常好, 都值得考慮吓...

原因, 唔係怕小朋友有任何心理上的問題, 有時看到BK上的討論, 似乎想得太多了. 只係覺得希望由小到大, 給孩子的生活和社會接近一點. 身邊有理性, 亦有感性的人. 有大智慧的, 亦有非常細心仔細的人. 雖然, 男校或女校有其"儘興"之處, 但我卻喜歡男女的相處間應有的距離. 會不會太早談情說愛等? 這一切皆與家庭教育有關. 說真的, 我身邊的"女校"同事, 和同意間的相處總有些不夠'豁達'. 人是很好, 但總好像欠缺了些甚麼...
大家一起討論吓...