好煩啊~~是否應該為了仔仔放棄自己事業???

luiflora

好煩啊~~是否應該為了仔仔放棄自己事業???最近發現仔仔被姐姐偷打.....好心痛!!老公要我辭工,照顧個仔及另請新姐姐,我地一家人都對任何姐姐無晒信心了,因為依家個姐姐我地對佢好好,知佢家中有事急需錢,我地都加佢人工(高於公價),假日又由佢加唔加班..去旅行都一定帶佢一起去玩...bb又是佢湊大,從來無人對佢大聲過.平時見佢都好love仔仔,之前發現仔仔雙腳成日"魚"......問佢為什麼,佢說仔仔玩時弄傷,我地都好信佢....點知上星期一被我發現佢偷打仔仔....回想過去甘長時間,家中的姐姐原來是最佳女主角!!!真係心寒!!我唔可以唔理個仔仔,所以都應該會被迫放棄現時事業....只可惜將來會十分困難再入此行,我可以點做???點轉行??點調整心態??有咩工可以在家中做???好煩啊~~~~請過來人多多指教!!

MGfan

原帖由 yamgie 於 10-5-16 18:30 發表
小朋友今年小六, 有時同佢傾開, 原來佢對小時候(尤其六歲前)發生過的事, 記憶都模糊, 多數都無印象或者唔記得!
所以我認為, 小朋友六歲前, 可以盡量返工搵多一些儲備, 到小朋友開始讀小學時, 才考慮是否轉做FTM. ...

yamgie,雖然小朋友大左未必記得細個時的一點一滴,
但幼兒期的階段真是影響好深遠的.
應該是最不能察覺的影響,影響左你都唔知.
發生過的事不是最重要,最重要是經歷過的事會影響小朋友很多.
對我來說,最理想是在阿仔返幼稚園的期間都全職take care, 佢第時返小學都要全日la,到時都不必要我whole day take care la !
一d根本性的行為,一定要由阿媽帶先可以糾正或改善的.
大左就改唔到ga la !
我個仔1歲前我仲係有返工,請我媽媽幫手帶
但原來不行的. 不是我媽不行,而是眼見好多行為問題,我媽不懂得去糾正他.
於是我忍心quit 左份工,全職帶baby, 效果真是十分之不同.
不過勸告各位媽媽, 全職帶需要無限EQ+無限眼界,唔好將眼光只放在小朋友身上!鑽牛角尖唔識放手我覺得是大忌!

CLmummy

it's really worth if economically avalible

kerkermui

what's ur job? 介紹俾我呀?
我放完產假好可能要轉工..

kwokfred

屋企人可以幫手照顧既話可以考慮2樣架
唔一定是旦一樣

poon小朋友

原帖由 kfy 於 10-5-7 08:51 發表
我自己宜家都係 FTM。我當時選擇做 FTM 的原因係因為 0-6 歲對小朋友最重要，我係佢身邊的 Value 會比較大。我可以親自帶佢上 Playgroup, 去 Theme Park，去郊外，去 Library，去 Museum, 可以陪佢玩，陪佢讀書，lee D 都係 FTM  ...

我同你好似....有係唔做之後去學車,諗住可以接送放學,但我而家都唔係好敢渣..

yamgie

小朋友今年小六, 有時同佢傾開, 原來佢對小時候(尤其六歲前)發生過的事, 記憶都模糊, 多數都無印象或者唔記得!
所以我認為, 小朋友六歲前, 可以盡量返工搵多一些儲備, 到小朋友開始讀小學時, 才考慮是否轉做FTM.

juliso

I have a double master with over 10 years experience.  However, if i am finanically capable, I will quit my job and take care of my baby.  

And lucky you, if I were you, I would hire a maid to take care the house work and play and learn with my baby all day.

[ 本帖最後由 juliso 於 10-5-15 20:04 編輯 ]

kmmum

如果我係你(不需要為$$而憂愁),會quit job ,自己湊小朋友. 始終小朋友既成長比所有東西都來得重要

sun_rise

My background is like yours. At last, i quit my job and care of 2 kids now

原帖由 luiflora 於 10-5-8 10:06 發表
好多謝大家!!!1.我先請個新姐姐,2.會找一些課程讀下,學返手屎車,有牌8年,卻一直未正式開過車.3.之後再算~~~我唸我辭工果日一定會 ......(因為我的大學學歷,十年工作經驗,可能就甘結束,白費了)......不過算 ...

CLmummy

relax, i think staying with children is much more important! just let God lead your way!

we can never finish job but time and tides wait for no man! :)

luiflora

好多謝大家!!!1.我先請個新姐姐,2.會找一些課程讀下,學返手屎車,有牌8年,卻一直未正式開過車.3.之後再算~~~我唸我辭工果日一定會 ......(因為我的大學學歷,十年工作經驗,可能就甘結束,白費了)......不過算啦 !!做媽媽唔為個仔,又有邊個可以為自己個仔付出呢????我都唔想老人家們再為我地甘辛苦,走來走去!!不過我唸一定要有心理準備,日後出來工作,不可以計較人工,職位了........希望上帝給我力量!!!

Chris852

我幫妳頂住份工先

Relax

ILBC

I also gave up my high salary and be a housewife since my daughter's born.  She's now 22 months old.  I strongly agree that it's very important to be with the baby in their early stage.  Though I sometimes really feel bored with the routine and household chores, I'm happy that I can go everywhere with her, join the playgroups...
Somehow we have to sacrifice indeed!
I'm expecting another baby and I plan returning to work when the younger baby goes to nursery.
luiflora, you can think of working again when your baby is old enough to complain!
By the way, I had 3 maids who're not very good.  Now waiting for the arrival of the 4th one.  Hope she'll be fine.  It's really hard to have a responsible and caring one!
Good luck!

[ 本帖最後由 ILBC 於 10-5-7 15:36 編輯 ]