請問有經驗的資優兒媽媽可唔可以幫到我?

juliet

我想問0下我個細仔今年3歲3個月,佢學0野好快,我教佢A-Z,佢可以認得晒,就算抽問都識答,1-50都識數及識認,屋企電話號碼及我同老公手提號碼都識背,又鍾意玩砌圖,宜家250塊都識砌,仲砌得好快添!我宜家已經開始教佢睇鐘,佢都開始識,佢學0野真係好快,咁算唔算係資優呀?請問有經驗的資優兒媽媽可唔可以幫到我呢?唔該晒~

[ 本帖最後由 juliet 於 10-4-15 20:09 編輯 ]

傻太

我個囝2歲8個月, 識加數…總和<5諗一陣, >5要數手指…

但佢戒片戒左成年都仲會賴尿

喜樂寶寶

最重要是讓孩子朝自己的興趣發展,避免小時了了大未必佳!!!

j-mum

So happy to know parent who is so open-minded like you!  

原帖由 peremum 於 10-8-18 12:38 發表
Don't put too much pressure on your kids.  They are definitely brilliant, but PLEASE don't over-burdenthem with high expectation.  My daughter was also a quick learner when she is a baby.  My husbandd ...

snoopyyip

原帖由 dolphinmama 於 10-10-10 08:00 發表
現今資訊發達,我只可以說,若孩子不會才是有問題,反而他/她會什麼什麼已經不直得驚訝,他們比做父母的一代人幸福,他們有好的營養,有好的教育,有好的環境,要是在如此"資"源"優"質的情況下都不能有出色的表現,那才是令人 ...

mrshoho

my case is different, my son is 3 years old, turning four soon, I knew my son is a talkative boy ever since he started talking... I never teach him ABC, or buy any DVD or CD, he is not interested in books or TV.  So, I just play with him when he was little, he learnt everything from school... I tried to play puzzle with him since pre-nursary, but he shows no interests.. he would just walk away, so, I have never come across that he is special in anyway...  All I noticed is that he talks a lot, and loves to talk to anyone, even people he doesn't know.   Recently, his teacher suggested to me that he has some kind of emotional problem, especially when someone cannot answer his questions, so, I am starting to concern about his EQ.  My father-in-law suggested to take my son to do an accessment, I thought I was taking my son to see a psychologist to check on his behaviour, but this psychologist ended up giving him an IQ test, and the result indicated that he is highly gifted, he was able to do many block designs and puzzels during the test, which I can hardly believe because he always refuse to do blocks and puzzles with me.  Both my husband and I started to research on gifted child after the accessment.  I am worried that he will get told off at school because of his questions, and I am now trying to find some other professional to train him how to handle his emotion.  I will not pay too much attention on his IQ, I just hope that he can enjoy life and make friends and have fun at school.

yame

My boy is approaching 2, and he knows A-Z, a-z, 1-30 and all the English & Chinese names of family members.  He can talk in long chinese sentence.  He can sing many songs and do a pre-dinner prayer.

However, i think most smart kids can do that...  so he is just 聰明, but may not be the Talented (like Mozart or Einstein etc...)

But I totally agree that we should let them be kids, and enjoy a happy kid's life!  Happy learning!

Master_Sam

Parts of "A comparing chart between bright child and gifted child" for your reference.
Quoted from Janice Sz abos, Challenge, 198 9, G ood Apple, Inc., I ssue 34

B.C. Knows the answers.
G.C. Asks the questions.
B.C. Works hard.
G.C. Plays around; still gets good test scores.
B.C. Answers questions.
G.C. Questions the answers.
B.C. Good at memorization.
G.C. Good at guessing.
B.C. Enjoys peers.
G.C. Beyond the group.

etc...

Hope these can help you to know more about your children.

mio8390

原帖由 dolphinmama 於 10-10-10 16:00 發表
現今資訊發達,我只可以說,若孩子不會才是有問題,反而他/她會什麼什麼已經不直得驚訝,他們比做父母的一代人幸福,他們有好的營養,有好的教育,有好的環境,要是在如此"資"源"優"質的情況下都不能有出色的表現,那才是令人 ...

十分有同感，我的孩子比現今孩子早了十多年出世，對比下他真是個低B生，現時我身邊的同事或朋友口中得知，大部份的子女都十分聰明，過目不忘，背千多個字，上網或玩遊戲機一玩就明，能回答大人都不會想到的問題，但好多都是皮氣暴燥和內向，現今個個都是資優生，還是資訊發達下和獨生兒的結果，當個個都是資優，就等待平凡，沒有分別。

[ 本帖最後由 mio8390 於 11-3-7 20:17 編輯 ]

Master_Sam

I find that many parents make mis-understanding between talented children and gifted children.

Aerosol_Ma

In fact gifted kids have their own thinking. So if the kids just know a lot of words, they are
definitely smart kids but may not gifted. For one example, my son learnt +,-,x by himself so I felt quite amazed. So together with other features,I took him to do the WPPSI-R test when he was 4.2.

I read many articles there and noticed that nowadays many kids are very smart and know many words or puzzle. We are not professionals so they must be carefully assessed by the qualified professionals.

原帖由 Irismammy 於 11-2-23 15:11 發表
我個仔十三個月都已識晒A-Z，大約兩歲都已識晒A for ambulance, B for bear etc.
佢仲會自己轉生字，不會for死一個生字。

但我都不覺得自己仔仔是什麼資優，因為好多小朋友其實都識！ ...

Irismammy

我個仔十三個月都已識晒A-Z，大約兩歲都已識晒A for ambulance, B for bear etc.
佢仲會自己轉生字，不會for死一個生字。

但我都不覺得自己仔仔是什麼資優，因為好多小朋友其實都識！

suiyiu922

原帖由 dolphinmama 於 10-10-10 16:00 發表
現今資訊發達,我只可以說,若孩子不會才是有問題,反而他/她會什麼什麼已經不直得驚訝,他們比做父母的一代人幸福,他們有好的營養,有好的教育,有好的環境,要是在如此"資"源"優"質的情況下都不能有出色的表現,那才是令人 ...

gatse

Totally agree!!!

原帖由 jefferyho 於 10-8-19 10:30 發表
係唔係資優當然要做過 IQ TEST 先知啦!
但係好緊要既係唔好咁PUSH 你既孩子, 因為好多資優孩子就係咁樣俾家長LOAD 爆佢, 搞到有好多其他既心理問題出現,
所以即使IQ高, 都要佢同埋家長EQ 都夠高, 咁佢先可 ...

kristinecheng

絕對同意~

原帖由 peremum 於 10-8-19 12:00 發表
Totally agree.  IQ is not everything.  It is not even the topmost quality.  Good EQ & AQ contribute more to success in life.
Moreover, a happy & healthy (physical, emotional & mental) childhood carrie ...

monkey05

原帖由 dolphinmama 於 10-10-10 16:00 發表
現今資訊發達,我只可以說,若孩子不會才是有問題,反而他/她會什麼什麼已經不直得驚訝,他們比做父母的一代人幸福,他們有好的營養,有好的教育,有好的環境,要是在如此"資"源"優"質的情況下都不能有出色的表現,那才是令人 ...

講得好.